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Patrick Barr Obituary
PATRICK DANIEL
Of Castle Shannon, born July 8, 1977, unexpectedly on Wednesday August 31, 2005; dearly beloved son of Kenneth and Ruth Ann (Koch) Barr; loving brother of Shelly (Michael) Scherer, Gregory (Kelly) Barr and Stacy (James) Zill; loving uncle of Jeremy, Amber, Alexandra, Abigail, Christian and Colton; precious grandson of Carl and Ruth Koch and the late Percy and Anna Barr. He will be missed by many loving aunts, uncles, cousins and good friends. Pat will be remembered most for his kind sharing heart and his sincere dedication to helping people. Funeral Arrangements by BEINHAUERS, Friends welcome at 2630 West Liberty Avenue Dormont, (412) 531-4000 Friday 2-9pm. Mass of Christian Burial Saturday at 11am in St. Winifred Church. Interment Mt. Lebanon Cemetery. Family suggests memorial contributions to Special Olympics of Allegheny County, 404 First St., Heidelberg, PA 15106 or Action for Healthy Kids-PA Division, Attn: Joe Moag, 4711 Golf Rd., Suite 806, Skokie, IL 60076.
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Jennifer
May 18, 2012
Just thinking of you and your infectious smile! Your baby girl Zoe is doing great~We miss you!Jem
Jem
December 3, 2009
Your Zoe is doing so much better. Thank you for helping me find help for her~You are her angel...you are an angel for us all...Miss you.
Jennifer LAne
December 4, 2008
My Dearest Patrick~ Please look over our precious Zoe, for she is sick and needs your loving tenderness to wrap around her~ Jem
Barbara & Dennis Habowski
August 28, 2008
To Patrick's Family
Our hearts are always with you all.
We loved Pat & will never forget him.
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June 11, 2008
Still missing you every single day.
Charity Ledbetter
September 1, 2007
((((((((Patty)))))))) Still Thinking about ya and missin ya!
Rebecca Lindemann
June 26, 2007
Patty Cake...Patty Cake...Bakers Man. Just thinking of you. xx Tilly.
cindy bradford
June 11, 2007
I know it's been a while since patty left us, but he will always be remembered by me.
So good to see others continue to remember him as well.
Yours truly
Cindy aka Yuffie.
April 23, 2007
I was just looking through the guest book and am surprised that it is still up. The years have lessened the pain but the memories will never be forgotten. I used to have such a huge crush on Pat but that grew into admiration. Pat was a warm, friendly and outgoing person. He lit up the room and he still lights up my heart whenever I think of him. I carry his funeral card in the visor of my car so that Pat can protect me while I am driving. Thank you Pat for everything and this just goes to show that God only takes the best.
Charity Ledbetter
October 27, 2006
missin ya bunches today
Lisa
September 1, 2006
Patrick..u are still missed and thought of...as well as your family that lives on without u...it doesnt seem possible its been a year without u...im just glad i got the pleasure of knowing u...Lisa
Remembering you, Pat!
August 31, 2006
charity ledbetter
August 31, 2006
my dearest lovely patty u are remembered and your presence is missed daily and on another note i cant seem to find a good enough partner to play partners with
Aunt Pat Gorse
August 31, 2006
Today is a very sad day for all of us..it is the day you left us, one year ago..oh how we miss not seeing your smiling face and hearing your laughter..when thinking of you Patrick my heart feels very heavy but in a warm way..cause we know how happy you still are in the arms of our Loving Father..and we know that you are in heaven with all your love ones that have gone before and after you..give our love to them all..and give Gram Barr a big hello and hug for us..To Ken and Ruth Ann and my loving nieces and nephew I want you to know that my love and prayers are always with you..Take care..
pat gorse
July 8, 2006
Happy Birthday Patrick, just wanted to write how much we miss you, and that you are always close in our hearts and in our prayers. Dearest Ken and Ruth Ann, Love you.
Aunt Pat
pat gorse
July 7, 2006
Dearest Patrick,
Just wanted to write and let you know that we miss you dearly. And to wish you a Happy Birthday on August 8th.
Our prayers are here for you and your loves ones, Love you Ken and Ruth Ann. You are always in my heart.
Love Aunt Pat, Uncle Bob and Linda.
Adrienne (AJ) Dilling
December 21, 2005
Patrick's family,
we are just missing one of our very best friends at Christmastime...and while we are celebrating being pregnant. We know Pat would have loved us having a baby, and that she or he is blessed by him. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family all the time... But especially on this first Christmas.
Jennifer Lane
November 24, 2005
Missing you so much, Patrick...My love and prayers to the Barr family on Thanksgiving Day....
Jennifer L.
Pat Gorse
October 18, 2005
Hello I'm Aunt Pat,
I was just reading from my email that our Patrick received another entry. I just wanted to say how much this means to his Mother and Father and the entire family, to see how much good and love their, son, brother, nephew, cousin, and friend had given to this world. When reading all the stories and memories we have, it warms my heart to know how blessed we are to have had our Patrick in our lives. What a joy he was and still is in our hearts. Thank you all for helping me believe that all is not lost in this world that we do make a difference to people and that God is all Good and that He does love us. I can see that in all the kindness and good we share with the people we do meet in our lives. Thanks again, and God Bless You All.
Jeff Walsh
October 16, 2005
It seems all too often that this happens and always to the truly good people. Pat and I somehow lost touch since our childhood years, but boy, we had some great times growing up. It would always make us laugh how hard it was to wake Pat up on a summer morning to get him to the baseball field, then once he got there you just hoped he was on your team. Pick-up football and street hockey games on Nilden Avenue, watching Penguin playoff games on the roof of his house, I will never forget these times and never forget that Pat was a part of that. To the whole Barr family and to all his friends, I send my deepest condolences.
Jessie Massia
October 5, 2005
Dear Mr., Mrs. Barr and other relations to Patrick.
I'm so sorry for your loss of your son. He was one of the nicest people I know, and even though I only knew him for a short time, he really made an impact on my life and I will never forget him for it. He was a very great man who had a lot of courage in him. He always told me things like 'never quit or give up' and things that helped me alot. I know it must be a parent's worst nightmare to see their child... but I know he wouldn't want you or your family to give up, he'd want you to be happy and keep on rolling.
As Pat sings with the Angels, God will be with you all.
Jennifer Hess
September 23, 2005
It's taken me a long time to accept that Patrick is gone. I wish that I could somehow make things easier for Pat's family and many friends. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. He was such a shining light of kindness, humor, love of life. I was so excited for him to follow his dreams. I will miss his laugh, jokes, guidance but I'd like to think that he's with each of us every day. I will miss him always.
Jennifer (Machi) Debski
September 14, 2005
To the Entire Barr Family-I am very sorry for your loss. I just learned your very sad news from a friend of Patrick's, and soon after realizing that I knew him as a young tot. I used to play at your home with Stacey in the 70's. I just wanted to express my sympathy to you all.
Linda Shurtleff
September 13, 2005
The loss of Patrick has left a hole in many a heart. I am another one of Patty's many Literati friends. I will truly miss his warm welcomes and playful bantering. My condolences to all of his family and friends. May the many wonderful memories of Patrick fill your hearts and bring you peace.
Lori McDivitt
September 13, 2005
Although I really never really knew Patty, I know that he will surely be missed by all that did know him. In the few times of when our paths crossed (he was in a literati league with me on yahoo), he was nothing but good to me and to all the others around.. May God guide you and bring comfort to you all in the days ahead as you grieve for him and as each day passes may the grief be turned into nothing but wonderful memories of the days he was with us. My heartfelt condolences go out to all that knew him, especially to the family. And to Patty, Oxy will never be the same without you. May you rest in peace.
Abbi
September 12, 2005
Patrick was a member of the same literati league that I was. Although our paths didn't cross very often, when they did times were always filled with smiles and laughter. You will be missed, greatly. Hugz, sodzilla_1.
Jennifer Lane
September 11, 2005
My family and I send our deepest sympathies to Pat's family and friends. He will be missed for his loving heart, his endless acts of kindness, and for being so genuine...He was an angel each day--coming with me to the hospital when one of my students who has down syndrome was diagnosed with leukemia; I watched as he selflessly helped at special olympics activities, and when he brought his "baby girl" pit bull he saved, Zoe, to my home(he loved taking her places, and we took her for ice cream this summer)...Words will not ever really express how much he is missed and loved. I will always keep Pat in my heart and live each day to make him proud--and I will think of his beautiful smile...Love, Jennifer
Kim
September 10, 2005
I'd like to give Patty's family my sincere condolences, I was one of patty's dreamcatcher literati league teammates.
cindy bradford
September 8, 2005
I knew Patrick from an online group we were both in he would have called me Yuffie. My condolences to you all. I will miss Patrick. He was an awesome guy.
Michele (Prince) Shandor
September 8, 2005
Mr. & Mrs. Barr, Shelley, Gregg, & Stacey. I'm truely sorry for your loss. It has been many years since I have seen you all. I still remember playing at your house as a young girl. Patrick was just a little guy. Again, my family and I are truely sorry for your loss.
Rhonda Connaughton
September 8, 2005
My deepest sympathy at your loss. Patrick was a wonderful friend and will be very dearly missed. Rest in Peace "Patty Cakes".
steve houghtaling
September 8, 2005
I can't express enough how sad i am at your loss. Pat was a member of our literati league on yahoo and his sense of humor will be missed.
Elaine Shivery
September 8, 2005
I only new Patrick through our online literati league. Even so, his integrity, warmth and funloving soul was evident. I know he will be sadly missed by his family and friends as he is missed by those of us who only knew him online. He brought many a cheerful, interesting hour in our league!!! Patty, we know you are with the angels. Rest well.
Mary K
September 8, 2005
Dear Family and Friends,
I have no words to express my deepest sorrow to you..Patrick's wit and charm will be forever treasured and remembered by all..Hold tight to your memories and may God Bless you all in this time of pain and sorrow..Mary K. aka sweetnsassy2u or as PD called me..sassers
Elaine Robertson
September 8, 2005
On behalf of the dreamcatchers literati league i would like to offer my deepest condolences to pattys family.He lit up our lobby when he came in to play and was also a great person to know.he will be sadly missed by all
(((((((((((( patty )))))))))))))
Vicki Cole
September 8, 2005
Although patty may no longer be with us in person, he will always be with us, and his beloved family in spirit watching over us. He was a much loved menber of our dreamcatcher league and missed by us all. Vicki (dc_vcdobeback)
Sue Pearce
September 8, 2005
I am devastated to hear of the tragic loss of a very kind, charming and funny special man, a fellow dreamcatcher with a quick wit and a way with words. I am thankful to have known him via our virtual world, and it brought another tear to my eye when I learned of his organ donations, such a selfless act out of which must have come great good, and I pray that this brings some comfort to his brave family at this sad time. The grief his real-life family feels touches his online family too. He will be missed.
Michelle Eeeles
September 8, 2005
Patty was a great friend a good listener, a fun loving member of the dreamcatchers league and always knew how to make me laugh. I will never forget his humour and friendshipboth as a friend and as a leagur member. My heart goes out to his family and loved ones may you all find peace knowing how special he was as a person. Huggableshelly
Kathy Thompson
September 8, 2005
There are people on this earth that take light and people who bring light. Pat brought light. Everyone in our group that laughed with him, played with him, or shared a brief conversation about something going on in our lives with him - benefited by his light.
May God's arms envelope his family during this time and may we all have peace in knowing that Pat is sharing his light, even now.
Rest in peace my friend.
~Anna
Rebecca (Tilly) Lindemann
September 8, 2005
To the Barr family, my deepest sympathy on your enormous loss. Patrick was a wonderful man, with a touching way with people and delightful sense of humour. He shall be dearly missed by all in the Dreamcatchers league. Rest in peace Patty.
Ruth Wisnewski
September 8, 2005
To the Barr Family - My deepest sympathies to all of you. Patrick was one heck of a man, never met him but his sense of humor and his personality was awesome. He will be missed in Oxy. May God Bless you and keep you close to him during this time.
Monica Taylor
September 8, 2005
I just want to express my deepest sympathy to The Barr family. Its sad to see him go, He was a very smart and funny person. I enjoyed playing literati with him. He will be missed truly. Best Wishes to all of you. Just remember when you feel alone and you feel someone near and no one is, or you think no one is.Patrick is standing there beside you, watching over you all.
Marje Katchmark
September 8, 2005
Our Oxy family is mourning our loss tonight, and our hearts and prayers reach out to Patrick's family.
He was a good friend to many of us, even though we never met him, and we will miss him.
Lisa Haaland
September 7, 2005
Patrick was a kind funny man that I would of loved to have met in person..Im from the dreamcatcher family too and Patrick touched my heart with his kindness...He was always there for his online friends..He was a very special person and i will miss his hiya lis on my yahoo messenger, dearly...all his family and friends are in my prayers and thoughts...dc_yankee_rose2004(Lisa)
Melanie Phipps
September 7, 2005
Please accept my deepest sympathies. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him.
Kayla Apolinar
September 7, 2005
With deepest heartfelt symphathy. Patrick must surely have been a great man, because he was a great friend on the net. He will be missed dearly.
Sherri Vannatter
September 7, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes to the Barr family... patty will be greatly missed in the literati league which he played in often
Sherry King
September 7, 2005
I'm stunned and in shock, like most everyone else I'm sure. I just couldn't bring myself to call him Patty, cause he gave me such a hard time for calling him a "her". He will be greatly missed my all his friends in Dreamcathers. I will keep all his friends and family in my prayers. God Bless.
don vecchio
September 7, 2005
my deepest sympathy to your family.I enjoyed pat's sense of humor & we even talked about meeting,but never did.My loss I'm sure. I would've come to Bienhauer's if I had known. Don
Janie Stinson
September 7, 2005
Oh what a wonderful, fun-loving guy.... I am just devastated for the family.....special nieces....so much life ahead for Patrick...... Whenever anyone was down, he was one of the first to make you laugh. I will miss his wonderful sense of humor. I know oxy and dreamcatchers are "virtual", but not to those of us who are there for each other thru thick and thin. We are around the world, but united. Please know that Patrick had an impact on all of us that will be lasting. Rest in Peace. Love, dc_janietheinsane (janie)
Charity Ledbetter
September 7, 2005
To the family of our much loved Patty there are no words to console this kind of grief. Patty has many online friends also who are all in shock, as we just learned the news today. It is hard to believe. He brought a smile to every one he talked to so bright and funny he is greatly cherished and will be missed. Our Hearts and prayers are with u
(((((((((((((((((patttttttyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy)))))))))))))))))))
Tammie Graham
September 7, 2005
I only met Patrick once, and he left such an impression on me. He was very funny and I only heard good things from Jimmy about him. He made a lot of people laugh. I pray for strength and peace upon the family. God Bless.
mary debold
September 6, 2005
Ruthann, I am so sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your son,and that I was unable to come to express my condolences in person. You and your family are in my prayers.
Dale Lebder
September 6, 2005
To the Barr Family: It was an unbelievable shock to hear about Pat. Though we haven't seen each others in years, it seems like yesterday we were playing baseball for Castle Shannon or competing for St. Bernard's 8th grade basketball title. Pat was a kind-hearted, fun-loving guy, who to this day brings fond memories of growing up. I'll never forget the years we spent growing up as boys and enjoying our youth. Pat will be missed and my sympathies go out to you and your entire family.
Martina (Tina) Bills
September 6, 2005
Ruth Ann, Kenny, Shelly, Greg, Stacy and family...
I'll never forget all the times Patrick lended a helping hand. Countless times he came over to "fix" something or to carry the air conditioners from the basement. He did it all with a smile. It was so nice to hear such great stories about him last weekend...he touched a lot of lives and hearts and he will never be forgotten...
Dale, Meshelle and Shane Balach
September 5, 2005
We are so sorry to hear of your loss, Stacy. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kelly Anne Parks
September 4, 2005
To the entire Barr Family: I'm so sorry for your loss. Patrick will be very missed! He was such a great person. I have always loved how your family comes together and welcomes people in with open arms. I feel so very blessed to know that my mother and I are considered part of the Barr family. You all are amazing people and are blessed to have one another in this tragic time. Lean on each other and always keep talking and telling stories of Patrick. He will always be here with us in our hearts. Your family are in our thoughts, prayers and most of all our hearts always!
Gary Colosimo
September 4, 2005
Dear Ken,Ruth Ann, and the Entire Barr Family, I am so sorry to hear of Patrick's passing. You are in My Heart, Thoughts, And Prayers.
Gary Colosimo
Cindy & Celina Johnson
September 4, 2005
Dear Barr Family,
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of Patrick. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Carol Ruoti
September 3, 2005
To the Barr Family: I am so very sorry for your loss. May it send a little comfort to know that others share your sadness and understand, my Dad just passed away a month ago. You are in my prayers. Carol Ruoti at 716 Rose Ln
Sherry Locke
September 3, 2005
Mr. & Mrs. Barr, Greg, Shelly & Stacy:
I can't find the words to express my sorrow for your family. I loved Patrick so much, and I only knew him for 4 years. It's because of all of you that Patrick grew up to be the man I knew. I'll forever be grateful to you all for making Patrick the kind of man he was and one of the best friends I'll ever have. He'll be in my heart forever.
Steve, Thea, Miranda, Emma and Mia Hampsay
September 3, 2005
Greg, Kelly, Alex, Abby, Christian and Colton,
We feel your pain and loss. We will continue to pray and comfort you during the coming days, weeks, and months ahead. Get togethers at your house will never be the same again without "Uncle" Pat.
Stephen Nguyen
September 2, 2005
I will always remember Patrick as a fun, good hearted, and kind person with a great spirit. Giving these things in which we somtimes take for granted. My heart and prayers go out to his family and friends. Patrick, you were a great person to me. That is how you will always be.
Dorothy Voith
September 2, 2005
I did not know Pat very well. I met him when he was an usher at my nephew Ben Dilling's wedding. I found him to be a very friendly, sweet young man. I was so sorry to hear of his death. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Connie Jenkins
September 2, 2005
Shelly & Family....You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time and always. Love: The Jenkins Family (Milan, Indiana)
Megan McKinley
September 2, 2005
Dear Barr Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. While I did not know Patrick well, I remember how his presence and warm sense of humor lit up a room. He will be greatly missed.
Conroy Family
September 2, 2005
Mr.& Mrs. Barr, Shelly, Greg, Stacey
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are will all of you.
kelly johnson
September 2, 2005
Uncle Ken,Aunt Ruth Ann,Shelly,Greg and Stacy, I can't even try to imagine the pain and sorrow that all of you are feeling. Patrick was truly one of the best. The best cousin and friend. I hope that you find some comfort knowing that our entire family is here for you. Pat is now in peace with grandma making her smile with all his silly jokes. we love you and we will all miss him.
Anonymous
September 2, 2005
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you on the loss of your beloved son, brother, uncle, and grandson. And a hearfelt thank you also goes to all of you in your beautiful and selfless act of donating Pat's organs and tissues to save the lives of others. You are true heros in the eyes and hearts of the recipients and they will forever worship the ground you walk on. Three years ago today, my husband received the beautiful gift of life through a multi-organ transplant. There are no words to convey the appreciation all recipients feel toward their donors and donor families for being able to see through their grief to help total strangers. You are the most beautiful people in the world. On behalf of recipients everywhere, we are overwhelmed with gratitude.
James Barr
September 2, 2005
To Uncle Ken, Ruth Ann, Shelly and Greg, words can't describe what I am feeling inside. I can't even imagine the pain that you are feeling. As you know Patrick and all of us are more than cousins, we are friends and a truely blessed family. It was really great to know and love him. God bless all of you.
Chris Niespodzianski
September 2, 2005
Though I did not know Patrick that well, I could tell that he was a very kind and loving person. Very genuine. My deepest sympathy and condolences to the entire Barr family.
Shannon Gorse-Riley
September 2, 2005
To the entire Barr Family:
I am so saddened by the loss of Patrick. I fondly remember growing up and being at Uncle Kenny's house with Bobby John and I playing with everyone. I often saw Patrick on the streets of Down Town and would realize after he had walked by who he was, I always wanted to turn around and yell his name, but didn't for the fear that he wouldn't know who I was. I have come to find out that he told my dad that he would see me also and recognize me after I passed by. What I wouldn't give right now to have one more chance to see him on the street and have the oppurtunity to yell his name. I am so saddened by your loss. I have fond memories of growing up surrounded by the Barr family and it hurts my heart to know you are all in so much pain. God bless, love you all deeply,
Chuck Vukotich
September 2, 2005
Ruth Ann: As a parent of an adult child, my heart goes out to you. You never quit being a parent and worrying about them. My prayers go to you and your family. I know that you are a good and just person - God will be with you as he has promiced.
Laura Young(Mazany) & Family
September 2, 2005
Dear Barr Family,
Your son was a wonderful young man to have known and he will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Suzie Makrinos
September 2, 2005
Mr.& Mrs. Barr, Shelly, Greg, & Stacy,
We are so sorry for your loss and want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
John & Suzie, Jim & Diane Makrinos & Families
Pat, Bob and Linda
September 1, 2005
My Loving Brother and Sister-In-Law, Nieces and Nephew and Great Nieces and Nephews. I can not begin to tell you how much we love you. And how much our Pat was loved by all. I can only say that our family has been blessed that we had and still have Patrick with us in our hearts and memory something that will be with us always. Our Hearts are so heavy now with your love and sadness that it is breaking in half. We can only be here now and forever with our love for you. Love you all with all we have. Your Sister and Family.
Anne Bills Zachetti
September 1, 2005
To the entire Barr Family,
During every stage of my life, from grade school to my wedding, I have a memory of Patrick being there with me along the way. It's hard to imagine living out the rest of my life without any more memories being added to the treasured ones that I already have. Not only did you lose a son, a brother and a uncle, this world lost a wonderful man and I lost a treasured friend that I will never forget. Patrick's smiling face will never be far from my mind or heart. My heart goes out to each of you and I love you all!
Brian Zachetti
September 1, 2005
I did not know Patrick very well but what I did know of him was genuine. He seemed like a person that was always willing to lend a helping hand. I know how much he meant to my wife and her family. I wish there was something that could be done to bring him back. The walls he helped me build will always stand in my house and his memory will always stand in our hearts.
Teri~ Sue Obiecunas (mueller)
September 1, 2005
Dear MR. & MRS. Barr and family, I am deeply saddened by the passing of Patrick. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I know that Patrick is in Heaven and that he is proud to have been able to help others with the gift of life.
Mark, Michelle, Patty and Ron Maroni
September 1, 2005
Dear Barr Family,
Our most heartfelt sympathy are with you at this time.
Pat will always be remembered by our family as a fun-loving and absolutly the kindest person we have ever had the pleasure of knowing. He will forever be remembered in our thoughts and prayers. He was one great friend.
John Niespodzianski
September 1, 2005
Patrick was one of the good guys. He had a warm heart & was the kind of person that made you feel better just being around him. He will sorely be missed, but more importantly he'll fondly remembered forever. My deepest sympathies and condolences to the entire Barr family.
Rosemarie & Sam O'Brien
September 1, 2005
Dear Ruth Ann & Ken- Sam & I are so saddened to hear of your loss. There is no words I can say to help lighten your sorrow, All I can say is that you are in our thoughts & prayers. Love, Rosemarie
Chantelle & Frank Miller
September 1, 2005
Stacy, Words can not express how sorry we are for your loss. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. May god give you comfort and strength during your time of sorrow. Stacy if you need anything, we are here for you.
Anthony and Adrienne DeLallo
September 1, 2005
Dear Barr Family-
Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy to all of you! We truly loved Pat as part of our family. We will think of him and miss him with you each day. How wonderful though that he will continue to help so many others with his organs!
Ben and Adrienne Dilling
September 1, 2005
Dear Barrs,
We are so terribly saddened by this trajedy. There aren't words to express how sorry we are and how much we will miss our friend. If there is anything that we can do, at all, in this time of grief, please let us. Thank you for such a wonderful son, brother, uncle, friend. Will will really miss him.
-Ben and AJ
Dan Steingraber
September 1, 2005
My deepest sympathy to Pat's entire family. Pat was truly one of the good guys. Words cannot describe how much he will be missed by all who knew and loved him. May God be with you in your time of sorrow.
Kim Heckla Maiden
September 1, 2005
Dear Barr Family - I am so sorry to hear about Pat. We went to High School together and he was always such a happy guy. We had alot of laughs together. I will miss him very much.
Dorathy Donauer, Chris Richards and Tracy Orr
September 1, 2005
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Pat Ridenour and family
September 1, 2005
Ruth Ann and Kenny,
As I sit here and think about Pat, the things I remember most are his sparkling eyes and that smile. He had a way that he looked at you. You knew that he loved life and was a great people person. Knowing this, it gives us great comfort that a part of Pat will always live on through the donation of his organs. Therefore, is someway, Pat will still be smiling. He will be missed.
John Locke
September 1, 2005
I don't think I can put into words the grief that we all are feeling right now. Patrick is a special young man, and will always be remembered as such by anyone who knew him.
He will be in our hearts and prayers forever.
The Locke Family John, Sherry, and Sabrina
John McCoy
September 1, 2005
Dear Greg,my family and I are so sorry. Pat was the kindest guy I knew. He was one of a kind, and can only hope my son is as kind and generous as he was. I will remember him with great admiration and love.
God be with you all in the face of this tragedy.
Shirley Goyette
September 1, 2005
Pat has made such a positive impact on our lives. He will be missed very much. Our deepest sympathies for your family.
The Goyette Family: Christian, Shirley, and Charles
Cindy Hudson
September 1, 2005
Mr & Mrs Barr, Stacy, Greg, and Shelly,
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Patrick was one of the best there is. You are all in our thoughts and prayers that God may give you comfort.
Cindy, Dave, Victoria & Vanessa
Tory and Bill Sheppard
September 1, 2005
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Barr family. No words can make up for your loss. May God Bless all of you and give you the comfort you all need.
Bob Eckels
September 1, 2005
Greg, We are so sorry about your loss.
To you and your Family We send our sympathy and prayers.
God bless,
Bob Eckels and Family
Lisa Bushmen
September 1, 2005
Patrick was such a great guy. You have my deepest sympathy. Your family is in my prayers.
Kristin Morrell
September 1, 2005
Patrick was such a wonderful person, and so full of life. He will be greatly missed.
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Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
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Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
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What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
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Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
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The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
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Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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