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Virginia Mutka Obituary

Virginia "Ginny" Mutka

VALPARAISO, IN - Virginia "Ginny" Mutka passed peacefully into God's loving arms on Sunday morning, August 23, 2020 at the VNA Hospice Center in Valparaiso, IN with family by her side.

She is survived by her loving husband of 57 years, John Mutka and their four children: Mike Mutka (Annette) of Cary, NC, Karen Kaukol (Rob), Sarah Mutka-Ahern (Ken) of Denver, CO and Jennifer Mutka-Fabac (John) of Colorado Springs, CO; her seven grandchildren: Flavia, Jon, Shirlei, Maria, Meghan, Emily and Sarah and five great-grandchildren: Felipe, Lucas, Jordan, Kaio and Noah.

Ginny was preceded in death by her parents, Robert and Irene; brothers: Robert and Richard Davey; sister, Grace Mann; all of Frankfort; Mary Honegger of Rennsalaer, IN and her brother-in-law, Thomas Mutka of Whiting, IN.

Ginny was born in Frankfort, graduated from Frankfort High School and earned her nursing diploma at DePaul Hospital of St. Louis. She met John on a blind date and after marrying in 1963 they settled in Northwest Indiana where John spent 40+ years as a sportswriter for the Post-Tribune. Ginny worked at Porter Memorial Hospital and for a Physician Practice, and then specialized in psychiatric nursing, and had a long and successful career providing mental health care services through Porter-Starke Services, Charter Hospitals, and Kingwood.

Ginny was adamant about instilling three things in her children: the importance of faith, family, and education. She was a member of St. Paul's Catholic Parish in Valparaiso where she volunteered for many years in the school library. Ginny was relentless in making sure her children stayed connected with their larger family by maintaining a consistent routine of family dinners during the week and weekend visits with extended family throughout their childhood that provided many wonderful memories. She was fierce in demanding that all of her children earn a college degree and she and John worked tirelessly to provide the support necessary to make sure this happened. When they completed advanced degrees, she realized she was now the only one in the family who did not have a 4 year degree and she was determined to make sure she "walked her talk." So, in her mid 50's, she returned to school (while still working full-time) to earn a Bachelor's in Health Arts from St. Francis College. She graduated with highest distinction, which was a tremendous point of pride for her.

A memorial celebration of Ginny's life will be held on Thursday at St. Paul's at 1855 Harrison Blvd., Valparaiso, IN. Friends and family are invited to attend a 9:00 AM visitation and rosary, followed by a 10:30 AM memorial Mass. A luncheon will be held after Mass. These events will be set up to ensure social distancing is practiced to keep everyone safe and we will have masks and hand sanitizer available to everyone. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Ginny's name to the Alzheimer's Association (www.alz.org).

Arrangements by Dykes Funeral Home, Inc. (219)-462-3125


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Published by The Times on Aug. 25, 2020.

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Jo and Jack Powell

August 31, 2020

Long time friend from Ross Clinic. Ginny is fondly remembered.

Our deepest sympathy. Prayers are with you.

Peggy McGuckin

August 30, 2020

It was a pleasure to work with Ginny when she was In the library. She was always happy and cheerful. Even as time went on she recognized me with a smile. Sending my love and prayers to the whole family. God bless you. Peggy McGuckin

William Davey

August 27, 2020

Uncle John, my condolences to you and your family!!!!

Richard Dubec

August 26, 2020

John, my condolences to you and family.

MarshaCoots

August 26, 2020

It was such a pleasure to go to work and have Jenny tell me how pretty I looked or how she loved my hair. She was always smiling,.My heartfelt condolences to John and her family .

SHIRLEY URBANEK

August 26, 2020

MY deepest sympathy to Virginia's family,,,I knew her for a short time while she worked at Mercy hospital in Gary,before her children,,,,,,,She was very thoughtful and considerate of me while my late husband was ill and dying...........I've thought of her many times........May she Rest in Peace,,,,,,,,,Shirley Urbanek..........Tower, MN

Tammy Gunter

August 26, 2020

My deepest condolences to the family. I had the privilege to meet Ginny and John at my place of employment. They then became my regulars and for many years I looked forward to seeing her on a weekly basis. She will always hold a big piece of my heart. Her beautiful smile would lighten up any room and not so good days. Much love and hugs to John and her children. I will forever miss you Ginny. RiP beautiful angel. Love, Tammy

Amber Burns

August 25, 2020

It was a pleasure to know Ginny. She was such a smart, beautiful, kind, and thoughtful woman. I think of her often and have missed our daily visits. I'll miss her dearly. And many thoughts, prayers, and hugs to John, her wonderful husband. Thank you for giving me the pleasure of helping care for her.

Ellen Schoon

August 25, 2020

My condolences to the Mutka Family. I worked with Ginny for many years at Charter Behavioral Health Systems in Hobart. In addition to many great days working side by side with Ginny, you, her family, were always on her mind. She talked about each one of you all the time. You will be in my prayers in the coming days.

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Tom Hampson

August 25, 2020

John, my condolences to you and your family.

Cristi Steffek

August 24, 2020

Ginny! I will never forget our time together at Legacy. From helping you video chat with family on the iPad (which I barely understand haha). You would be up all hours of the night and we'd look at pictures of your kids. You would tell me how proud of your kids you are. One by one listing off their accomplishments, and saying how good looking they all are! I am grateful to have the opportunity to have known you.

Maria Mutka

August 24, 2020

I love you, Grandma! I treasure our memories reading books together, watching movies, and going out to Cappo's and Culver's! I know you are safe now in the peace of Heaven and finally get to see your parents and your siblings again. I hope you are surrounded by lots of your favorite books

Annette Mutka

August 24, 2020

To My Mother-in- Law, Virginia,

You lived your live so well. Your faith was an example to us all. Now, you can rejoice and enjoy the rewards of heaven for eternity. Love You Forever!!!

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Memorial Events
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27

Visitation

9:00 a.m. - 10:30 a.m.

St. Paul's

1855 Harrison Blvd, Valparaiso, IN

Aug

27

Memorial Mass

10:30 a.m.

St. Paul's

1855 Harrison Blvd, Valparaiso, IN

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