Search by Name

Search by Name

BORN

1914

DIED

2012

Warren Whitlinger Obituary

Warren W. Whitlinger, 98, Neenah, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, teacher, coach, mentor, and friend passed away at the Valley VNA Senior Services Assisted Living Community on April 30, 2012. He was a master motivator who cherished every opportunity to teach people, to spend time with them, to spread a positive outlook, be it in tennis or life. Success for him was helping others become the best that they could be by setting challenging goals, making a plan, working hard, and persevering. In his own words, "To me the ultimate is passing on knowledge. It doesn't do you any good to keep it to yourself."

Warren was born April 4, 1914 in Barnesville, Ohio son of John Russell and Mabel Grace (Yearly) Whitlinger. He attended Zanesville High School where he excelled in basketball, baseball, and football and was the Senior Class President. He went on to Ohio State University. In 1936, he was captain of the OSU basketball team, led the Big 10 in scoring and was All Big Ten. As a sophomore, junior, and senior, he was elected to the Men's Honorarium. He graduated in 1936, and then earned his MBA in 1940. In 1940, he accepted a position with Kimberly Clark Corporation and worked for the company for 35 years. He retired in 1975 as Director of Quality Assurance.

On October 11, 1941, Warren married Naomi Backes at St. Patrick's Parish in Menasha, WI. She was the love of his life. They were married 65 years before her death in 2007. He was a committed, caring husband to her through her Alzheimer's illness.

In the early 60's, he became involved with tennis. Tennis became his passion. Although not a player himself, he trained and coached three national champions in his family and countless others who became outstanding competitors. In 1986, the Whitlinger family was recognized as the Wisconsin and Midwest Tennis Family of the Year. The family was again honored as the USTA National Tennis Family of the Year in 1987. He was inducted into the Fox Valley Tennis Association Hall of Fame in 1999.

In 1991, he served as Corporate Coach for Mercury Marine in Fond du Lac, WI where he worked with the President/CEO and others in self-management, leadership skills, and team building.

Warren embraced an expectation of excellence in faith, family, athletics, and life.

Affectionately called "Baba," Warren is survived by his 3 children, Warren "Kip" (Ruth) Whitlinger, Neenah, WI, Wendy (Mike Jurgenson) Whitlinger Jurgenson, Appleton, WI, John (Jan) Whitlinger, Menlo Park, CA; 9 grandchildren: Tami (Kelly) Jones, Greenville, SC, Teri (Craig) Boynton, Tampa, FL, Tori (Shawn) Pitsch, Neenah, WI, Tate (Alyssa) Whitlinger, Neenah, WI, Melissa (Scott) Chitko, Appleton, WI, Meredith (Ben) Mercer, Indianapolis, IN, Megan (Cedric) Gaaskjolen, Columbus, OH, JJ (Katrina) Whitlinger, San Jose, CA, and Claire Whitlinger, Ann Arbor, MI; 11 great grandchildren: Makenna Jones, Sydney, Skyler, and Spencer Boynton, Rosie and Nomie Whitlinger, Connor Chitko, Matthew and JP Mercer, Jake and Abby Gaaskjolen; a nephew: Phil (Rhonda) Peters, Sarasota, FL; and many other relatives and friends.

In addition to his wife and parents, Warren is also preceded in death by his father- and mother-in-law, infant granddaughter Wendy Whitlinger, a sister Mary (Austin) Peters, and a nephew Paul Peters.

Memorial services will be held at 11:30 a.m. Tuesday May 8, 2012, at St. Patrick Catholic Church, 324 Nicolet Blvd., Menasha. Entombment will follow. Friends may call at the church from 9:30 a.m. Tuesday until the time of the mass. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be given in Warren's memory to St. Patrick's Parish or the Valley VNA Senior Services Assisted Living Community, Neenah.

The family wants to express their gratitude to the VNA staff and the Theda Care at Home Hospice staff who took such good care of Warren.

Dad, our "Baba," wanted to leave a legacy. In his words, "Let my legacy be that my life has given the gift of inspiration to my family and friends. May not only the length of my life, but the depth of my life give it true meaning." Dad, that is your legacy. You are gone but never forgotten. All our love, your family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Appleton Post-Crescent from May 1 to May 6, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
for Warren Whitlinger

Not sure what to say?





Jasmine P from Appleton

March 23, 2024

Jasmine P from Appleton

March 23, 2024

Jasmine P from Appleton

March 23, 2024

Jasmine P from Appleton

March 23, 2024

I just bought a signed copy of his book from goodwill in Appleton! Very interesting to read about his life

Tom Marshall

April 25, 2020

I never knew Warren personally, but I knew very well many of the family. Ruth and Kip have always been in my "court" when needed. The twins used to beat up my doubles partner and I in high school to toughen us up and get us ready for competition. I used to run into Tate in his younger days all the time.

Warren left a legacy for the family and put Neenah on the map for tennis.

When I run into the family at different events in my life, they are always smiling and laughing. You have to be proud with what you left WW

May 8, 2012

Kip, we send our condolences in your father's passing. He lived a long and good life and I know his spirit will live on in all your family members. He was much loved. And to my dear friend Ruthie. I wish you peace and strength as I know you will miss your "father" dearly. With love and sympathy, Jim & Gail Jensen

Tim Garvey

May 8, 2012

Mr. Warren W. Whitlinger, Age 98
Memorial
Thank you Sir. You were kind and an inspiration to me in YOUR life. Your book, Timeless Tips, continues your legacy and will for the remainder of MY life.
Merci, gracias, eternally,
Tim R. Garvey, Ocala, FL
(XHS '64)

John Conway

May 7, 2012

Kip, Wendy, John,
I am sorry to hear of your loss.
Your Dad and our Dad were friends. They had much in common as sportsmen, competitors, teachers, willing to learn new mental and physical skills. They worked to pass on their love of people and learning. We children crossed paths frequently in school, church, and sports. As friends and competitors in the Boy Scout tent, the outside hockey rink, the grade school basketball court, the Big Ten tennis match, we children were products of our fathers.
Your Dad's legacy speaks for itself.
I am fortunate to have known your parents.

Tom Marshall

May 7, 2012

Kip and Ruth and the entire Whitlinger clan..We have lost one of the great ones. The mold was broken when Warren was born. I was telling someone the other day about the barn on the island and how Kip toughened up my doubles partner and I in High School with his 12 year old twins-and they whooped us. He will be missed but the name lives on and what a great name it is. Many fond memories of the Whit family. Tom Marshall class of '80, three year letter winner, co MVP Regional and Conference champs thanks to the fine coaching of the Whitling family...

Patrick Conway

May 7, 2012

Kip, Wendy, John and families: My condolences on the passing of your father - a very fine gentleman.

KiKi Rudolf-Cohagan

May 7, 2012

Kip - my condolences to you and your family for the loss of your father. I know he was a loving inspiration to you as you grew up and made you a successful person. The fond family memories of him will be shared forever.

May 7, 2012

Kip, Ruth, Tori, Tate, Tami, Terri, John & Wendy:

I cried today for your Bubba, and a man who I will always love for the gift he gave. I will never forget all the special moments in the “barn”, and time spent talking in the back den. Warren taught us a way to play a game, and as I've found over the course of 20 years – way to live a life. His spirit lives on.

Dan Grandone

John Whitney

May 6, 2012

Dear Kip & Ruth. My earliest memories in Neenah include Warren and how much he meant to Kris in the shaping her life. Please accept my sincerest condolences.

May 6, 2012

Our sympathy to the Whitlinger family. Your dad and grandpa was a great mentor to many. Judy and Bud Koehnke, Orlando Florida

Jim Cummings

May 4, 2012

Very sorry for your loss. I have very fond memories of tennis lessons with "Grandpa Whitlinger." He had a tremendous impact on so many. What a great legacy he leaves.

May 4, 2012

Dear Ruth and Kip,
Please accept our deepest and most sincere sympathy on the recent loss of your father and grandfather. He was a wonderful and "most caring person" and an inspiration to many, many people - especially the young people!! Sincerely, Pattie and David Wigton - Phoenix, AZ

Sherry Ploor

May 3, 2012

The Fox River Valley has lost a wonderful person. He was so instrumental in growing the game in tennis. He will be missed by his family and his other family - the tennis family! My sympathy goes to his family.

Jim Rogers

May 3, 2012

My sincerest condolences, Warren was a great dad/teacher/mentor.

May 3, 2012

Bubba was a great inspiration to my family. He taught us that "the harder you work, the luckier you get!" He was a wonderful man and will be missed by all who were lucky enough to know him!
Joni Miringoff San Diego, California

May 3, 2012

to the Whitlinger family:your loss is our loss also, as he also was part of our life,with the wonderful memories of his love of tennis,and introducing and teaching it to my children; this lifetime sport.Our sympathy for your heartfelt loss of your father who my family will never forget.I send my sadness and best wishes to all
Jim Miringoff San Diego California

Brook Vang

May 2, 2012

Warren was a wonderful man and I enjoyed all of our time together, he will be missed by us girls at the VNA, thoughts and prayers for the family

Sarah Brooker

May 2, 2012

I'm so sorry for the loss. He will be greatly missed. Such a GREAT man!

Suzy Chicoine

May 1, 2012

You have my deepest condolences. Warren was a great person!
Suzy Chicoine

Showing 1 - 23 of 23 results

Make a Donation
in Warren Whitlinger's name

Memorial Events
for Warren Whitlinger

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Warren's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Warren Whitlinger's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more