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Benjamin Reddish Obituary

Benjamin J. Reddish, Jr.
Benjamin J. Reddish, Jr. 85, passed away on December 5, 2020. Mr. Reddish is well known in the greater Stockton community for his leadership and transformation of the lives many students during his time as an educator in the Stockton Unified School District. Alongside his wife Janie, Mr. Reddish had a life fully dedicated to serving others. He received his Master's degree from the Benerd School of Education in 1971. During his long career as a teacher and counselor in Stockton, he consistently focused his skills on being a role model for youth and providing students with the skills needed to reach their full potential and become productive citizens. In addition to his calling to counsel, Mr. Reddish helped transform lives as a volunteer for Pacific's Community Involvement Program (CIP), and serving on many boards, including The Kiwanis Club of Stockton, the Stockton Symphony Association, The San Joaquin County Historical Society, Phi Delta Kappa International, Stockton Sister Cities Organization, Association of Filipino American Educators, The Esquire Club of Stockton, Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., People to People International , SUSD Black Employees Association, National Association for Advancement of Colored People (NAACP). In 2017, he was honored with an award from the Community Involvement Program (CIP) named after him, the Benjamin Reddish Community Impact Award. In 2019, he was honored by the Pacific Alumni Association for the Distinguished Alumni Award for Volunteer Service. Photography was a love of his and he could often be taking photos at various events. When he had an opportunity to share wisdom from the stage/podium, which was often, we heard many stories filled with humor, hope and empowerment. He was the epitome of Black excellence and served as a source of inspiration for many people over a lifetime of leadership, scholarship and genuine love for each and every person who had the pleasure of learning from him. Mr. Reddish will be deeply missed, but his memory and teachings will continue to be cherished by his survivors: his wife, Janie B. Reddish of Stockton, Ca; one son Mr. Benjamin J. Reddish, III of Wyoming, RI, one sister in-law Mary Arnwine of Ivoryton, CT, one nephew Mr. Carlos V. (Shirley) Cave, Sr. of Bluffton, SC, one niece Dr. Harriet Anita Roland of Orangeburg, SC several great nephews and nieces; numerous cousins, loving friends, former students, fraternity brothers and many caring associates.
Mr. Reddish would always ask… "Are you choosing to have a good day?" so let's each remember his words of encouragement as we walk through our daily lives and "Make the Choice to Have a Good Day."
A memorial service will be held on Sunday, December 13th 2020 at 4:00pm on Zoom. To receive a service bulletin and ZOOM link please e-mail Susie Wanden BY 3:00 p.m. on Friday December 11: [email protected]. Include your contact information for the guest book.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the scholarship fund honoring Benjamin J. Reddish, Jr.: Benjamin and Janie Reddish Endowed Scholarship, University of the Pacific, 3601 Pacific Ave Stockton, CA 95211, Attn: Benjamin and Janie Reddish Endowed Scholarship Or electronically: Reference: Benjamin Reddish or Benjamin and Janie Reddish Endowed Scholarship, Online Giving Link: www.pacific.edu/makeagift

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Published by The Record from Dec. 10 to Dec. 11, 2020.

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Keith Orlando Hilton, PhD (Ife Chukwu)

December 17, 2020

When I think of my 18 years in Stockton (1998-2016) as both a professor and publisher (CV Drum News), Ben Reddish is still one of the first names that immediately come to mine. He was a bridge and mentor to so many, including for me. He, along with numerous others, will be recognized in a book I am working on, “African-American Legends, Leadership and Letdowns in the Central Valley (2000-2020)”. My condolences to Mrs. Janie Reddish and the entire Reddish family. Fond memories.

Steven Dundas

December 15, 2020

Mr. Reddish was an inspiration to me as a student at Edison. My deepest sympathy and prayers to his surviving family, especially my friend Joey.

Stephanie Craig

December 14, 2020

Janie, I am so sorry to learn of Mr. Reddish's passing. I had the pleasure of talking to him when he would come to visit you at Montezuma. He was a wonderful man, and he will be greatly missed. Sending Condolences to you and the family.

Sincerely,
Stephanie Craig

Dave Del Porto

December 11, 2020

Some of my best memories of working at Edison for so many years were the conversations I had with Ben. He had a sharp wit, and a great sense of humor. We always had a joke for each other.

Rita Vasquez

December 11, 2020

I had the privilege to work alongside Mr. Reddish as a community partner many years ago as we worked with at risk youth. I was incredibly proud when he was the photographer the year I was the recipient of the Susan B Anthony Award, So incredibly blessed to have been in one of many community members that worked closely with an incredible man wanting to make a difference with the next legacy.. a true leader. May the lord open his doors as his has left a legacy and leaves an incredible legacy, thank you lord for allowing Mr. Ben Reddish in our Community and in our and especially to his family . May his family find comfort and solace in the beautiful legacy and memories he leaves in his beloved community and with his family..

Marci Settles Lewis

December 11, 2020

Mrs. Reddish,

On behalf of the entire Settles' Family, please accept our condolences for the passing of your husband. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this most difficult time.

Kathy Young

December 11, 2020

I worked with Ben for many years at Edison. He was definitely a positive influence on many of the students there. He was always very organized and when he spoke at our faculty meetings, we knew his presentations would be "to the point." Condolences to Janie and the family.

Coach Ray Harris

December 10, 2020

MR Reddish was a great great person. RIP

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