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COLBY--Barbara Heinzen,

died peacefully Thursday, July 16 at the age of 94. She served with her husband and their family during his long CIA career in Sweden, Italy, Vietnam, and Washington, D.C., culminating in his service as Director of Central Intelligence from 1973-1976. She served on the Agency's Family Advisory Board, and played an important role in the passage of legislation guaranteeing a share of lifetime benefits to former spouses of Agency employees. She received the CIA Director's Award in 2002 for her "untiring efforts on the part of former Agency spouses" and her "constant concern for the welfare of Agency families," Mrs. Colby was born Barbara Ann Heinzen in Springfield, Ohio on December 25, 1920. Her father, Karl, was a journalist, businessman, and president of the Bayer Aspirin Company in the mid-1930s. Her mother Annette was a fashion coordinator for the Montgomery Ward Company. Barbara received a B.A. in History from Barnard College in 1942 and was an advertising copywriter before marrying William Egan Colby in 1945. Their marriage ended in divorce. In 1992 she received an M.A. in the Humanities from Georgetown University. She was a Dame of the Order of Malta. A beloved mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, she is survived by four children, eight grandchildren and three great- grandchildren: her son Jonathan and Susan Colby of Jupiter Island, FL, her son Carl Colby of Washington, D.C., her son Paul and Amie Colby of Alexandria, VA, and her daughter Christine Colby Giraudo and John Giraudo of Washington, D.C.; her grandchildren Emily and Scott McLellan, Elbridge Colby and Susana Cordeiro Guerra, George Colby, 1st Lt. Arthur Colby, USMC, Peter and Sabrina Giraudo, and Charles and Elizabeth Colby. A daughter, Catherine Ann Colby, predeceased her in 1973. The funeral will be held at Holy Trinity Church in Washington, D.C., at 10:30am on Thursday, July 23.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 20, 2015.

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August 9, 2015

Barbara and I met as classmates in the Class of 1942 at Barnard . Our paths crossed at various times and in various places throughout our lives and always with the greatest pleasure. She was a woman of principle and compassion, a giving friend, and a warm, vivacious personality. I am grateful to have shared her friendship. Doris Coster

June Jeffries

August 6, 2015

Dear Paul,

I met your mother around 20 years ago when we both attended a Saturday alumni college function at Georgetown. She and I had a very interesting conversation. She was proud of you. I know the pain of loosing your mother and loosing your last parent. My sympathy to you and your family.

July 29, 2015

May your hearts not be troubled,the God of all comfort and compassion will see you through this time of sorrow,just ask him cause he cares about the troubled hearts.
Sandra of NYC

Gwen Allmon

July 26, 2015

Ours was a friendship which ripened during summer vacations in Vermont spent on the shore of Lake Champlain, beloved by us both, and then continued to grow. Chuck and I came to know Barbara through renting their camp before owning our own nearby. We moved through experiencing her vivacious company and gift for hospitality to finding a woman of deep faith. Faith and family were the twin pillars which supported Barbara's long, rich life, going down to bedrock and sustaining her through times of crisis. Our children and then our grandchildren bonded with each other, but Barbara was always at the core. She seemed ageless to me, remaining trim and attractive, never self-centered, with a lively care for what concerned others and a mind that remained keen. There was always a warm glow about Barbara and she kept her bright spirit to the end.
Now, gallant lady, you have inherited the full light of God's promise in Proverbs 5:18. "The path of the righteous is like the light of dawn, that shines brighter and brighter until the full day." We count ourselves blessed to have known you, and we will miss you.

Rhoda Septilici

July 22, 2015

My deepest condolences for the loss of a great
Lady.

Scarlett DeShaw

July 19, 2015

When we lose a loved one, we gain an angel in heaven that watches over us. May you take comfort in knowing that you have an angel to watch over all of you now. With my most sincere condolences.

Peggy Conlon Madigan

July 19, 2015

Barbara Colby was a special friend of the family Conlon, from when she greeted our arrival at the Saigon airport summer 1960, through adventures there and the Washington DC area in later years.
She was remarkable and gracious.

Peg Plunket Hyland

July 19, 2015

On behalf of my mother, Jean R. Plunket, and our entire family, I'm writing to extend our deepest sympathy to all of Barbara's family; Barbara was a dear friend for many years, and will be greatly missed. We'll be keeping her and all of you in our prayers.

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