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BENJAMIN FRANKEL Obituary

FRANKEL--Benjamin. Benjamin Harrison Frankel was born on November 13, 1930 in Trenton, NJ, to Fannie (Lavine) and Abraham Frankel and passed away on May 27, 2020 at his home in Hastings-on-Hudson, NY. From his father Abe, Ben said he absorbed a diligence in observation and how to discern what was important. He graduated from the University of California-Berkeley and Harvard Law School, and spent his entire career at Kelley Drye, LLP, where he served as head of the Real Estate Department. He was a leader in joint venture agreements and an expert on three dimensional real estate. His greatest satisfaction came from training younger lawyers - he was not an easy mentor, but for those who passed his test, the rewards were lifelong. Ben served as President of PEF Israel Endowment Funds and was among the founders and first presidents of Temple Beth Shalom in Hastings. He was an environmentalist and avid hiker, traversing trails from England to Japan and was a legendary volunteer supervisor of the South Taconic Trails for more than two decades. Ben had an insatiable intellectual curiosity, studying subjects as varied as philosophy, literature, and mathematics. He once even penned a scholarly article in which he developed a mathematical model to gauge the likelihood of Joe DiMaggio's 56-game hitting streak ever being surpassed (spoiler alert: he calculated the odds at slim to none). But there was nothing he enjoyed more than telling a good story. With a twinkle in his eye, and just the right pauses for effect (he was a great fan of Jack Benny), he could turn any ho-hum tale into one that captivated an audience, including his seven grandchildren. Ben is survived by his wife of 61 years, Phyllis Frankel; daughters Faith (Howard) Levy, Rachel Frankel, Eleanor Frankel (Tom Frank); and grandchildren Abraham (Jenna Krieger), Ethan, and Joseph Levy; Emanuel and Jonah Anastos; and Jeremy and Sylvia Frank.

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Published by New York Times from May 31 to Jun. 2, 2020.

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Joe & Anne Marie Magnetico

December 22, 2021

I am so sad to see this. Ben has been a client at our barbershop here in NYC for decades, knowing both my father and my grandfather. The whole shop would greet him as he walked in with his hiking stick for his regular appointment. Ben was an amazing and kind human being and a wonderful storyteller. Always telling us a great travel story, and boasting about his children and grandchildren. We are all deeply saddened by the loss of him. Our deepest condolences to his family.

Michael Vassallo

June 29, 2020

I want to express my deepest condolences to the family of Benjamin Frankel. I was Mr. Frankel's dentist for 32 years and he was a patient in my office for 54 years. Mr. Frankel was one of the most fascinating men you will ever meet, a man of keen insight and deep intellect. I cannot tell you how many times he would strike up conversations with other patients he'd meet in our waiting room and then come to tell me how they were related to famous artists, poets, authors or some historical figure. He did this repeatedly. It was incredible. Mr. Frankel spoke often of his family and his interests, including hiking all over the world. Sadly, I never knew that we shared a mutual love of the great Jack Benny! A wonderful conversationalist, a kind and friendly man, I will miss him greatly.

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Karen Frankel Blum

May 31, 2020

Hello. My deepest condolences to all of the family on the passing of your loved one. I did not know Ben, but from his obituary, he sounded like an amazing man. My name is Karen Frankel Blum, and I am wondering if there is a family connection here. My grandfather, Asher Frankel, had a brother Abraham. I am told by a cousin that my father, Harry (who loved Jack Benny!), and one of his brothers, Benny, were named after people in Abraham's family. My father was born in 1904, the oldest of 5, and Asher and my grandmother, Mary, moved from New York City to New Haven, CT. when my father was still young. My father died of cancer in 1967, so I rely on an 85 year old cousin in NY for most of family history. My husband Jeff and I have lived in Boston for the past 50 years. We have two grown sons, Harrison and Morgan. I was a Professor of Law for 43 years and am still engaged in the civil rights area. My husband is a real estate lawyer and one son (Morgan) also does real estate law and business. Harrison is Director of Spiritual Life at Amherst College. Sorry for this very long message, but if you think there might be any family connection, please reach out. In any event, sounds like I missed out on knowing a very wonderful person. So sorry for your loss.

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