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1958
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2019
Mark Cabaniss Obituary
Mark William Cabaniss, age 60, died unexpectedly at home in Lakeport, California on March 15, 2019. Born in Akron, Ohio in 1958, he was the son of Margaret and George Cabaniss and grew up in Silver Lake Ohio.
He was a graduate of Kent State University and the University of Southern California School of Law. He was a lawyer for the Lake County California Courts.
Survivors include daughters, Meredith and Colette Cabaniss; and sons, Mark and Johnny Cabaniss, all of California. Additional survivors include his sister, Anne Cabaniss of New Albany, Indiana and brothers George Cabaniss of Akron and Kevin Cabaniss (Crissy) of St. Louis Mo. He is also survived by his former wife, Patricia Cabaniss of Ukiah, California.
Mark was funny, stubborn, and inventive. When he had his wisdom teeth pulled, he became tired of his restricted liquid diet and solved the problem by blending a Big Mac, fries, and a chocolate shake in a blender. He hand raised a baby squirrel, could compose hilarious and irreverent eBay ads, appreciated off beat movies, loved nature, and often challenged his grandmother to pie baking contests. He propped her photo up on his desk while taking the bar exam for good luck. Most of all, Mark was a good father who loved his children more than can be put into words. Few fathers are ever able to have as much fun as Mark did being with his children. He had many friends who valued his easy going and gentle manner and ability to make everyone feel appreciated and interesting.
In memory of Mark, the family suggests a donation to your favorite charity. A memorial get together will be held on Sunday, August 18th at 1 p.m. at the Ledges shelter house at Virginia Kendall Park in Peninsula, Ohio.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mark Cabaniss
Sponsored by Akron Beacon Journal.
Joan Nelson
March 21, 2022
R.I.P. Mark
Gloria Dempsey
March 18, 2022
Thinking of you Mark, your quick wit and sparling smile. From Silver Lake to California great memories I shall forever treasure
August 18, 2019
So sorry your loss. I met Mark was at The Bank in Akron (a music club where my boyfriend, Arthur was playing). He was kind and hilarious. Rest In Peace, friend. Robin
April 9, 2019
My heart is with you in your time of sorrow. Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that God keeps our love ones in His memory (Jeremiah 29:11,12) ~MM~
CSC
April 5, 2019
After shock and a deluge of fond, old memories, my heart pours out to all whose hearts are breaking - Mark was brilliant, witty, and loving - he must have been an amazing dad.
Edward Savin
April 5, 2019
I moved to Lakeport, CA in April, 2014 to start a new job as a felony defense attorney. I was with the movers in Santa Rosa, CA three days before my job was to begin. My new landlord (and a colleague-to-be) phoned and said, "I know it is short notice, but I can't rent you the room.''
I had nowhere to go. I called people from the business cards I had collected when I was in Lakeport. I didn't know anybody. The fourth call was to Mark. "Don't worry Buddy, I've got you covered. Come on up."
At first, I slept on the office floor, then officially began sharing the space with Mark. As I write this, I'm still here.
After five years, I had come to hate my felony position. I decided to quit. "Come do misdemeanors with me, Bucko." (Did anybody have a real name?) "We will have a great time. We're going to have fun."
I took the position, to commence April 1, 2019. Mark had actually convinced me I was going to enjoy my new job.
The day before Mark moved on, we walked out of the office together. I invited him to dinner. He chose to go home. (The other) Mark was there, and Mark didn't want to leave him there alone any longer. We planned to get together the following day, to set me up for his "system." I didn't think twice when he didn't show. We're all busy, it could happen next week.
Mark was my best friend here, from day one. I have afternoon court in 45 minutes. I need some time so they can't tell I have been crying.
I love you and miss you, "Bucko."
CSC
April 5, 2019
76,77,78 - Kent State, cramming for exams, viscous coffee, reading aloud, baby squirrel in our tee shirt pockets, Aspen in August in a '67 blue-smoking' Nova Duce, swinging in the snow on the Silver Lake playground, hanging out with Scotty M., George Sr. in the kitchen, George Jr. jamming in the basement, Anne's spaghetti dinners, Kevin - little bro down the hall, so tall. I haven't seen Mark in over thirty years, but oh so many memories here.
peter m graf
April 2, 2019
I met Mark when he moved across the street from me in Hollywood, just half a block from the Walk of Fame. Mark was only in his early twenties, but pretty wise for his age. We became good friends, I heard of the Rubber City Rebels, only sister Anne and his musician brother. There were parties and many long debates into the night.
Eventually he went off to USC and our ways parted. The last time I saw him was years ago up north at the home he shared with Patty and the kids. Meredith would send Christmas cards to us in Hollywood for years .
Last night I just felt like giving Mark a call, knowing his birthday was coming up on April 5. I knew he was a lawyer in Lakeport, so I just got on the Internet to look up his phone number. And this is the place I ended up!
Mark Cabaniss: Always so polite and so bright and also so handsome; such an enjoyable guy to be with! I never thought I would be writing these lines ...
George Mark Kevin circa 1984 photo by Sherr Rose
Anne Cabaniss
April 2, 2019
Vic's 1984
Anne Cabaniss
April 2, 2019
Ruth "Leucie" Ferrell - Capoun
April 2, 2019
I was so sad to hear about the loss of an old friend. His humor, wit, charm and good looks will be remembered forever. From Ohio to Hollywood, there was never a dull moment with Mark. Condolences to his earthly family and friends and LOOK OUT to the ones that left the earth before him! You are in for a wild ride with him by your side!!!
You'll be missed "Huck Rinkrutter"!
March 31, 2019
I'm writing this from the old Cabaniss family home on Overlook Rd across from the school, as I purchased it from George Sr and Charlotte about 20 years ago. I briefly knew Mark and Geo from Walsh HS, and had been to this house back then (when everybody's hair was much longer) once or twice. What a wonderful place to grow up! Mark was a free spirit whom I'm sure provided all who knew him plenty of great memories that will last a lifetime.
After the initial shock reading that Mark had passed (way too young) all I could think of was...another Villager done good.
God Bless Mark's siblings, children, and extended family.
Joel Dimengo
SLV
Jill Ruzicka
March 30, 2019
So sorry to hear of Mark's passing. Thinking of his family, especially his children.
Lisa O'Rourke
March 28, 2019
We were saddened and so sorry to hear of Mark's passing. The world is certainly a duller place without him in it. We are thinking of his family and hope that memories of his love bring comfort at this difficult time.
With sympathy,
Donal and Lisa O'Rourke
Gloria Dempsey (Flickinger)
March 26, 2019
The Cabaniss home was like my second home. Always felt welcome and such good memories. Mark you were one in a million. Ohio memories as well as Hollywood. My condolences to the family.
Lorraine Purviance
March 26, 2019
Mark will forever be missed. He was fearless in his pursuit of justice for his clients. Mark was devoted to his family and I know no words to console them in their loss. I was honored to call him my friend.
Anne Cabaniss
March 25, 2019
Another neighborhood kid said that Mark had been the founding member of the "Bowana Club(sp) in the 1960's on Overlook Road in Silver Lake Ohio. This neighborhood boy had been having trouble with reading and Mark took him aside and helped him to read. One of their training exercises was to climb up on top of the school (Silver Lake School). Mark collected dues and they were kept in a band aid box which was buried somewhere down near Crystal Lake.
Anne Cabaniss
March 25, 2019
a former Silver Lake School classmate tells this memory of a boy who later became a lawyer:
"Mark and I were in Mrs. Edmund's class (4th grade, circa 1966). Each morning the class began with the pledge of Allegiance and Devotion. Mark asked if he could say something. So he went to the podium and informed the class that we didn't have to say prayers in school because there was this new law. He was amazing! (Mark became a lawyer)
Mark on Blaze, the horse, circa 1962
Anne Cabaniss
March 25, 2019
Meredith, Mark, and Colette, 1998
Anne Cabaniss
March 25, 2019
Mark and Mark, 1998
Anne Cabaniss
March 25, 2019
Mark with Colette, Meredith and Mark, 1998
Anne Cabaniss
March 25, 2019
Mark, 1962
Anne Cabaniss
March 25, 2019
Mark and Johnnie, 2002
Anne Cabaniss
March 25, 2019
Tom Quinn
March 25, 2019
So sorry that Mark left us. He was a great guy, a good friend and an excellent attorney. Rest in peace buddy.
March 25, 2019
To Mark's family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Mike and Ingrid Metoff
Sherry Rose
March 25, 2019
Mark was an all round good guy. Time spent with Mark was never dull. Of all his many lovable traits, (intelligence, wit, humor, charm, good looks) I think it's his unflinching straightforwardness that I will miss the most. Love and peace to his family and friends. We lost a good one, and way too soon.
March 25, 2019
May God comfort your family during your time of sorrow.
1989
Anne Cabaniss
March 24, 2019
1986
Anne Cabaniss
March 24, 2019
1989
Anne Cabaniss
March 24, 2019
Mark at Kent State University School circa 1970
Anne Cabaniss
March 24, 2019
Kevin George Mark 1986
Anne Cabaniss
March 24, 2019
Joan Nelson
March 24, 2019
R. I. P. Mark. You were a wonderful father to your children and they miss you very much.
May you be in their hearts & minds forever
Anne Cabaniss
March 24, 2019
Anne Cabaniss
March 24, 2019
Anne Cabaniss
March 24, 2019
Anne Cabaniss
March 24, 2019
Anne Cabaniss
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Anne Cabaniss
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Anne Cabaniss
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rick barnett
March 24, 2019
Mark was somebody I looked up to throughout my childhood and teenage years. As were all of the Cabaniss family.
I remember Mark for being very smart, quiet, and funny.
This is a great loss for all.
Rochelle and Tom Haas
March 24, 2019
Mark made an indelible imprint on this world with his humor, energy and intellect. He was a dear and loyal friend and we treasure his memory and the experiences shared with him. He never did anything halfway, but always committed completely. He embodied the spirit of Carpe Diem, and he made every moment an adventure. His family meant everything to him and was his essence. Our sincere love and sympathy to them and all who knew and loved him.
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