Raymond John DeMarta

Passed away on May 11, 2011 at his home. Partner, best friend, and devoted husband of Jaye Larsen of Sonoma. Loving father of Mark DeMarta and his wife, Sonia, of Los Angeles, the late Pamela Lynn DeMarta, and Stacy Larsen and his wife Toni of Petaluma. He is also survived by his granddaughters; Nancy, Michelle, Kimberly, and Savannah, his brother, Robert DeMarta and his wife, Patricia of Fremont, Ingrid DeMarta of Fairfax, and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Barbara DeMarta, and his brother Roy DeMarta. Ray was born in San Francisco May 10, 1933 to Leroy and Eva DeMarta. He graduated from Lowell High School and College of Marin and received his bachelor's degree and teaching credential from San Francisco State University. Ray started his teaching career the opening year of Kenilworth Junior High School in Petaluma where he taught for the next thirty-six years. He was a beloved and respected teacher and colleague to several generations of students and faculty. His ability to relate to everyone, regardless of age, background, or political persuasion made Ray a unique individual. He had an uncanny talent for drawing out people's thoughts and feelings because he listened intently to them. He was a friend to all who knew him because he respected everyone. Students whom he taught remembered him years after being in his class. On one occasion, when Ray and Jaye were on a cruise ship leaving New York, a voice from the crowded deck yelled, "Mr. DeMarta!" It was a former student. As a teacher, that says a lot about who you are. In his spare time, Ray enjoyed participating in a variety of sports, including scuba diving, golf, and especially skiing. He also loved reading, cooking, and music. Ray is remembered, by those who knew him, to be generous, humorous, and a man who celebrated life with a passion. We will all miss his charm, wit, and friendship. He had "a sense of humor and a touch of class." A party will be held in Ray's honor for friends and family on Saturday, May 21, 2011, from 2:00 p.m. until 5:00 p.m. at his home. In his memory, contributions may be made to the Sonoma County Animal Shelter. Family assisted by PARENT-SORENSEN MORTUARY & CREMATORY, 763-4131