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THEODORE RUBIN Obituary

RUBIN--Theodore Isaac, MD, famed psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, and author, died in the morning of Saturday, February 16, 2019. Loving husband of over 70 years to Eleanor Katz, who predeceased him in 2017; beloved father to Jeffrey (Beverly), Trudy, and Eugene (Jorin); grandfather to Nathania (Felix), Jacob, Harry, Emily, Allie, and Joe; and great-grandfather to Max. He was the author of 31 books, including the bestselling novel "Lisa and David," adapted into the 1962 film, "David and Lisa; Compassion and Self-Hate;" and "The Angry Book." Born in Brooklyn, Theodore was president of the American Institute of Psychoanalysis, founded by Karen Horney. In his writing and private practice of 60 years, he worked to expand upon Horney's ideas, helping thousands. His warmth, wisdom, and humor will be missed, but will live on through his teaching.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 21, 2019.

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Larry Spector

November 12, 2023

Teddy Rubin was my dad´s best friend. They may have met during their residency or med school. In the 60s, I recall he and his wife would visit us in New Rochelle. My dad called him Teddy and his wife was Ellie. They fell out of touch as they got older and we moved to Texas. My dad was Bernie Spector. Lawrence Spector

Barbara Talman

July 25, 2021

I know this Is very late in saying, but your father´s book "Compassion and Self Hate" saved my life several times.

Meri Sonnett

February 21, 2019

Dear Jeffrey, Trudy and Eugene- My family (Enid Sonnett's children) are thinking of you and sending our love and deepest condolences. Your father was omnipresent in our lives, a hugely influential figure...wise and compassionate.
We all relied on his wisdom, unwavering support and guidance.
Much love, Meri , Stacy and Tony Sonnett

Amy Niles

February 21, 2019

Condolences from the Niles Family. Ted and my father Gerald Niles were collaborators at the Karen Horney and I believe we also lived in the building for a time. May his memory be a blessing.

February 21, 2019

Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. One day Theodore will return to the days of his youthful vigor as promised at Job 33:25. Until the fulfillment of Gods promise, may you be comforted by your cherished memories.

My deepest sympathy
Evelina Z

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