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Howard Blayney Obituary

Howard Charles Blayney
Howard Charles Blayney (77), born in Conneaut, Ohio to Howard and Minnie, passed away at home surrounded by his loving family on March 2, 2019 after a brief illness. He is survived by his devoted wife of 55 years, Elaine Blayney and his three children Cynthia Henry, Michelle Brissette and Stephen Blayney. He is also survived by his sister Kathleen Peaspanen, brother-in-law Thomas as well as sons-in-law Michael and Gerald, seven grandchildren, Corryn and husband Tony, Alyse, Gregory, Walter, Kaylin, Bennett, and Natalie, and was so proud to become a great-grandfather to his soon-to-be born great-grandson, as well as caring brother and sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews and cousins.
This Thursday, March 7th, a visitation will be held at 10 a.m. at St. Thomas Episcopal Church, 95 Greenwood Ave., Bethel, CT. A celebration of Howard's life will follow at 11 a.m.
Howard graduated from Kent State University and worked at Union Carbide for 35 years as comptroller for the Carbon Products Division.
Howard was an active member of the Danbury Lion's Club as he passionately enjoyed serving the 'Low Vision' program. As a member of the Twister's golf club, he was an avid golfer and achieved a hole-in-one.
He enjoyed gardening with a special love for growing roses and was a fan of both the Cleveland Browns and Indians. He enjoyed being a tenor and was a member of CCS, Danbury Music Center and the Bethel Senior Center Chorus Group. Howard was a vital, active member of St. Thomas Church since 1973 serving as Senior Warden and Treasurer. He never missed the opportunity to sing one of his infamous Happy Birthday solos to a family member, friend or unsuspecting person celebrating their birthday at a restaurant with his infectious smile.
In lieu of flowers, the Blayney family has requested contributions to be given to St. Thomas Episcopal Church, 95 Greenwood Ave., Bethel, CT.

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Published by Danbury News Times on Mar. 5, 2019.

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Nancy Nicholas Tomastik

May 28, 2019

Dear Elaine, Kathy, and Family,
Just today I learned of Howard's passing and send condolences for your loss. I've known him since 3rd grade at Chestnut School and always liked him as a classmate. In 6th grade he asked me to the school Halloween dance and arrived dressed as a woman! My dad certainly got a kick out of it. I was dressed as a bum, yet somehow we won a dance prize together. My sweet childhood memories include Howard. More recently it was fun to play keyboard while Howard played a "mean" trombone for our 45th and 50th AHS reunion bands, along with other classmates. We all enjoyed his camaraderie, and he will be missed.

March 13, 2019

Sorry for your loss. Take time to grieve and find comfort in knowing that God is near to all those calling on him. Psalm 145:18

Fred & Sally Kile

March 12, 2019

Dear Elaine and family,

We were so sorry to hear of Howard's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Lori Davis

March 11, 2019

My condolences to you and your family, Stephen. May God strengthen and give you peace at this time and in the days ahead.

Peggy McCloskey

March 9, 2019

Dear Elaine and Family, I am so sorry to hear of Howard's passing. My husband Mike worked with Howard so many years ago at UCC. I remember visiting your home a number of times. May your precious memories of Howard give you comfort and peace

Margaret (Peggy) Gaffney

March 8, 2019

Was very sad to hear about Howard passing. Condolences to Elaine and your family. Rest in peace Howard.

Judy Greenwood

March 5, 2019

Butch was one of my most favorite cousins. I will miss him. My heart felt sympathy and prayers are with you Elaine, Kathy and families.

Chip and Sharon Marshall

March 5, 2019

Howard was a good friend. Condolences to you Elaine and your family.

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