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GARY EMERY Obituary

EMERY--Gary.

With shock and sadness we face the passing of our beloved colleague Gary Emery, the President of Oestreicher Construction Corp. for many years. Our deepest sympathy goes out to Gary's family, Robin, Meg, Zach, Katie and Parker. Oestreicher Properties

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 30, 2017.

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Keith McElwee

November 25, 2024

I can not conceive that has been 7 years but how much your presence was missed at our classes 50th reunion this year although I know you were with us . Forever missed but never far.
Keith

Assisting Seniors At Home

December 13, 2017

Our sincere thoughts are with Robin and the entire Emery Family! It has been our privilige to be of service to Gary.

Emily Soto, Nick Marra & Staff

Great times

Jay Cannata

December 9, 2017

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
You were a great Man Gary, who will be missed by many.
Rest easy.

December 9, 2017

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

December 6, 2017

My sincere condolences to the Family.
Josy Stucki, Zurich, Switzerland

December 5, 2017

So sorry for your loss. May you find comfort and strength to endure this time of sorrow by drawing close to God who gives support to those who rely on Him. Psalms 145: 14, 18

J.A

December 5, 2017

Our deepest condolences to you upon the passing of Gary Emery. May you find comfort in the words found in Romans 15:13.

MP

December 5, 2017

My condolences to the Emery family during this difficult time. May you be comforted in the days and weeks to come. Matthew 5:4

Y S

December 5, 2017

My sincere condolences to the family.The God of all comfort will give you strength during this difficult time. Philipians 4:13

December 5, 2017

Offering my sincere condolences to the Family, may you find comfort from the encouraging words found at 1 Thessalonians 4:14

December 4, 2017

Robin, I cant believe this. We were just talking abut Gary a couple weeks ago. I am so sorry.
Dave

Jody Sinkway

December 2, 2017

A terrible loss for all who knew him. Wendy's right: no family gathering will feel right without him (and his cooking!). I want everyone to know how cheerfully he managed to live his life in the face of a very difficult heart condition he had to get up and face every day, for so long now. When he got the chance for a new lease on life via a transplant, he bravely took it. I am proud to have called him my brother-in-law and he seriously does leave a giant-sized hole in the world now that he has left us. I know he is at peace now, but what will we do without him? His passing has taken a good portion of the wind out of our sails. I can only say I'm grateful for the gifts he gave my sister, for the beautiful family & home he built with her, for the jokes, the laughter, the fun, the support, the boat rides, and even the verbal sparring we engaged in over the years. ;-) He kept us all on our toes, and I will miss him so very much. Please do pray for my sister Robin, especially, facing the rest of her life now without her cohort by her side. This was NOT the plan. It takes our breath away. Thank you, everyone, for all your condolences, messages, thoughts and stories. They mean so much to us at this time. Gary was a colorful, vibrant man, and I'm sure we all have lots of great memories of him to cherish and share. Love hearing them! ☺

December 1, 2017

Nooo, this cannot be true. I am so heartbroken and devastated by this news. Sending my love to Robin and family. Just so very sorry. RIP Gary.

Karla Ziegener

December 1, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. What a tremendous loss to a wonderful family. God bless and comfort Robin, Zack and Meg and his whole extended family.

Karla Ziegener

Elizabeth Seaton-Frankfort

December 1, 2017

My husband Sietze and I have been heartbroken to hear about losing Gary - always so funny, friendly and kind! Please know that along with so many friends and family, that we're thinking of you and holding you in our hearts...

Gary Lomauro

December 1, 2017

Condolences to the Emerys and Sinkways...two great GR families. Gary will be missed... Beautiful obituary.

Frank Rappo

December 1, 2017

We are sorry to hear of Gary's passing. Our condolence to the family. He will be missed.

Dominick Porrino

December 1, 2017

A true gentleman-Rest in Peace-Prayers and thoughts for his family.

Chip Brennan

December 1, 2017

My condolences to Robin and the entire Emery family. Lots of great memories in that house. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Andrew

December 1, 2017

I had very fond memories of Mr. Emery. My condolences for your families' loss.

David Lax

November 30, 2017

I am just devastated to hear of this. Gary taught me so much, not only in business but more importantly the true meaning of humanity. He will be remembered as a true gentleman. My most sincere condolences to all that knew and loved him.

November 30, 2017

I send my sincere condolences during this very difficult time. May you all find comfort from the encouraging words found at 1 Thessalonians 4:14.

November 30, 2017

Gary entered my life when I was 14 or 15 when my sister brought home a new boyfriend. He brought a bottle of a Diet Coke and a backgammon game to our house it seems like almost every night. I learned he doesn't lose...at any game.....and he loves family. I am thankful he became part of my family and I will miss him terribly. A great friend, brother-in-law and amazingly loving uncle to my kids. Anyone who didn't get a chance to be a part of Gary's life missed out on something wonderful. He will be missed.

Wendy and Ron Mayer-Aschhoff

November 30, 2017

We are so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are sent to the entire Emery and Sinkway families

Ron Leibman

November 30, 2017

So sorry to hear of your loss. I know how hard its, but think of all the good times and it will get you through.

Keith

November 30, 2017

Never wanted the scuttlebutt I was hearing to be true.
Rest Easy Gary, I'm glad our paths crossed in this life and til we all get together for that final forever reunion you will always be a Rocker extraordinaire.
My thoughts and prayers for Robin and the family and the entire Emery family.

John Cronley

November 30, 2017

What a beautiful obituary. Sad news. May he Rest in Paece.

Steve

November 30, 2017

I'll miss Gary's generosity, his positive outlook on life, irrepressible buoyancy, fairness, and love of family and friends, especially Robin. We've lost a giant.

Donna Klein/Nussbaum

November 29, 2017

To All of The Emery Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. I'm glad I got to see him briefly 5 years ago during my high school reunion weekend. The Emery family was like a second family to me back in the day.....Cindy was a very dear friend of mine....may Gary Rest In Peace now with his parents and sister and may God give his family the strength to carry on and cherish his memory.

Donna Klein Nussbaum
Boca Raton, Fl

Wendy Marshall

November 29, 2017

Gary, I miss you tremendously and can't belueve you won't be in your chair the next time I go to your house. I want to hear you call me Windy one more time. You were a wonderful brother, friend and I'll never get used to a family event without you. Love you, Wendy

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