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Dave Pinsky
Dave Pinsky was a man who loved flying and who loved being an Air Force fighter pilot. Most everything Dave did reflected that "fighter pilot attitude". Dave was a hard driver who expected excellence from himself and everyone around him. He often told people that his "Dad said hard work will get you everywhere" and Dave was a great example of that.
Colonel Dave Pinsky, U.S. Air Force (Retired), was born in Teaneck, NJ, and grew up in Ridgefield Park, NJ, Denver, CO, and Teaneck. He loved flying and airplanes from a very early age when he used to watch them take off and land from Teterboro Airport in NJ.
Dave wanted to be an automobile mechanic, but his high school auto mechanics teacher convinced him to go to college. He attended Rutgers University from 1958 to 1961 where he studied business administration and was a Distinguished Graduate from the Air Force ROTC program where he earned his USAF officer's commission and then began to live his dream of flying jet fighters at Craig Air Force Base in Selma, AL.
After serving as a pilot instructor in California, he deployed to Vietnam for service as a Forward Air Controller, piloting a Cessna O-1E "Bird Dog." Based at Duc Hoa, his unit supported the 25th ARVN Division and a variety of US Special Forces. During that tour, Dave flew 614 combat missions and was awarded two Silver Stars, the Distinguished Flying Cross, the Bronze Star, two Purple Hearts, and 26 Air Medals. Returning stateside, he realized his dream and flew the Air Force's newest fighter, the F-106, out of Langley Air Force Base in Hampton, VA for the next seven years. During his tour at Langley he deployed temporarily to South Korea in response to the USS Pueblo Crisis and was sent to Alaska for air defense alert where he scrambled several times to intercept Soviet aircraft.
Following his early promotion to Major, Dave attended Armed Forces Staff College, then served at Fort Lee, VA, in Air Defense Headquarters as the Fighter Standardization and Evaluation Officer for the East Coast. Dave was then assigned to command the F-106 unit at Homestead Air Force Base, FL during the time President Nixon often visited the Key Biscayne White House. Dave was then sent to Naples, Italy with NATO forces in charge of planning for external reinforcements of Southern Europe in the event of war.
Returning to the US, he was selected to attend Air War College, graduating as a Distinguished Graduate, then, joined the Air Staff at the Pentagon to serve as Deputy Division Chief for Air Defense, Missiles and Space. After an early promotion to full Colonel, he served as Division Chief for Western Hemisphere Policy and Plans within the Joint Chiefs of Staff.
Dave was then assigned as Assistant Director of Operations of the Strategic Air Command FB-111 unit at Plattsburgh, NY, before becoming FB-111 Director of Operations at Pease Air Force Base, NH.
He was then assigned to Beale Air Force Base, CA, where he served as Vice Wing Commander, then, Wing Commander of the high-altitude 9th Strategic Reconnaissance Wing that included SR-71 Blackbirds and U-2s, the Air Force's most prestigious wing. While at Beale he was awarded the Legion of Merit.
Following his retirement from the USAF in 1987, Dave worked as Deputy Director of Utilities for Santa Rosa, CA, ultimately asked to bring on board the one-of-kind Geysers Recharge Project. Dave retired from this position after eighteen years in 2005. During this period Dave was selected for Leadership Santa Rosa Class VII which he enjoyed immensely. This led to Dave's becoming a Board Member, then President, of the Luther Burbank Rose Parade.
He was then asked to become the Executive Director of the Pacific Coast Air Museum in Santa Rosa and the Wings Over Wine Country Air Show, which he happily did for ten years and became well known in the Air Operations field of the air show industry.
In 2011 Dave was selected as the recipient of the Sonoma County "Spirit" Award. He was also selected to receive the Wright Brothers Master Pilot Award, the most prestigious award the FAA issues to pilots. This award honors individuals who have exhibited professionalism, skill, and aviation expertise for at least 50 years while piloting aircraft as "Master Pilots". A command pilot, he has flown over 6,500 hours in the SR-71, U-2, F-106, F-102, FB-111, T-38, T-33, T-37, T-29, KC-135 and O-1 aircraft, including over 1,000 hours of Combat Time. After his retirement from the Air Force, Dave continued to fly regularly in a Cessna 172.
Dave was also a proud member of the National Ski Patrol and patrolled first at Sugar Bowl, then at Squaw Valley for over 15 years.
Following the October 2017 Santa Rosa firestorm in which Dave and Betty lost their home and all their possessions, Dave focused on rebuilding his and Betty's life in their new home in Rincon Valley, Santa Rosa. Dave was asked to join the California Highway Patrol as a Senior Volunteer which he did and enjoyed tremendously, becoming coordinator for the program.
Dave was a hard charger who loved life, loved being a "fighter" pilot, always wanted things done "the right way, one time, the first time". Inside he was soft hearted and would give you the shirt off his back.
Dave passed away on October 9, 2020, and is survived by his lovely wife Betty, their daughter Jerilyn, and granddaughters Elliana and Lilyan, their son Bob and grandchildren Nick, Heather and Bobby, Jr., all of whom he loved very much.
Dave will be buried with full military honors. Due to COVID-19 a Celebration of Life is postponed.

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Published by Press Democrat from Dec. 13 to Dec. 20, 2020.

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Kristin Salinas

April 9, 2021

Dearest Betty,
My sincere, heartfelt condolences on the loss Dave. In the short time that I was lucky enough to support Dave after his accident I was able to learn just how much he loved you. You were his reason to fight and his reason to live and he worked so hard to get back home to you. Him and I would exchange emails after he discharged home, checking in, and I absolutely loved to hear about how the both of you were enjoying life together. I learned a lot from Dave and thank every day that I am able to continue to help people just like him, so deserving of life. I learned so much from Dave. He made me realize how much of an impact we can leave on the lives of people around us even if we’re only around for a short while.
I am forever grateful for being able to care for Dave. He will always be in my heart.

Sending you my love Betty.

Mickey Blatt

January 2, 2021

Betty & Family, I'm so sorry to see that Dave has passed away. I remember both of you on several Day Tripping trips the last few years. I was lucky to be the escort on some of them as well. May memories of Joy & happiness comfort all of you at this very sad time. May God Bless you.

John Joyner

December 22, 2020

Dave Pinksy was and will forever be my mentor. He hired me at the City of Santa Rosa and took me under his wing. I owe much of my success to Dave and his constant mantra of success through hard work resonated with me deeply and paid off! Thank you, Dave, for your guidance and passing on knowledge that I still employ today. We wish the family all the best and we send our deepest condolences.

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John Carr

December 21, 2020

He was my Commander at Homestead AFB Fla at Det 2.. WE became close friends , I admired him and resected him , You could always bank on If told you some thing ( any thing) He meant it .. I enjoyed his and Betty,s company at our reunions He was a true friend and will be sorely missed

Peggy Danforth

December 21, 2020

I knew Col. Pinsky and his former wife, Sue, at Beale AFB in the 80s.
My son was a good friend of their son, Brian.
May Col. Pinsky rest in peace

Mike Lubas

December 18, 2020

I patrolled with Dave at Squaw Valley for 5 years. Did not know of his military past until a fellow patroller shared with me his accomplishments. Although I did not know him for very long, my brief interactions on the hill were always memorable. We heard the flyover today and did not what is was until reported on a local app. My kids asked why the house shook and then all was calm.....I told them an American hero was laid to rest today and your freedom is because of men like him. RIP Col. Pinsky. You will never be forgotten.

Walter Martin

December 18, 2020

Col. Pinsky was of the greatest F-106 pilot's I ever was privileged to work with. He demanded an aircraft that was OR and rightfully so. At the same time he was very complimentary of your job performance when the plane was properly maintained. It was my great privilege to know and serve with such a distinguished pilot. He deserved the accolades that described him. Please know I will pray for your family as I think of you. Staff sergeant, Walt Martin, crew chief, F-106, Langley AFB, 1966-70

David W. Mitchell

December 16, 2020

A great man to have served with. He was Commander at Beale when I got there at 22 yrs of age. I remember the retirement ceremony well. Into the wild, blue, yonder, Sir!

Marsha Vas Dupre, Ph.D.

December 15, 2020

Wonderful man. The City of Santa Rosa was fortunate to have him in the Utilities Dept. - he was very helpful to me as a SR City Councilwoman.

James Mattison

December 15, 2020

It was an honor to work with Dave at Pacific Coast Air Museum. I took over responsibility for the Museum's F-106 Delta Dart. We both shared a love and passion for the aircraft. Dave would often make a tour of the grounds and climb aboard the F-106 when I had it open. I relished the times when he would sit in the pilot's seat and reminisce about his time flying the "Six" He always acknowledged my efforts at taking care of the aircraft.
Dave was a great man and he will be sorely missed within the community. May he rest in well-deserved heavenly peace.
Hand salute Colonel

Marian J Casse

December 14, 2020

RIP Sir.....

Barney Hagen

December 13, 2020

Rest in Peace my fiend.
Per Ardua Ad Astra
Barney

Herlinda Heras

December 13, 2020

Dave was wonderful; a true American. He helped me so much with our US Naval War College international students tours. An honor and privilege to know and collaborate with him. My condolences to his family.

Ed Shirley

December 13, 2020

I flew several different aircraft with Dave. He was a great guy and a superb pilot. God Bless his family

Anthony Sarganis

December 13, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mike Pinoris

December 13, 2020

I still remember my interview with Dave .. you knew who was boss. I wish I had an opportunity to get to know him better. RIP

Robert Swann

December 13, 2020

I knew the Colonel for a short time through the air show. I was always proud to say I knew him.

Fred Bush

December 13, 2020

R.I.P. Dave

Greg D'Ambrogi

December 13, 2020

Those of us that had the opportunity to work with Dave and were able to get through his tough shell, we will forever be grateful to have been mentored by one of the best. RIP

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