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STEPHEN UDEM Obituary

UDEM--Stephen A, MD, PhD. Physician, scientist and medical educator, died of lymphoma on January 11, 2014, at his Manhattan home. He was 69. He is survived by his adoring wife of 35 years, psychologist Sharon G. Nathan. Stephen was a highly regarded physician-scientist, internationally recognized by academia and industry for his contributions to virology and vaccinology. Throughout his career he held joint appointments in medical and basic science departments of medical schools, where he was appreciated for his clinical skills, his creativity as a scientist, and his excellence as a teacher. His research was funded by grants from the National Institutes of Health, the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, and the American Cancer Society, among others. Later in his career he focused his efforts on inventing vaccines in the pharmacology industry, in a non-profit organization, and as a consultant to start-up biotech companies. A winner of many honors and awards, Stephen was also an author of over 80 scientific papers and holder of several patents. A more comprehensive list of his accomplishments can be found at StephenUdem.com. As a person he was warm, witty, incisive, empathic, care-taking, generous, brave and fiercely determined, but what was most characteristic was that he was always fully present with everyone he came into contact with. A lifelong New Yorker, Stephen was born at Gotham Hospital in Manhattan on April 4, 1944. He attended New York City schools including the Bronx High School of Science (class of 1960), City College (BS, 1964), and the Albert Einstein College of Medicine (PhD, 1971; MD, 1972). In his 25 years at Einstein, he went from student to full professor. As a participant in the Medical Scientist Training Program, he earned a PhD in Genetics and Cell Biology and an MD. After completing his Residency in Medicine and Fellowship in Infectious Diseases in 1976, he joined the Einstein faculty in the departments of Medicine; Cell Biology; and Microbiology and Immunology. His research focused on the mechanism by which viruses cause persistent infection in the central nervous system. From 1989 to 1994, Stephen was Professor in the Departments of Medicine; Neuroscience; and Microbiology and Medical Genetics at the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey (UMDNJ). In his role as Director of the Division of Infectious Diseases, he developed much-needed HIV in-patient and out-patient treatment units at University Hospital in Newark. Joining Wyeth in 1994, Stephen, as Vice-President for Viral Vaccine Research, oversaw the expansion of the company's programs to include vaccines for chronic infectious diseases, hospital-acquired infections, diseases affecting the geriatric population, respiratory syncytial virus, and HIV in addition to continuing Wyeth's work on rota-virus and the influenza vaccine delivered as a nasal spray. In 2006, committed to creating an AIDS vaccine, he joined the International AIDS Vaccine Initiative (IAVI) as Senior Vice-President of Research and Development. He was instrumental in developing a vaccine that IAVI is now evaluating in a clinical trial. In addition to his wife, he is survived by a sister, Edith Osman, a sister- and brother-in-law, Vicki and John Nelson, four nieces and nephews, and eight grand-nieces and grand-nephews. Stephen's parents, Arthur and Judith Udem, Jewish immigrants from Latvia who arrived in the US in 1940, died in 2006. A previous marriage to Linda Donaldson Kirk ended in divorce. A memorial service will be held on May 4th at 2:00 at the Ethical Culture Society, 2 West 64th Street.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 9, 2014.

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Dominic Tomasello

August 10, 2021

I worked as an AIDs RN at University Hospital Newark. A wonderful human being, very personable and inspired me throughout my career to do the right thing in patient care. He greatly cared for his patients and his level of scientific and medical knowledge was amazing.

Janice Kimpel

March 26, 2014

I feel fortunate to have had the opportunity to work with Steve on vaccine development; he was a man of the strictest integrity and a man who combined his wealth of medical knowledge with a keen research-focused mind to address significant health issues of our time. A truly special individual.

Carmen Mongelli

March 25, 2014

He was a wonderful man, Doctor and Scientist. I was very fortunate to have worked for him and I took pride in doing so. I admire him for his determination, wisdom and passion for his work. He was smart, caring and kind but most of all, courageous. He stood up for what he believed in and taught me to persevere. His scientific and medical contributions to this world was appreciated by many and he left a legacy for others to follow. I hope that he is smiling down on us and the people he cared for. He will truly be missed.

Carmen D. Mongelli

Peter Young

March 22, 2014

Steve brought an immediately evident and magnetic humanity to every interaction - you recognized it and were drawn to it immediately. That alone made him exceptional. He was one of those people to whom the name mensch truly applied.

shelly gelbman

March 21, 2014

Steve was the smartest man I ever met. I worked with him for many years at New Jersey Medical School. He was a mensch in very sense of the word. I will never forget him. Rest in peace my dear Stevala.

March 10, 2014

He was a wonderful person in every regard, both socially and as a scientist. It was truly my fortune to have known him and worked with him both as a colleague and politically. He was a person of great courage. I only regret that we lived so far apart after completing our training so that we could have seen more of one another. I will truly miss him. This is a great loss to all.

George Kaysen

Larry Norton

March 10, 2014

I too was a member of that band of interns and residents, forever bonded by our experiences as well as our ideals and aspirations. Steve was even then marked for greatness by his intelligence, collegiality, and dedication to healing the world, starting with his own patients. He will be missed by everyone he touched. And his remarkable achievements will live on.

Dan LOrber

March 10, 2014

I was lucky enough to work with Steven during our internship and residency. He was a superb physician - caring, careful, committed. Seve was a true role model for future generations of physicians. This is a loss to each of us and to American medicine.

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