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JOHN STAUB

1951 - 2020

JOHN STAUB Obituary

STAUB--John Howard III, (aka Jack, Rolly) of Wrightstown, PA and Manalapan, FL lost his valiant battle with Amyloidosis, AL on January 22, 2020. Jack was born February 5, 1951 in Washington, DC to the late Faith Hussey Staub and John Howard Staub II of Litchfield, CT. Jack attended Greenwich Country Day School, The Choate School and was an Echols Scholar at the University of Virginia. During summer breaks, he worked at The Grenfell Mission in Labrador, Quebec and was a docent at Fort Ticonderoga. Jack was a man of many talents. He was an actor, an advertising executive, playwright, gourmet cook and lecturer. He and his partner, Renny Reynolds, transformed a one hundred acre, bramble choked Pennsylvania Dutch dairy farm in Wrightstown, PA into Hortulus Farm, a horticultural destination widely featured in gardening and travel magazines. Jack was the author of seven gardening books including "Private Edens" which was acclaimed by The New York Times as the top rated gardening book of 2016. He and Renny have lectured extensively across the country and around the globe. Jack's most most recent book is "Chasing Eden," a brilliant history of the farm and its gardens with horticultural teachings from which to learn. "Chasing Eden" is listed as one of the top best selling books on Amazon. Jack is survived by his partner of 41 years, Renny Reynolds; his father, John Howard Staub II, and his five siblings: Sharon H. S. Doty and Dr. Charles L. H. Staub (Dale) of Litchfield, CT; Nancy P.S. Laughlin (Toby) of Skillman, NJ; Harriet S. Huston (Jack) of New York, NY and Nicholas E. Staub (Kathryn) of Marlton, NJ. Jack is also survived by his three dogs: Bandit, Sadie, and Parker and 18 nieces and nephews. His wishes are to have a celebration of his life at Hortulus Farm in the springtime when it is in its full glory. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hortulus Farm Foundation in Jack's memory, 60 Thompson Mill Road, Wrightstown, PA 18940.

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 26, 2020.

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Glenna Fravel Hansen

May 20, 2022

Dear Renny
My heart is so very sad at your loss of Jack. Gone much to soon. I am writing you at this late date as I am passing several of Jack´s gardening on to my granddaughter. I also just purchased Chasing Eden for her. The love that you both had for your home is reflected in this beautiful book. Thank you for making it so magical. Again, my heart is breaking for you loss.
With warmest regards,
Glenna Fravel Hansen

Deborah Nadoolman Landis

November 22, 2020

Dear Staub Family,
It was with complete shock and profound sadness that I came upon this page tonight. I reread it three times before I understood what it said. Robin and I had corresponded since I saw him one afternoon in 2013 with your father in Palm Beach. They had bought tickets to my lecture and surprised me in the audience. I was thrilled to see them both. They were both in fine form. We exchanged books by mail, and Robin sent me a kind and supportive note early last year when my son was in the news and not in a good way. Robin was always gorgeous, funny, and talented, he made the world more beautiful. And the warmth in which he embraced me still lingers. Gosh, the universe works in strange ways. For whatever reason I found this page tonight it provides me with an opportunity to send my love to your father and to all of you. I am truly sorry for your loss of dear and lovely Robin. Deborah

Chris Calcara

June 29, 2020

Having just finished reading Mr. Staub's "Chasing Eden," I had to express my condolences to his parter Renny Reynolds. My local library recently obtained the book for its shelves and being a new home owner, I checked it out as soon as I discovered it was available with the intention of applying its principles to my own land and gardens. Just perusing its pictures is enough to motivate and inspire but digesting all his extensive knowledge, advice and suggestions amounts to a master class in horticulture and design. He (and Mr. Reynolds) have certainly achieved their life goal. Such a stunning partnership and exquisite legacy.

Judy Venonsky

February 6, 2020

Dear Renny,
So very sorry for your loss.

Judy Venonsky

February 6, 2020

Very sad to hear this. Much love to you.
Judy Venonsky, New Jersey

February 5, 2020

Dear Renny,
We are so sad for your loss. We are here if you need us. Much love to you,

Mike & Carol Meister

Peter Bevacqua

February 5, 2020

Dear Renny, Stephen and I are so saddened to hear of Jack's passing. Chasing Eden is such a tribute to your lives together and heartbreakingly beautiful. You are in our thoughts.

Ken Druse

February 2, 2020

So very sorry to hear about this loss. Louis and I are heartsick. We're thinking of you.

Mary Lou Abruzzese

February 1, 2020

Dear Renny,
Lots of love to you❤.
Mary Lou

For Jack Staub

Sybao Cheng-Wilson

January 30, 2020

Sybao Cheng-Wilson

January 30, 2020

Dear Renny,
I worked with Jack at LMPM many years ago and even visited your lovely home one Christmas back in the 1990's. Recently I had lunch with some friends that worked directly with Jack, everyone had nothing but nice things to say about him. His wit, his smile, and what a pleasure he was to work with. I am very sorry for your loss, The legacy that you built together will live on, and that is such an incredible, beautiful and honorable achievement born from you both. I hope this is some source of comfort. I send my condolences....

Sybao
Hotel Chelsea, NYC

My favorite rose for Jack

Jennifer Almquist

January 29, 2020

Our hearts are with Jack's whole family. We share your heartbreak, Renny.

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Jennifer Almquist

January 29, 2020

My Queen of Sweden rose, for Jack

Jennifer Almquist

January 29, 2020

I send love to the whole family. My heart breaks for you, Renny.

Ruth Clausen

January 28, 2020

Dear Renny, so very sorry for your loss. Your friends are here to comfort you and grieve with you. Sending prayers and love.Ruth

Chris Woods

January 27, 2020

Such a sad loss. My love to you.
Chris

Jeffrey Banks

January 27, 2020

Renny,
My sincerest condolences to you on the loss of Jack. His intelligence, sharp wit, and warm friendship will be sorely missed. Much love to you, Jeffrey

Lynne Neave

January 26, 2020

I send lots of love and condolences; the first year is so difficult, but know your friends and family are here for you.
love, Lynnie

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