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PETER MELTZER Obituary

MELTZER--Peter Lael.

September 1, 1942 - July 16, 2017 at his home following a brief illness. Mark Di Giulio, his life partner of 44 years and spouse of five, his brother James Meltzer and partner Cynthia Amidon, his niece Alexandra Goldman and nephew Zachary Green, and their families survive him. Peter was a graduate of PS 6, Fieldston School 1960, NYU College of Arts and Sciences, Phi Beta Kappa Society and NYU Law School. He was an Assistant Legal Counsel at Random House, Professional Photographer, Co-founder and Restaurateur with Mark Di Giulio of the Restaurants Quatorze and Quatorze Bis. His clarity of heart was unparalleled. He led a life of integrity and excellence. Peter was a passionate collector and traveler. He was indeed a singular man. Memorial Service 11:00am Thursday, July 20, 2017, Frank E. Campbell Funeral Chapel, 1076 Madison Ave and 81st Street. In lieu of flowers, a gift can be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in Peter's name, 1275 York Ave, New York, NY 10065.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 18, 2017.

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r zeff

March 12, 2025

Ate @ the "new" Quatorze Bis which made us think of Peter & Mark the consummate hosts. May Peter be enjoying himself & have a drink on us wherever he may be. r&l zeff

August 3, 2017

Mark,
So sorry other about Peter's cruel illness. It must have been and must be devastating.

Gerry Miller

July 25, 2017

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

July 24, 2017

Mark, Stuart and I were so sad to hear of Peter's passing. He was a great guy and will be missed. Our thoughts and condolences are with you always. we will miss his dry sense of humor when eating at Quatorxe Al the best, Renee and Stu Baritz

Donald Mutterperl

July 22, 2017

Dear Mark and Jim, please accept my condolences at this sad time. As you know, Peter was one of my earliest friendships from our days together as classmates at P.S. 6 through our teen years, and then later when my wife Nancy and I would enjoy seeing him at Quatorze. We always had a wonderful time reminiscing together. Our deepest sympathy to both of you.

Don Mutterperl

David Bobb

July 22, 2017

Mark, I am so so sorry for your loss. This saddens me. You and Peter gave me a chance to make it in NYC working at the wonderful Quatorze Bis and I will forever cherish that time of my life. May his memory be everlasting. -David

Ruth and Fred Ziffer

July 21, 2017

Dear Mark and Jimmy, Fred and I were so
sorry to hear of Peter's passing. We have many fond memories of Peter. Please accept our prayers and sympathy.

Bill Mutterperl

July 21, 2017

Dear Jim,

So sorry to hear of Peter's passing. I have wonderful memories of shared childhood events with the entire Meltzer family, and of course our close friendship through high school. I did see Peter periodically at Quatorze Bis and his earlier restaurants; he was always the consummate host. My condolences.

July 20, 2017

Heartfelt condolences are extended to your family at this difficult time. Seek the love and support God provides to help you cope during this time - Psalms 29:11

July 20, 2017

Dear Mark,
A sad, sad time for dear Peter whose passing was much too premature. But so happy for your marriage and your many creative years together. You will be lonely for him, dear Mark, but know that your rich memories will help to sustain you. With warmest wishes and may dear Peter rest in peace. Jean Schaefer

Alexander Mintcheff

July 18, 2017

We were so sorry to learn of Peter's passing. Our sincere condolences to his family.

Elizabeth Anderson

July 18, 2017

Joe and I are so very sorry, Mark. We wish you peace. Libby

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