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AHERN--John Michael Alfred, author, father, husband and retiree from the New York City Board of Education, was born in 1932 and passed away in his sleep on July 4, 2020 at the age of 87. He resided for over 50 years at Westbeth, a housing development for artists and writers, with his second wife Frieda Evans. The only child of working class Irish immigrants, John was raised by loving parents in the South Bronx during the Depression and war years. He went on to graduate from Cardinal Hayes High School where he ran track and wrote poetry, and from Brooklyn College, where his love of the written word bloomed and he met his first wife, Mila. Together they raised three children, Sean, Evan and Caitlin in the Lower East Side in the 1950's and early 1960's. John wrote many novels, poems and plays, including Second Best's a Gay Goodnight, and Go Out and See, which starred his close friend Warren Finnerty (OBIE winner for his role in The Connection), and featured, in a supporting role, his son Evan, who predeceased him in 2009. John is survived by his wife Frieda Evans, two children, Sean and Caitlin, seven grandchildren and two great- grandchildren.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 19, 2020.

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Barry Finnerty

January 18, 2025

I last spoke to John shortly after the death of his son Evan in 2009. "The oboe player" he said to me, and I replied "I know." I knew he was having some serious health problems and I wish I had kept in touch with him more. He was the first person I met when I came to NY and my father“s best friend. Amazing that he survived until 2020. If anyone in the family reads this, I am reachable on Facebook and my website which is my name dot com...

Simone Taylor

July 24, 2020

No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. However, take comfort in knowing God is with you and your family lean on him in your time of need. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.

Sean I Ahern

July 19, 2020

Here is a picture of John Ahern from 2012 taken at my house during Thanksgiving.

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