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Bascom Gerald Durham

1951 - 2020

Bascom Gerald Durham obituary, 1951-2020, Poughkeepsie, NY

BORN

1951

DIED

2020

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Bascom Durham Obituary

Bascom Gerald Durham

Poughkeepsie - Bascom Gerald Durham was promoted from earthly labors to Heavenly rewards on Sunday, July 5, 2020 at his home in Poughkeepsie, NY.

Bascom was born on September 6, 1951 to the late Fannie Mae Tippens-Durham and Hobart Durham Sr. in Freestone County Oakwood, TX.

His education began in 1956 in the Butler School District. There he attended, the Butler High School for early schooling through high school. In May 1970 he graduated from Butler with the 4th highest GPA in the class of 23 students; September 1970 he enrolled in Prairie View A & M University for 4 years. He graduated with a major in Political Science, a minor in History. Prairie View A & M, was established as a land Grant College by President Abraham Lincoln after the abolishment of slavery in (1964-1965), 13th Amendment, mainly for descendants of former slaves and for all able bodied males, it was mandatory to participate in the Reserved Officers Training Corp (ROTC), for the first two years. He selected the Army and for the final two years for Advanced Corp.

In 1973 after completing requirements, he graduated from Prairie View A & M as the first (1st) graduated to enter in the Army Airborne School in Fort Benning, GA., Jump school, he also completed his training at Fort Riley, Kansas and was commissioned into the United States Army as Second Lieutenant. He served 14 years in Active Duty there was much hard work, education and traveling, foreign and near.

Some of his military education: graduate of Armor Officers Basics School, Adjutant General Officers School, Covental Italian School, Equal Opportunity Officers School, Southern European Task Force School and much more.

Military Personal Awards and Accommodations while on Active Duty: The Army Meritorious SVC Medal, is the highest medal awarded during Peace Time; Army Accommodations Medal; Army Achievement medal; Army National Defense SVC Medal; Army SVC Ribbon; Overseas SVC Ribbon; Parachutist Badge and many others. July 1986 he resigned his commission as officer and Full Active Duty and entered into NYS Army National Guard at Fort Drum, Watertown, NY, while there he establish the order of Eastern Star, he himself was a member of a number of houses OFY Prince Hall Freemasony (32 degree). He and his brother were initiated by their father.

On September 4, 1986, he became employed by NYS DOT as a Regional Compliant Specialist, soon he was promoted to Minority Business Specialist. He retired on September 9, 2010.

While in National Guard, he transferred to Mattydale, NY then to NYS National Guard Headquarters, Latham, NY, while there, he was promoted to Rank Senior Warrant Officer. A 26 year military SVC Veteran he was promoted to Chief Warrant Officer Four, the highest rank black CWO4 in NYS. In this position for 10 years, he traveled extensively to Army bases, mobilizing the reservists into active duty. 1990 he was activated into active duty during Desert Storm.

On September 11, 1993, he married Virginia C. Burrow. Bascom was on active duty at the Pentagon that ended September 30, 2000 less than a year before the terrorist attack on 9/11/2001. December 3, 2003 after much thought and consideration he resigned his commission as CWO4. He then became the Past Commander of American Legion and Sgt-at-Arms at Lafayette Post #37 for 22 years until his transition.

He was an active member of the Beulah Baptist Church in Poughkeepsie, NY where he served as a Deacon, Fine Gold Men's Ministry, Security Guard, Soup Kitchen, Military Ministry (sounding tap), Baptism Ministry.

He leaves to cherish his memory his devoted wife, Virginia C. Burrow-Durham; one son, Robert LC Durham of Houston, TX; 2 daughters, Sophia NC Durham of Houston, TX and Katharine McAleer of Kentucky; 8 grandchildren; 3 great-grandchildren; 2 sisters, LaRue Hooks (Margin) of Waco, TX and Allie Fae Moore (Alvin) of California; 4 brothers, George D. Durham of Houston, TX, Issac Durham (Susan) of Oakwood, TX, Richard Durham (Karen) of Oakwood, TX and James R. Durham of Houston, TX and a host of nieces, nephews and other family members.

He was predeceased by his parents, grandparents; 4 brothers, Thomas A. Hobart Jr., Thurman, Jim D; 2 sisters, Thelma L. Roquemore and Texanita Bluith; several aunts and uncles.

He touched and had an impact on many lives, young and old.

His commissions and assignments are completed now, and his living was not in vain.

"LASTLY HE WAS AN AVID AND LIFELONG DALLAS COWBOY FAN"

"REST IN PEACE BASCOM"

YOU WERE LOVED AND WILL SURELY BE MISSED

Professional services entrusted to Rhodes Funeral Homes, 43 Fairview Ave., Poughkeepsie, NY. Committed To Being The Very Best. Call us anytime 452-2894 or 452-6143.

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Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Jul. 14 to Jul. 15, 2020.

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James Tynan

April 12, 2025

I had the privilege of supervising Bascom for a couple years and, although we didn´t always agree on issues at hand, Bascom always carried himself with distinction. Rest in peace, Bascom.

Phyllis Allen

October 19, 2024

I miss you a lot. Your friendship was something that I counted on. I know that you are still leading with style and grace

John LiMarzi

July 8, 2023

I think of Bascom often as the years pass. He was educated, professional and thorough and too good for the job they gave him. I considered him a friend; I hope he had the same feeling for me. I admired Bascom and will remember him.

Morris Shepherd

September 27, 2020

Such sad news. Bascom and I were cadets together at Prairie View where we both attended Airborne school and received commissions into US Army. Bascom was a fine officer and much better friend. God speed Bascom Durham and know you will always be a special friend who leaves behind many fond memories

Forever friend

Shep

Kim Campbell

August 17, 2020

I am so sad to learn of Bascom's passing - and worse at such a late date. My heartfelt condolences to his wife and family. He was a great co-worker at DOT and I enjoyed his kind heart & Army spirit each time I saw him. My dad will greet this man with equal spirit. Rest in peace Bascom. I thank you for your service.

Lasonya Russell

July 18, 2020

No more "Sony Gail!" You will be missed highly Uncle Sonny. Your spirit was the best and a memory that will never be forgotten. R. I. P.
Your niece,
Lasony Gail & Rodney Russell

July 18, 2020

R. I. P. Uncle Sonny! You will be missed very much. I won't physically hear "Sony Gail" anymore, but it will always be many memories of you in my heart. Your niece, Lasonya Gail & Rodney Russell.

Jackie Freeman

July 17, 2020

My Condolence & Prayers goes out to Virginia Durham & your family. Bascom I Salute You, for your years you service in military , you we be missed. Rest on.

Allie Faye Moore

July 17, 2020

My brother Bascom was a Military Officer "Extraordinaire ". Could always be counted on to give a "Salute". He was my helper three years ago when our youngest brother was ill & needed Medical Intervention. Bascom saw to Ronnie getting to and from his appointments. I'm sure Ronnie would voice the same sentiment if he could. Rest in Peace My Brother.

Irene Hanson

July 17, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. Bascom will surely be missed!

Rachel Yvette Durham-Shannon

July 17, 2020

Rest now Uncle Sonny, until we meet again. Much Love. Your neice Yvette & Lester

Bryan Durham

July 17, 2020

Uncle Sonny
There are MANY memories that I can recall, ... from decades ago, to this day. You were a standout, and a man of integrity.
You and I were not just related, "we were friends". Friends with a sense of humor of our own!

I love you Uncle, and will keep you in my heart forever.

Willie Raymond, Anita K & Michael-Uncle Bucks Kids

July 16, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Christine Mund

July 15, 2020

RIP Bascom. It was a pleasure working with you. You were one in a million!

John LiMarzi

July 15, 2020

I knew Bascom, but not as well as I would have liked. I worked with Bascom and I admired his confidence, his tenacity and his sense of purpose. He tried to make a difference, and, in some cases he did, fighting an uphill battle to accomplish change. There are people I remember from DOT; there are a handful I really admired and would work with again; Bascom was one of those. Rest in peace; you are remembered.

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