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James Cotner Obituary
James H. "Jamie" Cotner, 36, of Cuyahoga Falls, was killed July 5 in a motorcycle accident.
A memorial service will be held 11 a.m. SATURDAY, July 12, at the Billow FALLS Chapel, 1907 23rd St., Cuyahoga Falls 44223 with Major Marie Edinger officiating. Friends may call one hour prior to the service on Saturday. In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund has been established for James Cotner, for the benefit of his daughter, at First Merit Bank.
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Memories and Condolences
for James Cotner
Sponsored by Virg, Karen, Chrystal, Cody & Ali.
Jenn hudak
July 1, 2021
Thinking of you this weekend. Always in thoughts and prayers!!
September 5, 2012
You gave me a much needed laugh today, buddy. Thanks for the great memories. Its all good.
Karen Cotner
January 9, 2011
Another birthday and Christmas has gone by this year. It doesn't get any easier. Ali is a great legacy you left us. She is so much like you that it amazes me. Miss you so very much during the holidays. I hope you are happy and hope one day to see you. Love ya, Mom
December 25, 2009
I remember how excited you always were for Santa. Today Ali was just as excited and happy. I only wish you could see your happy little girl. She reminds me so much of you - she even paces when she talks on the phone. I still shed tears and miss you so much. I hope you are in a safe and happy place and we will see you one day. Love ya. Mom
July 26, 2009
Theres not a day that goes by that I dont think about you...
July 2, 2009
Time does not fly when you miss someone. Each day I expect a call asking me to watch Ali, but I never hear your voice. Miss you so much. It's been a difficult year without you for all of us. Love you son. Mom
June 27, 2009
Cant belive its been a year already...miss you moto
September 24, 2008
I miss you & think of you everyday.
September 3, 2008
I miss you jamie....
Jason Myers
August 12, 2008
To the Cotner family,
I'm very sorry for your loss. Jamie was a long time friend from the days in school. He touched many lives and he will be missed.
Marc Cooper
July 21, 2008
mr and mrs cotner and chrystal,
i heard about Jamie's accident last week and wanted to give you all my deepest condolences and sympathy during this rough time. i hadnt seen Jaime since graduation but always had fond memories of him and your family. May GOD bless your family during this time of need.
John C. Davidson
July 19, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Dani Herald
July 17, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God hold all of you in His loving arms and comfort you.
Michelle Johnson (Aimers)
July 15, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Jamie was such a good friend to me in high school. Lots of late night phone calls & lots of really good times together. I have not talked to him in over 10 years, but those memories will last forever. He really was a good friend to have. My sympathy for your family, esp. his daughter.
Joanne Ferrise
July 13, 2008
To the Family of Jamie,
I have many happy memories of Jamie whe I worked with him in the 90's at Little Tikes and he was truely a great guy. I am sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy,
Joanne
Angel Frascella
July 13, 2008
To the family,
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you all! May God give you all that you need through this difficult time.
Jamie,
My heart is broken and I'll miss you so much. You never left me without a smile and a hug, saying "see ya later MaMa". I'm so thankful that those were our last words because I WILL see you later my friend! See you on the other side when we will once again share smiles and crazy stories. You were taken from us much too soon but please know that I love you and that you'll forever be in my thoughts.
Sam and Joan Diller
July 12, 2008
Dear Virg and Karen, please accept our sympathy in these days of tragic loss. We have been thinking of you and praying for your comfort in these days. Sincerely, Sam and Joan Diller.
LISA (EDWARDS) KOLLERT
July 12, 2008
I have many memories of Jamie that go all the way back to high school and hanging out at Blue Sky and with all the Sheehan Clan (you know who you are), to my pre-wedding party when Jamie made the biggest fire I have ever seen in my back yard ;), and all the good times at Wibles. Thank you for the great memories, I will never forget them buddy!
My deepest sympathies go out to all the family. He really did touch many hearts and will be greatly missed! God Bless!
Tate Blough
July 11, 2008
Virgil, Karen,and Crystal,
I'm so sorry to hear about James. Even though it's been a few years since we'd talked, it seems like yesterday. James was a great guy. He always kept me laughing. We'll all miss him alot, but I know he's in a better place. If I can do anything please call. God bless.
Tate, Audra, and Nathan Blough
Teresa Dick
July 11, 2008
Virg and Karen,
I was so sorry to hear about Jamie. John was just telling me how all of you were celebrating your usual 4th of July with all the fireworks and laughter that came along with the holiday. When I lived next door it was always fun to come over and see what Jamie was going to launch next.
My heart goes out to you, Crystal, Cody and Ali and all the people who knew Jamie. Your all in my prayers and I am thinking of you.
Love, Teresa
Melissa Johnson
July 11, 2008
Chrystal,
I am so sorry on the loss of your brother and friend. I wish I had words to help ease your sadness. May time and memories bring you peace. Jamie loved you and the kids and made a difference in the lives of so many people in such a short time. He will be missed. May he rest in peace, as he watches over you, Cody & Ali and finds ways to remind you of him . . . and make you smile again.
My sincerest sympathy
Dan & Kim Spencer
July 10, 2008
To the Cotner Family
I worked with Jamie for several years, it was pleasure working with him. He loved life and talked often about his daughter, you could tell loved her very much. He will be missed.
Loran & Becky (Wible) Lopp
July 10, 2008
Virg & Karen -
Our deepest sympathy for your loss of Jamie. I believe "living life to its fullest" was his motto. Perhaps he knew he did not have 90 yrs to "get it all done".
How fortunate we are to be able to keep memories in our hearts forever of those we love. May those memories help bring you peace.
Kimberly Sheehan
July 10, 2008
To the Cotner Family and Friends,
I am the little sister of Brian Sheehan and i met Jamie when i was in 7th grade. He was always a lot of fun and just a joyful soul. Jamie was a great friend to my brother and never minded hanging around his lil' sister. I have been told what a wonderful father he was. Brian has more stories than I think he will ever be able to tell. I am so sorry for your loss and feel for how much you must be hurting. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
John wilkie
July 10, 2008
To all who knew and loved Jamie my prayers and love goes out to all of you in this time. After reading this guestbook this morning the tears welled up and the memories of jamie appeared more vivid. He was a good friend after my car accident and kept my spirits up and me laughing even though my mouth was wired shut. I remember riding to the carnies in your moms old mustang and the many nights with all of the gang at the drive in the many great get togethers at wibles. To you my old friend you will be missed.
Denise Sheehan-Meadows
July 10, 2008
To Jamie's Family,
Jamie was a good friend to my son Brian. He was a kind soul and a sweet person. I witnessed his adoration towards his daughter and friendship for my son and we were all better for it. I am so sorry for your loss.
Ethan
July 9, 2008
Im so glad we got to bury the Hatchet, Hes was an Fun roommate, and a great friend to go to concerts with...Whos Going Chicken Huntin?
Victor and Jennifer Wheeland
July 9, 2008
To the Cotner family,
We have been praying for the good lord to give all of you his love, and the strength to somehow get through this terrible tragedy.
James was a good friend of ours for many years.He was a kind and loyal friend to everybody!He kept us all laughing and in good spirits!
James loved life, and he always had a load of fun in all his adventures!
Perhaps ,we all might find some minor comfort in knowing that he "lived" more in the 36 years he was with us,than some people do thier whole life!
We will all miss him dearly, but he will live forever in the thousands of wonderful memories he left us with.
May god bless you in the times to come!
J.D. & Rosie Richard
July 9, 2008
We would like to extend our sympathy to all of Jamie's family.
Cody Zrelak
July 9, 2008
Uncle Jamie,
I miss you a lot. I wish you were here to play chess and go dirtbike riding. I'm glad you taught me how to play soccer, use the computer, play games, work stuff, fix stuff and how to be nice and kind to others. I made a build-a-bear the day you died and I gave it a yellow hard hat, a belt with tools and a silver dog tag. I even named it Jamie and I will keep it all my life. Once again, I miss you a lot and wish you were with me. I had a great time staying up with you all night. I'm so glad you showed me many things about Star Wars and I love it a lot. You were a very great uncle and I'm glad you came to live with me. It was nice of you to teach me how to ride a dirtbike and ride with me. I'm so happy I had a great uncle like you. And finally, I miss you a lot. I love you.
Love, Cody
Crystal Conner (Medley)
July 9, 2008
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation
Crystal Conner (Medley)
July 9, 2008
Dear Cotner Family,
I am sorry to about jamie, Jamie was a great guy and a father, uncle. I remember meet jamie from david. we would go over to chrystal's house and have a cookout. He would make everyone laugh and when you need help with anything he would do it. I also worked with jamie at Little Tikes. I will miss you... Ali you are daddy's little girl.. He will always be there.
Susan Williams
July 9, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Susie and Chuck Williams (Wisner)
The Staff of Billow Funeral Homes
July 9, 2008
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
Alyssa Cotner
July 8, 2008
Daddy,
I miss you. I love you.
Love, Ali
Wade & KATHY BISHOP
July 8, 2008
Virgil &Karen Our thoughts and prayers are with you &yours. No words can help with your sadness just know you are thought of in your time of sorrow,your deepest sympathy for the lost of your child.
Chuck and Jen Fertig
July 8, 2008
Cotner family,
As we have grown to know and love Jamie over the past 15 yrs we have gained so many memories,that we don't know where to begin to express how he touched our lives. We cherished every moment Spent with him and his memory will live with us forever.
He was a great father to Ali, a great brother, a great son and to us the best friend anyone could ask for. We believe everyone who knew Jamie was truly blessed to have " The Cotner" as he called himself, in their lives. There was never a problem we had that he did not have the answer to and the time to lend a hand to anyone. So to The Cotner until we meet again " How' m I doing? "
We love ya always and to the Family Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rich & Shannon Moore
July 8, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Cotner, Ali, Chrystal, & Cody:
Our deepest sympathies are with you at this most difficult time. My husband & Jamie worked together for many years at Little Tikes. We have many fond memories of Jamie and his zest for life. He had an infectious smile and the most generous of hearts. He had a knack for bringing out the laughs in anyone.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort and peace in your memories of Jamie.
David Swain Jr
July 8, 2008
Virgil, Karen and Crystal,
My deepest sympathy in your time of sorrow. I will always have the memories of being neighbors and all the fun we had growing up.
Christie Watson
July 8, 2008
Virgil & Karen,
We were shocked to hear about your son and we are so very sorry. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Derek & Christie Watson
Creaig Earnest
July 8, 2008
I'll remember Jamie as a loving father and uncle, and as a good friend. He was always quick to offer help, weather it was getting me discounts on Tykes toys for my kids (Thanks, Buddy), or battling in a mosh pit in the old days (Thanks, again, Buddy). I am thankful for all of the good times we had together and I will miss him.
Later, Dude.
Ray and Nita Worstine
July 8, 2008
Dear Virg, Karen and Chrystal,
We are so deeply saddened by the loss of Jamie. I can only imagine the pain you must be going through at this time. There are no words that can make this any easier, but please know that we care, and we love all of you. We are praying that God will hold you close and comfort you with the many happy memories you have collected.
Jamie was a good father to Ali, and a loving uncle to Cody too. They will never forget him. He will live on in all our memories.
Jamie definitely loved his family and friends and made the most of his time on earth. Grandpa Cotner told us each to "live life to the fullest" and Jamie certainly did that. He did so much to help others, and he gained a lot of friends during his lifetime.
Jamie has brought us joy, made us laugh, and given us the blessing of happy memories. We are both remembering with you, and sharing your sorrow.
Uncle Ray and Aunt Nita (Cotner) Worstine
Dan Sebastian
July 8, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Tricia Kot
July 8, 2008
You always brought so many smiles and so much laughter to me for so many years..... I will miss you so much!!!
Carl, Jeannie and Gabrielle Raatz
July 8, 2008
Our prayers are with Jamie's family and friends and hope they find peace, comfort and rest in God's Love.
Our deepest sympathies to all who knew Jamie.
B.E Well
July 8, 2008
He was a good man who loved his daughter, see you on the other side, friend.
Harley Ray Spurlock II
July 8, 2008
Rest In Peace Lil Buddy
Sherry Diller
July 8, 2008
Uncle Virg, Aunt Karen & Chrystal,
I am so sorry. My heart is hurting and I can only imagine your pain.
I will hold our memories dear; swinging in the barn, Easter egg hunts and family Christmas.
I will miss Jamie. My heart is with you and Ali and Cody.
I'm sending you my love and we will be together soon.
Sherry, Andy, Samuel, Jacob, Jonah and Abby
Sasha (Miller) Berlin
July 8, 2008
My sympathy to to the Cotner family. Jamie was a dear friend to me in high school and let me cry on his shoulder many times. My heart goes out to his daughter and family. He will be missed.
Mary Platz Hughes
July 7, 2008
Karen, Virgil, and Chrystal, It was a long time ago and the memories are foggy but you will always be my neighbor and my heart goes out to you. i am so sorry. Love Mary
Brian Sheehan
July 7, 2008
Virgil, Karen and Crystal,
My family and I are very sorry for your loss. James was one of the best friends I ever had, even though we had lost touch in the last few years I thought of him and Ali often. One of the things I will remember most is a few months before Ali and Nathan were born we were installing carpet in the nursery's. All he could talk about was how happy he was to become a father and the excitement that he expressed that whole day, I will never forget. He was a good father and I know he loved his baby very much. One of the first words to come out of Nicholas' mouth was "Cotner Rules". So to James I say, Cotner Rules. We love you.
Brian, Shawna, Tara Nicholas and Nathan Sheehan
Mark, Jenny & family Ward
July 7, 2008
Jamie was our neighbor for many years. He always was very friendly to all of us. And he will be missed.
We are very sorry for your loss.
God bless your family and his daughter "Ali".
Sis. Brady Hafner
July 7, 2008
OMGosh! I am forever saddened for your loss Cotner Family. You know that you are in my thoughts and prayers!
John & Stephanie Shook
July 7, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kim Corp
July 7, 2008
Dear Cotner Family, I went to school with Jamie and a 1990 graduate. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Robert Metzger
July 7, 2008
my heart goes out to the cotner family.
he will be missed.
Mike & Mickie Sttab
July 7, 2008
With our deepest sympathy through this difficult time, you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you during this time of sorrow.
Jonathan and Donna Bastock
July 7, 2008
Our sincere condolences to your whole family. We hope that the love and care of friends, family and neighbors support you in this time and in the days and years to come.
We are so sorry for your loss.
Jonathan, Donna, Justin, Evan and Jillian Bastock
Jim & Barbara Carmany
July 7, 2008
We wish to express our deepest sympathy to you at this time of sorrow. Hang onto the memories. God's Blessings to you.
Becky Alexander ( Ball ) WHS 1988
July 7, 2008
Crystal,
I am very sorry to hear of the loss your family is going through. I want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I too have have lost a sibling and I know the emptiness you are feeling right now. Each day will help you heal.
July 7, 2008
To Karen, Virgil, and Chrystal: My family’s hearts and prayers are with you in this awful time. While I am shocked and saddened to lose a personal friend in Jamie, I grieve even more for the loving family he has left behind.
Jamie’s personal legacy with me with me will be my love of the outdoor sports. He became my first shooting buddy plinking in his parent’s back yard over 15 years ago. I even remember his grandfather being there the first time I shot a .30-06 at the pop can. I still wished I would have bet Jamie on hitting with a .357mag the gallon jugs on the other side of the creek. In my mind, I will always associate the .41mag with Jamie.
I have 20 years of memories of Jamie, none of them boring or uneventful. He had such an active and dynamic personality that his presence guaranteed to add excitement to any situation. There will be plenty of Jamie stories for us to share for many years!
Yet for all those stories, nothing will detract from what he ultimately was: a faithful son, an adoring father, a devoted brother and uncle, and a rock-solid friend to count on.
Goodbye Jamie, may God bless your soul.
Jim “Boz” and Dina
KENETH SHAW
July 7, 2008
I HAD WORKED WITH JAMIE FOR MANY YEARS AT LIITTLE TIKES. HE WAS A FINE MAN AND HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL.
Ron Memmers
July 7, 2008
To the cotner family my deepest sympathy jamie was a good friend and like a brother and will be missed
Rob Gojkov
July 7, 2008
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
NANCY LOVE
July 7, 2008
Dear Virg and Karen, My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve the loss of Jamie. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Angela Whitacre-Saffles
July 7, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jennifer Hudak
July 7, 2008
To Chrystal my dear friend, Ali, Cody and the Cotner family:
Our deepest condolences to all of you. We have grew so close to your family since moving in across the street four years ago. I'll never forget the first time I met Jamie... I thought... "Is he crazy!?" as I shrugged my shoulders and laughed. He always was one to give me a hard time-just to get a spark out of me. Deep down, we were true friends. Ali is always welcomed into our home as she has always been. We will be there for her!! This loss has come as a shock to all of us, and I know you are hurt and grieving. May he be with god now looking down upon us, and the guardian angel to his daughter--- evermore.
Love,
Jenn, Jared, Jon & Marco
July 7, 2008
Our hearts are with you at your time of loss.
Dr. A. G. Barnard & staff
Tim Myers
July 7, 2008
So sorry for the loss of your son
Kelly Yurchiak
July 7, 2008
Crystal & Family,
I went to school with you, but did not know your brother. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
KIM MYERS
July 7, 2008
KIM AND GEORGE MYERS OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO HIS FAMILY. NEIGHBORS OF JAMIES FOR A LONG TIME HE WILL BE MISSED.
Paulette Carbaugh
July 7, 2008
Virgil and Karen,
I was so sorry to hear about Jamie. I recalled when I worked with you Virgil--of you talking about your children with such love. May you be comforted with your memories.
Matt Smith
July 7, 2008
Miss Cotner,
I am sorry that your brother passed away.
Rhonda Roberts
July 7, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Cotner, Ali, Chrystal and Cody, My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this most difficult time.
Mr. and Mrs. Cotner, As a parent we are just not created to out live our children and because of this I am very saddened for both of you.
Ali, My heart breaks in a million pieces for you. I have thought of you non stop since I first heard of this nightmare. I can't begin to imagine what's going through your young innocent mind.
Jamie was one of the most handy people I know. He never hesitated to help in any way. It didn't matter what it was you needed or when you needed it, somehow he'd always find or make the time to help. He will be greatly missed.
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