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On Saturday, November 22, 2008; beloved husband of Cathy L. (Campbell); father of Holly L., Matthew A. and Christopher P.; brother of Catharine Watson, Charles E., Elizabeth Vehec, Bud, Rob and the late Michael Tomnay; also survived by nieces and nephews. Visitation Mon. 7-9pm & Tues. 2-4 & 7-9pm at FINDLAY C. WYLIE FUNERAL HOME, INC., 11311 Frankstown Rd., Penn Hills. Funeral Mass Wed. 10am, St. Victor R.C. Church. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to favorite charity.
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Marilyn Parker
November 26, 2008
Dear Cathy,
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Fonda Maciak
November 26, 2008
Dear Tomnay Family,
So sorry for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Victor, Fonda, Eli and Ian Maciak
Monica Cole
November 26, 2008
Dear Cathy,
We are friends of Rob and Kathy from Chester, Virginia. Please know that we hold you and your family in our hearts and in our prayers.
Wishing you much love, peace, and comfort, The Cole Family: Cliff, Monica, Brandon and Dani
Fran Kuzma
November 25, 2008
Cathy, we are friends of Rob and Kathy and are so sorry to hear of your loss. We know the whole family is hurting beyond any words. Our prayers are for you and your family and all Steve's brothers and sisters and their families. My Father always told me that those taken at this time of year were given a special invitation to the big Birthday Party next month.
God Be With All of You and Some How Comfort You,
Fran, and Bob Kuzma and Family
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November 25, 2008
Cathy,
Our sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
John & Linda Kokladas
Darla, Kayla and Cam Posney
November 25, 2008
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Tom & Betty Butler
November 25, 2008
Kathy : My Our Lord give you strength to endure your loss and sorrow. Our prayers are with you and the family. God Bless you and yours.
Daniel Woodfin
November 25, 2008
Rob,
I am sorry for your loss. I know that your family has had a hard time lately. Please know that the love of Jesus will get your ENTIRE family through this.
Mark & Judi Duva
November 25, 2008
Cathy and family,
You have our deepest sympathy! Steve was truly a wonderful person, always smiling! He will be truly missed!
Gerrie Halloran
November 25, 2008
Dear Cathy:
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Charlene Cominio
November 25, 2008
The memories came flooding in when I seen this obituary. Our families were friends for quite some time. Then as time and things change we loose contact. Always in my memories though. My sympathy go out to all of you for I also know what the loss of a brother can leave.
Joyce Anderson
November 25, 2008
Cathy, I am so sorry to hear of Steves untimely death. Yoy have my heartfelt sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Joyce
Samuel E. Nelson Jr.
November 25, 2008
To the Tomanay famly.
I'm am very sorry to learn of Steve's death. Steve was always nice to me and had a sense of humor.
I know that he truly loved his family.
I will keep the family in deep prayer and remember that Jesus can mend a grieving heart.
Samuel E. Nelson Jr.
Jean Meatris
November 24, 2008
The Tomnay Family,
I know this is a hard time for you, and we have never met, but we knew and heard of each of you at work with Steve. I will miss him and his wit. He made work a little brighter. My sincere condolences from coworker at L&DC.
Domino's crew
November 24, 2008
Matt & Family~
We are sorry to hear of the loss of your father. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Shelly and Dan Specht
November 24, 2008
Cathy, please accept our heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
John Yourish
November 24, 2008
Our sympathy to you and your family
John and Lisa Yourish
Liz Yauch
November 24, 2008
Cathy, you and your family have my deepest sympathy.
Kimmy and Danny Sufak-and all of us at bowling
November 24, 2008
Kathy, so sorry to hear of Steve's untimeley death. Know that our thought and prayers are with you and your family.Take care and embrace your family this holiday season.
Garrett & Robyn Goss
November 24, 2008
Our deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Emily, K.C. and Nicholas Marshall
November 24, 2008
Dearest Cathy - Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Holly, Matthew and Christopher. I pray for strength for you all.
Mary Jane Probola
November 24, 2008
Cathy, Steve will always be "the other Tomnay family" to me. He helped me quite a bit when my mother, Mary Tomnay, died. He will be missed by everyone. Mary Jane (Tomnay)
Janie Vehec
November 24, 2008
Dear Cathy, Holly, Matt, Chris,
Your husband and father has join the ranks of our beloved family members and although we can't see him, he will remain in our hearts forever. My prayers are with you now and always. Love
Sue and Barry Mittermeier
November 24, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to your family
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