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K. Gale Potee MD

1924 - 2014

K. Gale Potee MD obituary, 1924-2014

BORN

1924

DIED

2014

K. Potee Obituary

Oct. 2, 1924-Aug. 26, 2014
Kenneth Gale Potee was born October 2, 1924 on Mahatma Gandhi's 55th birthday to Esther Gale Potee and Kenneth Leon Potee, Disciples of Christ missionaries, at Itarsi, Madhya Pradesh, India. His twin brother died at 48 hours. For Gale, home was Pendra Road, in the part of India where Kipling's Jungle Books took place.
Kindergarten was in West Haven, CT, while his father was at Yale Divinity School. His next 12 school years were spent largely at the Kodaikanal School in Tamil Nadu, South India, from which he was evacuated in 1942. Gale graduated Phi Beta Kappa from the University of Michigan in 1945 and Alpha Omega Alpha from Western Reserve School of Medicine in 1949.
He became an ardent pacifist after writing a term paper on Buddhism his senior year at Kodai School and after reading John Steinbeck's The "Grapes of Wrath." He was jailed in the federal prison in Boston for refusing to register for the doctor's draft for the Korean War in early July 1950, making the front page of the Boston Globe. The American Friends Service Committee bailed him out for 500.00 and after that, he became an enthusiastic Quaker.
Medical training included internship and residency at the Boston City Hospital, Mount Auburn Hospital and Springfield Hospital. He became an internist and did cancer chemotherapy at Pondville Hospital, Walpole, MA. He was also an infectious disease fellow under Max Finland at Harvard Medical School and Boston City Hospital.
In 1946, under the Marshall Plan, he helped tend 1700 pregnant mares on a ship to Bremerhaven, Germany. With his best friends, Chas Wilder and Bob Dudley, he spent summers climbing mountains in Colorado and working in silver mines and wheat fields in the west.
He married Joanne Koch in Cambridge in 1963, when he was 39. They raised their five children in Petersham, MA, which he often proclaimed were his "happiest years". He worked as an internist at Wing Memorial Hospital in Palmer, MA, for 33 years and 18 days, retired at age 71. He was greatly beloved by his patients and colleagues.
He had many passions including building stone walls, collecting over 20,000 Massachusetts vanity plates, and travelling to 42 states as well as 24 countries. He returned to his beloved India three times. He prided himself as a bibliophile and surrounded himself with shelves holding more than 2,000 books. Summers he spent at the Chautauqua Institute in upstate New York where he began writing sonnets in 2000. A poet at heart, he had written more than 15,000 sonnets.
Most important, Gale Potee was the most loving, understanding and supportive father imaginable. He is survived by Rigo and Linda Schmelzer and their children, Emma and Charlie, of Bloomington, Ill.; Jenny Potee and Mike Yohan and their children, Nathaniel and Tessa, of New Salem, MA; Deb Potee and Richard Fitzgerald and their children, Vivienne and Juliette, of Northfield, MA, and Ruth Potee and Stephen Martin and their children, Ben, Ella and Jane, of Northfield, MA.
Gale was predeceased by his son, Charles Samuel Potee, in 1991.
He also leaves his former wife, Joanne Potee, of Turners Falls, MA. His older sister, Carol Potee Salmonson died in 1996. His younger sister, Elinor Potee Nichols, lives in Lincoln, MA.
He remained active in Friends Meeting at Cambridge but also attended Mount Toby Meeting in Leverett, MA.
Donations in his memory may be sent to the American Friends Service Committee, 1501 Cherry Street, Philadelphia, PA 19102.
A memorial service to celebrate his life will be held at 2 p.m. Nov. 29 at Mount Toby Friends Meetinghouse, 194 Long Plain Road (Route 63) in Leverett.

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Published by The Recorder on Nov. 21, 2014.

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September 22, 2014

To all of our friends in the extended Potee Family, our thoughts are with you as we all celebrate this life well lived. Your touching obituary (and a moving personal reflection our brother, Sean, shared within our family) makes plain that Dr. Potee was a man of many layers, layers about which some of us had little insight even as neighbors of so many years. We knew him primarily as our quiet neighbor in our smallest of towns, Petersham, but he was truly a citizen of the world; his more visible quiet exterior masked a less obvious internal steel and conviction (evidenced in part by the draft story, unknown to some of us); and he was a tender of stones as some of us knew but more importantly of people through his profession and otherwise. I think many of us saw and respected him as a "quiet presence" in our lives who lived honorably by example. It seems to me that is a wonderful thing to be able to say about another. All of us in the Goudie Family join in your mourning but more importantly in celebrating this honorable "quiet presence" in our lives.
Robert Goudie

Penelope Davis

September 15, 2014

Today I found a sonnet that Gale wrote for me at Chautauqua in July 2003 when we were in the same cottage. I had formatted it in Old English and sent him a copy. He sent it back beautifully framed. I decided to contact him to thank him again and found this obituary. Despite our many conversations I had no idea how meaningful his life had been. I'm sorry that our paths did not cross again at Chautauqua. What a delightful person he was. I celebrate a life well lived.

September 4, 2014

Ruth and Jenny,
My heart goes out to both of you at what you have lost. I know that you will best honor his memory by continuing to love and give back to the community in the way he taught you to do so. Best, Jessica

DOLORES PELETIER

September 3, 2014

DEAR DR POTEE,I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOU FATHER. DOLORES PELETIER

Stephanie Greenblatt

August 29, 2014

Mrs. Potee, Dr. Potee, and family,
sending condolences and sympathies to your all at this sad time.
Peace,
Stephanie Greenblatt

August 28, 2014

Dear Dr. Potee,

Sorry for your lost.

Marilyn Morningstar

Keith Milne

August 28, 2014

Ruth, I'm so sorry to learn of your Father's passing. After reading his obituary, I was very impressed by how he stuck to his principles and devoted his life to pacifism and helping, healing, and doing good for others. He must have been quite an inspiration to you and others who knew him. I'm very sorry for for your loss.

Therese Church

August 28, 2014

I remember meeting Dr.Potee a few times and I was struck by his warm and genuine nature. Wished I had gotten to know this delightful, learned and special spiritual man more. Sending my sincerest condolences to all his family.

Rev Cindy Frado

August 27, 2014

Ruth, Deb, Jenny and family…It was such a pleasure to get to meet your father. He had such a wonderful spirit about him, and I always enjoyed our conversations, albeit far too brief! I'll always remember him zipping around town in his VW bug with all its bumper stickers. He talked, walked, and breathed his principles and beliefs. I'm very sorry for your loss. I know that he was very proud of you all, and that the connections and affection he had for you and that you had for him will always be there. Gentle blessings in this tender time.

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