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Laval
May 24, 2025
My sincere condolences to the family.
I was a student intern many, many years ago. I did copy stand work for Gary and some of his friends. My period. My find this memories of Gary was his wonderful sense of humor. He was a gentleman after work. He would walk me to the subway, so I always appreciated that over the years I´ve visited Crosby Street and looked up to the building. I even knocked on the door. Gary traveled a lot as I remembered, and I thought that he would just faint that I´ve gone to be a grown married woman with two strapping young sons. One is very interested in photography. I remember Frank Owen as well. I used to do photography coffee stand work of your African mass that you guys traveled all over the world to get Thank you so much for the memories. I didn´t know that Gary passed away. I would love to get together, Frank and the others that may be still be around my name is Sheila Laval, and I just know that Gary somewhere paintings in the heavens and having cocktails and telling jokes my best to all .
Shelia Laval
September 30, 2024
I worked as an artist intern for Gary many many years ago. I did copy stand work for his collection of African masks. I learned a lot from Gary and thought about him often. I am now a married woman with two grown sons. I would have loved for them to have met Gary. Gary introduced me to Frank and other artist friends. He is missed. He was talented and funny. I never forgot him and I never will. Art and Photography - Rest in Peace
Suzanne McConnell
May 24, 2024
I dream of Garry every so often, and I'm so glad to encounter his passionate energy alive in my dreams. We all impart to others, become part of them, and Garry is still with me as with others.
Suzanne McConnell
May 26, 2023
Forgot to say, it was a gift for my 50th birthday.
Suzanne McConnell
May 26, 2023
I have a small lovely painting of a pear in an elaborate gold frame that Garry gave me, hanging in my writing room. It reminds me of his singular energy.
Frank Owen
May 25, 2023
There is a photograph of Garry, Jeff Way and myself shaking hands together prior to giving a lecture years ago. It hangs in my studio and I see it every day. It is inspiring.
Nancy Storrow
May 24, 2023
Sandy, seeing you and your own "cabinet of curiosities" recently, I could only think what a deep and rare adventure you both had. Sending you a hug. Nancy
Nancy Storrow
May 24, 2020
Much sympathy Sandy. Love
James Wilson
June 19, 2018
Garry was my best friend in Kansas City and caused me to be on many of his adventures. He was always kind, funny, and supportive. He even came to my first one man exhibition in New York City. He was a lovely intense man who was right in the middle of the creation of art in the time of the creation of Soho and that art scene.. I miss him
June 7, 2017
I just learned of Garry's death and am deeply saddened. My sincere condolences to Sandy. I know without a doubt that he adored you. The words you wrote, honoring his legacy, couldn't have come from anyone who didn't know him as intimately as you. He was one of a kind - highly intelligent, inquisitive, quit-witted. I had never met a man like Garry, and I doubt I will ever again.
Art Schade
July 10, 2016
Garry filled a space in my awareness that very few were cap-
able of. From his house boat in Kingston to rooming in the
carriage house, Garry was always inscrutable and erudite. A
conundrum who will be truly missed.
Susan Austad (Zucker)
June 5, 2016
Dear Sandy,
My condolences to you on your loss. Garry was a good friend of mine in the late 1970's, 80's and even 90's. I can confirm that he was big-hearted and curious about so many things. I have two masks from him (African and Bolivian) that I treasure. I admired his energy and his ability to laugh at life, including himself.
I am saddened to hear of his passing.
Heartfelt wishes to you and to the family, Susan Austad
jane and gerry logemann/rosen
June 4, 2016
We are sorry for your loss, Sandy
June 3, 2016
Sandy, So sorry to hear about Garry. In the 1950's Garry and I were friends when I lived in Arkansas City. He was a very special person to all who knew him. I wish I could have known you and Garry in adulthood. Again, you have my very deepest sympathy. Sharon (Hill) Mattson Girard, Kansas
Frank Owen
June 3, 2016
Garry was one my life's great friends. Right up to his death, he was a regular contact for talk about New York and the people we knew together. We yakked on the phone frequently and I have saved three dozen voicemails where he gets on my case. We dined together when I came south and we saw each other a few times in Kingston where he had his house boat. He was fortunate to have Sandy keep an eye on him in recent years and he adored her and told me so. I miss him.
Suzanne McConnell
June 2, 2016
Garry meant a great deal to me back in the day, and still. His robust nature was one of a kind. Difficult to believe he's gone.
I regret not rekindling and updating the relationship he proposed for us all, and not reaching back out as I kept intending to do the last two years. Wonderful bio, Sandy. You must be bereft. Take care, and keep me in the loop for the memorial party. Suzanne
Jerilea Zempel
May 31, 2016
Dear Sandy:
So sorry to hear about Gary.
Best,
Jeri Zempel
John Torreano
May 30, 2016
I am so sorry to hear of this loss. Garry and I participated in many exhibitions back in the day. We were closer then. He was a very gregarious and generous man. My condolences to Sandy..
May 30, 2016
Sandy, I didn't know he was so ill. I am so sorry. Wish I could be there. Lois Baron
J Shakin
May 30, 2016
Our condolences, Sandy.
May 30, 2016
Very sorry for your loss. May the words penned at Ps 18:2 bring you comfort during this difficult time. JF
May 30, 2016
my sympathy, Sandy. and a hug. xoN
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