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Connie E. Wilke

1964 - 2020

Connie E. Wilke obituary, 1964-2020, Hortonville, WI

BORN

1964

DIED

2020

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Borchardt & Moder Funeral Homes - Hortonville

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Hortonville, Wisconsin

Connie Wilke Obituary

Connie E. Wilke

Hortonville - Connie Ellen Wilke, age 55, passed away unexpectedly on August 15th, 2020, with her family at her side. She was born September 7, 1964 in Appleton,WI to Delmar and Melba (Lenz) Baumgartner. She graduated from Hortonville High School in 1983. She married James Wilke on January 21, 1984. Their marriage blessed them with three children and four grandchildren, whom she loved dearly. Connie was known for her big heart, sense of humor, and kind soul. She often took on the role of caretaker and always went above and beyond to help those in need. Connie watched children in her home early in her career. Following the urge to help others, she moved on to working in assisted living, most recently at Willow Lane Assisted Living. She also served her local community as a First Responder for over 9 years. Connie looked forward to going on the Harley for rides with her beloved husband and spending time with her family and friends. She loved going up north, taking memorable camping trips with Joe and Donna Weihing and making others laugh. Connie was known for encouraging people to be their best self. She had strong faith and always had a bible verse ready to help others through any situation. This last verse she shared with family was Isaiah 43:1-3 "Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. For I am the Lord your God, the holy one of Israel, your savior."

Connie is survived by her husband of 36 years, the love of her life, Jim; children: Sarah Wilke, Ryan (Melanie) Wilke, Cody (Day) Wilke; grandchildren: Matthew, Arianna, Braelynn, and Brynnlee Wilke; parents: Delmar and Melba Baumgartner; father-in-law and mother-in-law: Roger and Diane Wilke; siblings: Pamela Baumgartner, Mark (Donna) Baumgartner, Nancy Schroeder, Brian (Lisa) Baumgartner; brother-in-law: Randall (Lesa) Wilke, Ronald Wilke; sister-in-law: Julie (Paul) Mattek; in addition to many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends.

Connie is preceded in death by her grandparents, godfather (Arnold Lenz), and many aunts and uncles.

The Christian Funeral for Connie will be held on Friday, August 21, 2020 at noon at Immanuel Ev. Lutheran Church in Greenville with Rev. John Qualmann officiating. Burial will be in Oakwood Cemetery, Weyauwega. A visitation for Connie will be held at the church on Friday from 9:00 a.m. until 11:45 a.m.

A special thanks to the medical staff at ThedaCare Appleton's Intensive Care Unit. Connie has touched the lives of so many with her unconditional love, generosity, and kindness. She will be forever missed.

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Published by Appleton Post-Crescent from Aug. 17 to Aug. 19, 2020.

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Kathy Damon

August 12, 2024

I remember Connie with fondness and deep gratitude for the compassionate care she gave to my Dad at Willow Lane. My entire family appreciated that, as well as her warmth and friendly greeting each day we crossed paths. Her death left a deep void for many, especially her family. Blessings and peace to you.

Carol and Carter Noble

August 22, 2020

We knew Connie because of our connection to Willow Lane where our Aunt resides. She was so kind to the residents and had a genuine concern for each one. She went about her work with a "spirit of excellence" but was sensitive to the needs of residents and was ready to help in any way. Connie had a wonderful smile, and took time to talk sharing insights about our loved one - insights that showed her love and commitment to her charges. She will be sorely missed by residents, families and staff alike. May you experience God's perfect peace at this very challenging time.

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Janet Beill

August 20, 2020

My sympathies to the Wilke family, Connie was one of my mother’s care givers at Willow Lane and my mom loved it when Connie would fix her hair. Mom just recently passed away on August 4th and Connie had many kind words for us during that difficult time. She was a wonderful person, may your family find comfort in the happy memories you hold dear.

Pat and Chris Ebben

August 20, 2020

Jim and family - our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Jim Baehman

August 19, 2020

Jim,
So sorry to hear of Connie's passing. My condolences to you and your family. She was always so kind and nice to everyone she ever met. I know she will be greatly missed by everyone who knew her.
May your hearts be healed.

KathyDamon

August 19, 2020

I got to know Connie during my Dad’s 3 years living at Willow Lane. She was kind to all, generous with her time, and faith-filled. She lived the Beatitudes. She connected so well with the residents. Her presence there was more than just a job to her. She made a difference in the lives of many. My heart breaks especially for her family. God bless Connie and all of you. We know she is with God.

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Aug

21

Visitation

9:00 a.m. - 11:45 a.m.

Immanuel Ev. Lutheran Church

Greenville, WI

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21

Funeral

12:00 p.m.

Immanuel Ev. Lutheran Church

Greenville, WI

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109 W Main St, Hortonville, WI 54944

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