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Taken 2/26/2011
April 25, 2011
March 28, 2011
Dear Carolyn and Family,
I just learned of your husband's untimely death. I am truly sorry to hear of his passing and may the comfort and support of your family and friends help you to get through this rough time. My heartfelt sympathy. Ginny Hart and Family
March 17, 2011
I just heard this evening about Phil and am in shock. Being in Norfolk I haven't been into the store this year at all. I have great memories of Phil's (and the whole family's) kindness to us IHM's in St. Alice's. He will be greatly missed and I'm sure is with Our Lord in Heaven. Sister Bernadette
Norma & Silvio Menna
March 15, 2011
Carolyn, Jacqueline,Steven and Andrew:
I am so happy I was able to be there for you when you needed me most. I am here always and all you need to do is call. I love you all and your in my daily prayers. RIP Philip you were loved by so many.
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Br. James
March 14, 2011
Eternal Rest Grant Unto The Soul of Phil O Lord, and Let The Perpetual Shine Upon Him! May He Rest In Peace! Phil was very dedicated to delivering religious goods to his customers. He did not mind going the extra mile for his fellow brothers-&sisters-in-Christ! May Our Mother of Sorrows & Our Mother of Mercy comfort all of you at this time of mourning!
Carolyn Barr
March 13, 2011
I wish to thank all the people who have expressed sorrow to our familiy. I would also like to take this opportunity to thank those who participated in Philip's Mass of Christian Burial. It was a Mass meant to celebrate his life, and it did. All the people that knew his character, dedication, humor and love of family & friends, were able to come together, share "Philip" stories, but most of all, honor Philip with the traditions of our faith. We raised three beautiful, loving children. Jacqueline, Andrew, Steven and I have unbelievable support from our family & friends, the religious community, and countless others that just are willing to embrace us in our hour of need. This is what Jesus would do. Love to all, The Barr's

Rest in peace, dear Philip!
Brother Bob
March 12, 2011

Be at Peace dear Philip!
Brother Bob
March 12, 2011
Mickey McGrath
March 12, 2011
I am so terribly sorry to learn of the sudden and untimely death of such a great guy. What a generous and kind spirit he was. I pray that the peace of Jesus guides you through these days of unbearable loss and sorrow. Peace and blessings, Bro. Mickey McGrath
Rose Burns-Warsavage
March 11, 2011
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Sister Mary Anne Basile
March 11, 2011
Dear Carolyn, children and Mr. And Mrs. Barr,
Our hearts are heavy as we grieve with you. What a wonderful man Phil was---accommodating, cheerful and forever a gentleman. We pray with you and for you. what a beautiful outpouring of love at Phil's funeral today.
Margaret Donohue
March 11, 2011
Dear Carolyn, Mr. & Mrs Barr, and all the family,
Philip was such an immensely kind man, always ready to help; nopthing was ever too much trouble for him. I cannot imagine your grief at his sudden and terrible loss but promise my prayers that somehow God will comfort and console you all. God bless you all and hold you in the palm of His hand!
Sister Margaret Donohue, RSM
Saint Matthias Parish
March 11, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Barr family. I am deeply sorry for your loss. Phillip was a wonderful man with a great sense of humor as long as Phillip is remembered he will never truely be gone.
My deepest sympathy,
Larry Gilbert
Sister Kathleen White
March 11, 2011
To the Entire Barr Family--
May God's grace and peace surround at this very sad time. Philip was truly a great wonderful man who certainly lived and passed on the Word of God in all his daily encounters. What a gentleman-- who was ready to reach out to so many people. He was great to so many of the Sisters. This IHM is one who was proud to know Phil and always grateful for his help. God bless each of you.
Rose Boyce-Higgins
March 11, 2011
Carolyn,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Rose Boyce-Higgins
Terry Ambrose
March 11, 2011
I was awed by the number of people who turned out last night for the viewing. A clear measure of the man I did not get to know very well. He will obviously be missed.
March 11, 2011
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Barr, Carolyn and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will miss seeing Philip on my way home from work. He could always make me laugh. Our parish will never be the same without him.
Love and prayers,
Maureen
March 10, 2011
The ones we love are always in our hearts.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeff,Janice,Brandon,and Ethan Moore
March 10, 2011
Dear Carolyn and Family,
My love and prayers are with all of you.
Phil was a great guy and a wonderful friend. I will miss him.
With Love,
Joanne Ryn
March 10, 2011
Dear Carolyn, Jacqueline, Andrew, Steven and entire Barr Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Are prayers are with you at this very very sad time.
Anne & Joe
sandy lacy
March 10, 2011
May the Good Lord watch over Philip and his family.
Elsie DiSipio
March 10, 2011
I will miss your funny jokes,smile and kind heart.We will forever miss you at our family dinners.You were always there for all of us.We wiil always be there for ,our beautiful family Carolyn,Jacqueline,Andrew and Steven. lOVE Mom Mom Elsie
Brother Bob
March 9, 2011
My heart is heavy for my dear friend ...
May the Angels lead you into Paradise
and send blessings to watch over your
loving family....Carolyn, Jacqueline,
Drew and Steven.
March 9, 2011
i just found out may god keep philip and all of the family by his side at this time. my heart is broken my old friend.
al bianchi
March 8, 2011
Carolyn,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
-Judy and PJ Sotorrio
Deacon Joe and Helen Coyle
March 8, 2011
Dear Carolyn, Children, Don and Joan and the entire Barr Family. We are so sorry about Philip's sudden passing and know we will all miss his humorous, mannerisms, and unselfish desire to please everyone. Our prayers are with you at this sorrowful time.
(Deacon Joseph and Helen Coyle)
Deacon Joe and Helen Coyle
March 8, 2011
Dear Carolyn, children, Don and Joan and the entire Barr Family,
We are so sorry about Philip's sudden passing and know we will all miss his humorous, mannerisms, and unselfish desire to please everyone. Our prayers are with you at this sorrowful time.
Deacon Joseph and Helen Coyle
Helen Coyle
March 8, 2011
Dear Carolyn, children, Don and Joan and the entire Barr Family,
We are so sorry about Philip's sudden passing and know we will all miss his humorous, mannerisms, and unselfish desire to please everyone. Our prayers are with you at this sorrowful time.
Deacon Joseph and Helen Coyle
Joan & Steve Donegan
March 8, 2011
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Janet Matthews
March 8, 2011
Caroline & The Barr Family,
I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Ethel Matthews
March 8, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
March 8, 2011
Dear Mrs. Barr & Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Phil's passing. We've known him for many years through our formation program and continuing education for permanent deacons. He was always very helpful and generous to us and we will miss seeing him. God rest his soul and may our Lord bring you comfort and peace during this sad time.
Sincerely, in Christ,
Deacon Steve Guckin
Father Judge High School
St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish
Michele LaVerghetta
March 8, 2011
Mr & Mrs Barr & Family,
Caroline & Family
Sorry for you loss.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Philip was a great guy.
With deep Sympathy & Love
Mike & Michele LaVerghetta
March 8, 2011
To the Barr Family:
We are all very sorry to hear of the loss of Philip. He was a very sweet man and will be missed by all.
We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
With Sympathy and Love,
The Herrmann Family and Jim Truax
Judy & Larry Gentile
March 8, 2011
Philip may you rest in peace. To his family our prayers are with you, may your hearts be filled with wonderful memories to help you through these tough times.
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