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Eileen Keane
November 10, 2024
I still miss John. Fire Island isn´t the same without him. I remember bringing him skincare supplies and a book of James Tate´s poems when he was stranded in the hospital unexpectedly. I remember hearing him build up young professionals and artists (myself included). I remember going to a White Party with Machine Dazzle and John being the best host. I gave John one of my photographs of Machine and knew it was in good hands. He always made me laugh and smile. I will never forget you, John.
Eileen Keane
Alex
September 25, 2013
I knew John through an investment my firm made in his energy company, Copano. He was an impressive businessman: entrepreneurial, forward thinking, intelligent, competitive, financially disciplined & honest. That would be impressive enough, but what I admired most about John was that he was a good human-being. He was always kind and generous to a fault with his time, willing to explain the most simple energy concepts to someone who had little background in the midstream business. Not too many CEOs would ever do that and I really appreciated it.
The world needs more people like John Eckel and I wish he was still alive today to hear that.
Ted Wolf
July 5, 2013
I knew John when he started doing real estate development in NYC. He always had a wonderful smile and demeanor. I was shocked to hear of his passing and miss him as a long time friend in my early days in NYC Ted Wolf
Kathleen Jacoby
August 2, 2011
I worked for John in the early 1980s with all the "Frio" ventures in Corpus Christi and Houston. Though there were many employees in the field, our office was like a small family, with young John at the helm. I was just a few years younger, and served as his Executive Assistant. John was brilliant. His enthusiasm and passion for business was contagious. I last saw him and John Sr. when Margaret and my mom were in the same hospital in Houston, about 11 years ago. My deepest sympathy to John, Sr. and family and friends who knew him as family. ~ Kat Murphy Jacoby
Gregory Peterson
February 21, 2010
I'm so sorry to hear of John's passing. We went to Columbia together and had just reconnected recently. I had been looking forward to seeing him again after many years and this is very hard news to receive, very hard indeed. I do miss him.
Eileen
February 7, 2010
When I think of John, I recall his warmth, kindness, sense of humor, unlimited generosity, and strong work ethic. He truly appreciated the people in his daily life, such as his driver Freddie. As an artist, John offered his support and encouragement, and I will really miss him. I chose the poem Wait for Me by James Tate in remembrance of our friendship.
Damaris Jimenez
January 6, 2010
Mr. Eckel was a sweet man, he would always walked, lived and breathe with his blackberry it was so funny, i loved his spirit and smile. no matter what he was going through he wore a smile:)
January 4, 2010
I am a fraternity brother of JOhn's and was trying to contact him today to see if he would be attending our General Convention in Hartford this coming weeekend, so finding the news of his recent death has surprised and saddened me greatly. His friends at St. Anthony Hall will miss him sorely. A quality person has left us. Dr. Ronald A. P. Dwight, Providence, RI
John Eckel and Wanna Hadnott at John's 50th B-day at Rudolph Projects Art Gallery
December 19, 2009
Sean Rudolph, John Eckel and Brad Blume at John's 50th B-day Party at Gallery
December 19, 2009
Paul Manning
December 18, 2009
I am very sorry to hear of the death of John. He patronized my restoration business and collected some truly great pieces. He will be missed not as a customer but as a genuine person who with quiet dignity commanded respect. Though I do not know much of his business interest’s a man with integrity and dignity is easily recognized. A truly rare commodity in business or in life in general. I offer my sincere condolences to his family and those who knew him.
Job 14: 7-10, 14&15.
Brad Blume
December 15, 2009
John Eckel, Jr was a friend and mentor. He took the time from his busy schedule to help me develop a business plan, raise capital and launch my first entrepreneurial venture. He had a remarkable intellect and vision. He was extraordinary in so many ways including his knowledge of legal, medical and business issues. At times, it seemed his brain was coming up with information and ideas faster than he could speak. John was passionate about business, art, architecture, design and charity. He was honest, sincere, kind and optimistic. I was certainly privileged to be his friend and will miss him greatly! He made our world a better place.
Craig Scott
December 14, 2009
I am very sorry to hear of John's passing. I will never forget John, as a neighbor and our years at Memorial High School. As we would wait for the bus, he would blow me away with his intellect and vision. I spoke with him at the 20 year reunion and was so proud to share his story of success. I was looking forward to visiting with him at the 40th. God be with him and his family.
Ed Hill
December 8, 2009
My deepest sympathy I express to John's family in this time of loss. He was a good friend to me when I lived in Houston in the late 80's and early 90's and I will always remember his gentle being and sincere smile.
Robert Robles
November 24, 2009
I was honered and privileged to know and work for John. I was one of his drivers in New York and became very fond of him. I will miss him very much. I send all my sympathy to the Eckel family.
Hugh Saye
November 20, 2009
Dear John Sr,
Rosemary and I were saddened when we saw the news of the passing of John Jr. What a remarkable man he must have been and I regret not having known him since he was a lad. I completely lost track of you, John - and didn't even know that you had lost Margaret. I didn't get the sad news about John Jr until today. I will certainly come by to extend my personal sympathy.
Sincerely,
Hugh Saye
John Bonica
November 19, 2009
I am honored and privileged to have worked with John for many years. John was a gentle soul with a truly remarkable mind. He cared for people and treated them with utmost respect. He did not attend law school, but he was a clear-headed and knowledgeable legal thinker. He was not a geologist, but he could read and interpret well logs. He was not an engineer, but engineers say that he understood problems they confronted. His understanding of corporate finance was thoroughgoing. John was extraordinary in so many ways. I will miss him greatly.
Jim Kovach
November 19, 2009
I'm in total shock and sad beyond belief. John was an incredibly interesting guy and I regret not knowing him better. My recent email to him came back that his mailbox was full, but he emailed me back somehow anyway and said that he had been very busy (so typical) but also that he would let me know when he got back to Houston so we could catch up. I just can't believe our catching up won't happen and I am so sad.
John was an incredibly generous person! He will be missed by so many. I don't know how to say this, but so many people that John helped have no idea he was the one helping them behind the scene. Whenever I sent one of my many letters asking for a charitable donation to a cause to help a charitable organization, John was always the most generous.
To his family, all I can say is I'm so sorry for your loss. John was a consumate gentleman and a wonderful man that we will all miss very much. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Alden Clark
November 18, 2009
As a good friend for the last 23 years they didn't make them any better of a man, the highest integrity with the largest heart. For the last 10 years he has shown up on Christmas Day and on my sons birthday with an abundance of blessing for Travis. He would smile so gently and light up Travis's heart with his generosity of spirit. I will miss you so. Alden Clark and Travis (Houston, TX)
Sean Rudolph
November 18, 2009
John was a brilliant, thoughtful dignified man who had a dry sometimes naughty sense of humor. We are honored to call John R. Eckel, Jr our friend. He dealt with people and situations in a very positive way. John was wise beyond his years—we believe he was an old soul. We enjoyed seeing, sharing and being witness to John’s professional dream becoming such a successful accomplishment, Copano Energy. He was a compass and calming presence. John will be missed.
November 18, 2009
John Eckel Jr. was a gentleman of exceptional integrity. It was very important to him that Copano’s customers be treated fairly and ethically, which makes it such a pleasure for me to work for this outstanding company. Rather than command the spotlight for himself, John was pleased to shine the light on others and their accomplishments. He was loyal to his Copano family and it was obvious that they held a special place in his heart – as he always will in ours. Cheryl and Gary Seawright
Janet McGehee
November 18, 2009
I met John only a few years ago and was so impressed with the way his mind worked, his vision and the way he treated others. I was only in a few business meetings with him but you could tell he was a great mentor and a wonderful inspiration to others. I will miss his creativity and his passion. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and colleagues.
David Bullwinkle
November 18, 2009
I had the wonderful privelege of working for John (he was my subordinate!) when John was a brand-new investment analyst at Mutual Of New York in the 1970s right out of Columbia. Wonderful ideas sparked off of John when he was speaking with his speech process often lagging his thinking by several steps. I have not been in touch with John since 1995, but nothing will ever erase my distinct memories of his brilliance, his caring and his energy.
Ashley Eastin
November 18, 2009
I’ve had the pleasure and honor of working with the Copano family for the last 4 years. Each time I participated in meetings with John, I always listened in amazement at how much he knew about each aspect of our business. He was a brilliant man. He was also a very kind man who truly cared about all of us and appreciated our everyday contributions. He will be greatly missed but I take comfort in knowing that what I learned from him will always be with me.
Kyle Walker
November 18, 2009
John was a great man. I first met him in 1994 when I went to work for Copano. He always had time to talk to me about work or family. I will miss him greatly and May God bless him and his family.
November 17, 2009
Our thoughts are with the family, we understand how hard this loss is,
Mrs Jane King Sloane, Story & Jerry Sloane
Douglas Wyatt
November 17, 2009
John was one of those unique individuals who was intensely sincere and cared about you and what you were doing. He was one of the most brilliant and creative, yet humble people I have known. Low key, yet powerful in his desire and ability to be creative and impactive in the world. He made a mark on the world through his kindness and optimism and affected many people well beyond what he realized.
Trip Worden
November 17, 2009
I had the pleasure of working with John Jr from 1982 until 1987 during his Frio Drilling and Exploration days, which then introduced me to his parents. I have to say those were some of the most formulative experiences of my working career and I am deeply saddened to learn of John Jr's passing. I had truly hoped to stop in on my travels back to Houston to visit and play catch up, but will now have to rely on the many memories from those interesting and sometimes challenging years.
John Sr, Jerry and I send our deepest thoughts and condolences to you and the rest of your family as you deal with this very unfortunate loss.
chuck kelley
November 17, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Christine Cusumano
November 17, 2009
John was truly a sincere and genuine person, a rarety in todays world. He will be missed greatly, but not forgotten in our hearts. My sympathies to his family and friends through this hard time.
Clay Lee
November 17, 2009
John was one of the most interesting and hard working friends that I have ever made. He's one of the people that reminded me that the world is an open book and to take every opportunity in life to enjoy it. He was one of the most giving human beings that I've ever met and one of the hardest working. I'll never forget learning about art and contemporary furniture from him or the piles of paperwork that lined his dining room table! John had done extremely well for himself, but never once did he make himself to be better than anyone else. He gave respect to everyone and his quiet, listening demeanor made him a joy to be around and learn from. He will be missed deeply.
Andrew Flint
November 17, 2009
In working on the other side of the table from John and Copano over the past 8 years, while he was always thoughtful and fair, I was most struck by his sincerity and honesty, rare commodities in this day and age. He truly cared about people. He will be missed, and my thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Billye and Jerry Janecka
November 17, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends in this time of grief. We remember John as one of the brightest individuals we ever met, but what really contributed to his business achievements was that he deeply cared about the well being of his employees. He will be greatly missed.
Steve Madden
November 17, 2009
I feel very fortunate to have had the opportunity to call John a friend. He was an amazing person, professionally and personally.
Judge Martha Hill Jamison
November 17, 2009
John and I had a fascinating "pen-pal summer" in 1967, debating spiritual and intellectual issues through letters while I was away at summer camp. He caused me to think more deeply about what I believe and what I know, and I was forever changed.
Dr. Caren Gertner Fritts
November 16, 2009
I knew John as a classmate at Memorial High School and am deeply saddened to hear of his untimely death. We will miss him at our 40th reunion next year but will be sure to include his vast accomplishments in our book. I am encouraged knowing his amazing compassion and intellectual curiosity continued throughout his life and led to a full life on both a professional and personal level, from the notes above. My condolences go to his family. Know he is remembered fondly by many classmates.
Gary Soloff
November 16, 2009
My thoughst and prayers are with John's family. He was one of the most generous giving people I have met. Its a tragic loss for us all, we will all miss him greatly.
Glenda Doran
November 16, 2009
I want to wish Mr. Eckel's family and friends comfort in the thought your loss is shared today by many who care more than we can express.
November 16, 2009
A man of great integrity, who worked hard and cared for those he worked with. But, he knew there was more to life than work as shown by his outside interests. He will be missed by many.
November 16, 2009
John is my cousin and I didn't see him much but my thoughts are with all of the family
Jane Treichler Tinker
Margaret Thatcher
November 16, 2009
My deepest sympathies to John's family, and to his colleagues and friends. John worked hard, long hours. I was happy to know him as a passionate and thoughtful art collector, and to be part of his enjoyment away from the responsibilities of his demanding job. I considered him and friend and will miss him.
Hank Saunders
November 16, 2009
John was a bright light that will be missed by all that knew him.
Mike Turner
November 16, 2009
We were very sorry to hear of John's passing. He was a good friend and we will miss him.
John Yantosca
November 16, 2009
My deepest symapthies to John's family and friends, know that he will be in our prayers. John was more than a boss at Live Oak Reserves and Copano where I served as his geophysicist for the past 5 years. He was an enabler, allowing his employees to reach thier full potential becasue he had the gift of listening. I have been in the oil business for 30 years and John's company was the best I ever had the pleasure to work for, becasue he was by far the best manager. He will be missed more as a colleague and friend.
Matthew Passmore
November 16, 2009
John was one of the most generous and passionate people I have had the pleasure of meeting. I appreciated his passion for American art and music and I respected his generosity and dedication in supporting numerous charities. John, I will definitely miss you. Deepest condolences to John's family and close friends.
November 16, 2009
I just learned of John's death and it shocked me. We all work hard and as a result many days pass without contact. John will be missed.
My deepest sympathies to those that survive.
Rick Bobigian
Nelson Haight
November 16, 2009
John was a visionary, a kind, loyal and generous person. The legacy he leaves behind will be long lasting, both professionally and personally. My deepest sympathies to his family and his Copano colleagues.
Brian Bennett
November 16, 2009
John Eckel, Jr. will be missed. I was taken back as I heard of his death through a respected industry publication Monday morning. I enjoyed getting to know John over the last several years. There were only a few "diehards" that worked out at 8pm. In John's case, I think this was simply a quick break from work. He obviously loved his profession and has influenced many. If the world worked as John did, we would have many more solutions to life's puzzles. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Kathy Trammell Scruggs
November 16, 2009
John was a quiet, hardworking and kind classmate at Memorial High School, class of 1970. I have not seen him in many years but am pleased to read of his dedication to work and the arts through his lifetime. His intellect and consideration of others will always be remembered.
Jim Lind
November 16, 2009
I want to express my deepest sympathy to the family in this time of loss. John was a wonderful friend and business associate. He will be sincerely missed.
November 16, 2009
When I first moved to Houston in 2001, John was one of the first friends I made. Words can't express how much he will be missed.
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