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Courtney White
February 22, 2023
I thought about Dr. Cabe today and wanted to share this here. Maybe someone who misses him will see this, and they will smile.
Anyone who knew Dr. Cabe knew that a compliment from him was certainly well earned. He influenced me in ways that I never even fully realized... Until my dog - literally - ate my homework.
Sending love and light to all who read this.
Gregg Locklear
July 12, 2022
Patrick Cabe was probably the most caring and influential professor that I encountered in all my academic career; sadly I didn´t know it until I had enough understanding to look critically at my own life. Thank God that though I didn´t get to personally thank Pat for his words of wisdom that took root in my soul; I will surely be given a perfect opportunity in a beautiful place called Heaven. See you then Pat.
Leah (Athaleah) Drummond (was Bailey)
February 4, 2020
I just found this. I was one of Dr Cabe's students at uncp in the early 2000s. I'll always remember him drilling us on the definition of psychology. I had a lot of classes with him as a psych major. He was a wonderful teacher and person. I'm sad I didn't get to tell him that last year I finally started my dream job as a state examiner. Law psychology research math and other stats. I think he'd be proud and that means a lot to me.
Ken Steele
September 24, 2019
Dear Suellen:
I am so sorry to hear this news about Pat.
Pat and I had become friends and (recently) research collaborators.
One of my great joys of attending conferences was the expectation of getting together with Pat.
Pat was witty, wise, and unfailingly trying to be helpful with colleagues and students.
I think from Pat's perspective, the greatest compliment I can pass along about Pat is that he was the model of what we want our psychologist-scientists to be.
He had a basic delight in the problem of understanding how we get about the world. He approached each problem with sophistication, understanding the depth of the task. He was prepared to use every skill he had to describe what processes were in operation in a fair and accurate manner. He was supportive; and shared his skills and insights generously.
I will miss him greatly.
Geoffrey Bingham
August 21, 2019
Sullen-
I am so sorry for you, that Pat has left us. He will be missed by so many friends and colleagues. He was the most sincerely gentle, thoughtful and kind fellow. He had great curiosity about life and nature and many interesting ideas that he was always eager to share and discuss. He also greatly enjoyed and appreciated the ideas of others and spending time reflecting on them. He was unfailingly modest and extremely able and creative. I had so many interesting and enjoyable conversations with him over so many years, decades. His natural facial expression was one of observant interest, good humor, open friendliness and patience. He was a darn nice guy.
Mikeb Schaeffer
August 20, 2019
Suellen, I am sad to hear of Pat's passing. I always enjoyed his, and your company and the Cabes have been missed at UNCP. Be strong and keep those many great memories of Pat in your heart.
Chris Pagano
August 20, 2019
Suellen, I am so very sorry for your loss. I was saddened to hear of Pat's passing. I once had the opportunity to collaborate with him on a paper, and he was a pleasure to work with. In 1995 he organized a symposium at an international conference, and he asked me to speak in it. This was a milestone for me at a very early stage in my career, and for this I will be eternally grateful. His research has always been an inspiration to me, and his work has greatly influenced mine. He was a friend, and I will miss him.
August 20, 2019
Suellen,
Our best thoughts to you with the passing of Pat and I had a great deal of respect and appreciation of and for his positive many contributions to UNCP. Our best to you always,Charles Jenkins
August 20, 2019
So sorry to hear of your loss. What an accomplished man he was, and a friendly, helpful presence on campus to newbies like me!
--Jamie Litty
Jim Frederick
August 20, 2019
I'm sorry to hear of Pat's passing. Pat was well respected on campus and one of my favorite colleagues.
Jose D'Arruda
August 20, 2019
Dottie and I are so sorry for your loss. Pat was a dedicated professor and valued colleague who contributed so much to faculty governance at UNCP. He will be missed.
August 17, 2019
What a beautiful tribute to the amazing and fulfilled life of your loved one...
In your loss, I offer my wishes for peace and comfort to each of you.
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