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TILLINGHAST--David R.

David R. Tillinghast, distinguished international tax lawyer of New York City, died on August 15, 2018. He was 88 years of age. Survived by his wife, Lisa Sewell Tillinghast (nee Mellion), step-son, Greg Sewell, daughter, Lauren Sewell Tillinghast, son-in-law, Stephen Wessley, and, grandson, Barrett Sewell. He was the first Special Treasury Assistant for International Affairs from 1962 - 1965. From 1999 until 2012 he was Partner, later Of Counsel, at Baker & McKenzie's New York office. In 1996, the New York University International Law School established an annual lecture series in his name. David will be missed by his family, friends, colleagues, and, many mentees. (More will follow.)

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Published by New York Times on Aug. 19, 2018.

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Anthony cecil

August 15, 2021

Dear Lisa

I am so sorry for your loss..David was a tru gentleman

Tony Cecil

June 6, 2021

Dear Lisa

I am very sorry to here of David's death...and hope you are well

Howard Liebman

August 29, 2018

David was a giant in our field and wil be sorely missed. I still remember interviewing with him at Hughes Hubbard, at the very strong urging of my Harvard thesis advisor and David's ex-boss, Stanley Surrey. I am still sorry that I missed the chance to learn at his feet!

August 27, 2018

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Victoria Kirk

August 27, 2018

Hi Lisa,
So sorry for your loss. Although I didn't know David personally, he sounds like a wonderful person, respected by many and loved by all. May God bless you and comfort you during these trying times.

Jo Ann Peritz

August 26, 2018

Lisa and family, I'm so sorry for you loss. David was a sweet and wonderful man. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Jo Ann Peritz

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