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2019

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1625 North High Street

Lakeport, California

Pamela Phillips Obituary

Pamela Phillips
October 21, 1947 - April 16, 2019

Pamela R. Phillips, 71, often described as the most kind and gentle person anyone has ever met, died peacefully on Tuesday, April 16, 2019, after a long battle with breast cancer. She was surrounded by loved ones, exactly how she would have wanted it to be.
Pam was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend to all. She leaves behind her loving husband
of 35 wonderful years, Raymond; four children, Misty, Daniel, Kehaulani, and Maheanani; 15 grandchildren; five of her siblings; tons of nieces and nephew; and countless others that she took in as her own over the years. There was never a person Pamela met that she didn't consider family. She will be profoundly missed by every individual that had the privilege to know her.
A Celebration of Life, and potluck, will be held at Pamela's favorite place to be, Robinson Rancheria in the Banquet Hall, on May 5, 2019, at 1 p.m. Please come adorned with your Pamela-inspired hat. For any questions, please contact
Pam's daughter, Nani, at [email protected].
Arrangements by Chapel of the Lakes
Mortuary. 707-263-0357 or 994-5611 or visit chapelofthelakes.com.

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Published by Lake County Record-Bee from Apr. 27 to May 3, 2019.

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Sherry Hoey

April 24, 2024

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Sherry Hoey

October 22, 2020

I just found out today,that she passed. I spoke with her 2 weeks before.we chatted.she said she thought cancer was back, but her death seemed sudden. Anyway, she was the sweetest ,kindest, most understanding person I have ever met. She was the best boss ever! I am so sad, many will miss her forever.

May 7, 2019

My deepest condolences to the family. May God comfort your hearts and strengthen you all during this difficult time. -2 Thessalonians 2:16,17

BC~

April 29, 2019

I am deeply sorry for your loss. May God make his face shine upon you , and grant you peace.

Manny & Michele Rodriguez

April 28, 2019

I worked with Pam when I transferred from Los Angeles to Lakeport in August, 1994. Pam was a breath of fresh air for me. She always made the time to advise and offer assistance while on the job. Her job knowledge was legendary. When I was widowed in January, 1999 she comforted me. When I remarried in October, 2001 she was so sweet and nice to my new wife, Michele who was blind and wheelchair bound. Pam held her hand while speaking with her. She touched both our hearts. When I retired in May, 2007, she had a farewell party for me. She also gave me a send off gift by having my government stewardship published in the Congressional Record and honored me for my tenure at Social Security. I never had a boss like her. Pam was one of kind. Michele and I love her and will miss her. Our prayers to her immediate family and friends.

Misty Poloni

April 26, 2019

My mom was the most loving and sweetest person to know. If you know her she loved you. She was and Angel here on Earth and now up there watching over us.

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Celebration of Life

1:00 p.m.

Robinson Rancheria

CA

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1625 North High Street, Lakeport, CA 95453

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