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DONALD MENZI Obituary

MENZI-Donald Wilder. Slipped away peacefully at his Greenwich Village home on the morning of Wednesday, November 21st, just shy of his 75th birthday. Born in Ypsilanti, MI, Donald traversed the land between his family of Congregational missionaries in China, the Episcopalian priesthood and, finally, Reconstructionist Judaism in his adopted and beloved New York City. He attended Oberlin College, Bexley Hall Seminary when it was at Kenyon, Hebrew Union College and New York University for his Ph.D. His life was a blend of religion, Kabbala, music, education and what makes cities work. Since retiring from the Research Foundation at CUNY where his lifelong fascination with work-force development and education was given free rein, he has devoted himself to editing his ancestors' China papers in juxtaposition with contemporaneous New York Times reportage going back to the 1860s through the 1940s. The archive is expected to appear online at the Yale School of Divinity. Predeceased by his last wife, Matlea Fagin, he is survived by his wife of 13 years Jane Weprin-Menzi, and sons Mark (Sandy), Aaron (Aara), Richard (Naomi Luppescu), and daughter Rachel (Roberto Alvelaiz) and granddaugters Rachel, Gabriella and Teresa and grandsons Valdis, Liez and William. Also surviving him are his Weprin stepsons, Michael (Anne), Andrew (Tasha Fogelman) and Adam (Ludmila Silva) and stepdaughter Julia (Ryan Suda) as well stepgrandsons Connor, Cooper and Jack and stepgranddaughters Ariela (Ryan Wolff), Samira and Lily. All of the above, along with so many others, will miss this menschlichkeit man forever. Funeral services will be held on Friday morning at 11am at his synagogue, The West End Synagogue, 190 Amsterdam Ave., at the Southwest corner of 69th St., to which donations may be made if one should happen to desire.

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 22, 2012.

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James Goldman

December 20, 2012

I came first to know Don because of his efforts at CUNY in workforce development and economic development matters in general. I was a Continuing Education administrator at City Tech (CUNY).

As we developed a collegiality and friendship, I gradually became acquainted with his scholarly and Jewish interests. Also he shared with me his own personal history. Fascinating was his personal journey.

Indeed I remember visiting his office where he showed me on his computer some of the drawings he had designed for the book on kabbalah.

Beyond that he shared in later years with me his concept of how to present his family's writings as a companion, as it were, to the news of their day - what an exciting concept.

I always admired his deep knowledge about Judaism and his desire to share it with the community.

Always he was a person of grace and humility who I deemed it a privilege to know.

May his memory be for a blessing.

James Goldman

George Glenn

December 2, 2012

I remember Don well from our days at Oberlin. One could ad that he was a pretty good fencer, too.

Joseph, Monica and Nicole Kunst

November 27, 2012

Our deepest condolences to Jane Weprin, Menzi family and Weprin family at this most sorrowful of times. We send our heart's and respect.

November 26, 2012

Sincere condolences. Carol Sonnenblick. NYC College of Technology

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