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Alfred F Holzapfel
June 24, 2025
I miss that smiling face and fantastic personality
Teri Rhynes
November 21, 2024
God Blessed us with enjoying Life together. This is what my heart holds dear to me. Working side by side in the grocery store, going out dancing, our boys playing and enjoying each other. Talking and looking at your sad clown collection or just talking about anything and everything. We had a long time of years pass by us after the grocery store. She was happy with her new job. As we then found each other by chance at a concert out front of the Loft. Then again to dance to ABBA at Victory park. Here she told me about her son Jamie passing away to Heaven. Here I saw Mom again whom always came through my check out lane at Fry´s. Pretty as ever. Then a few months passed I received a late night call from Val telling me her sister passed and she had cancer. We talked for an hour. We really felt for Mom. We talked about Life. I wanted to do something and couldn´t. So, I named my angel on top of my Christmas tree Valerie. In this moment was where I really, Thanked God, for bringing us back together. This is Life. We are here to support, work, enjoy, laugh, love, have friendships, dance, sing, worry, be sad clowns and then we go to Heaven when it´s our time to do so by God and only God and his timing. He knows what we need to do in our future first. I am so proud to of known such a fine example of a great girlfriend, person and fine example of a human being to all that knew her. With goals to plan for her future. I Thank God for giving us our time and reconciliation. I Thank God for our friendship over so many years. Sometimes it feels like her light shines deep inside my heart and soul. She was Love and is Love sitting with God. Within my heart the rest of my Life and yours. Mom your in my prayers. She was an Angel amongst us. She was so caring. I still feel her joyful spirit. And see her smile. She lives on....Valerie I Love you the rest of my Life.
God Blessings to All she impacted along her journey here. Our video is dancing queens. Remembered forever more. Our Val.
Alfred Holzapfel
June 27, 2023
This woman made me smile every time we saw each other in our early years of school through High School. I will never forget her and I know she is making people smile in Heaven.
Susan Blair (Claypool)
July 3, 2020
Val, you came into my life when we were children. You lived down the block and I was always getting in trouble for going to your house without asking. Jump ahead to AA Stagg High. Oh boy did we have fun. You were such a free spirit. Years passed and we reconnected on FB. I had loss my husband and you said "Come to Stockton! Let's hang out!" We went to our old stomping ground at Victory Park and listened and danced to the ABBA Tribute band Waterloo. It seemed like you knew everyone there. Even the band knew you! Must've been the boa's. Prayer's going up for your Mom, sister's and grands. Paul too! Rest in the arms of Jesus. I will never forget you!
Patsy Estrada Alvord
July 2, 2020
Valerie will be greatly missed. May she Rest In Peace.
Nancy Suares
July 2, 2020
My deepest condolences to family and friends. I knew Val for many years. She lit up the room when she walked in. Rest In Peace Val ♥
Marcia Mortensen
July 2, 2020
You were always ready for fun, decked out in Turquoise and sparkles. Your smile and spunky bright nature always filled the room. I love you Valerie, I will miss you in my life. Rest In Peace with your Son Jamie.
Alfred Holzapfel
July 1, 2020
will miss this wonderful and crazy girl Gods speed you Angel!
Sherry Carson
July 1, 2020
Thank you for your friendship, being a wonderful co-worker. Most of all being uniquely you. Your laughter and joy will be missed . Time for you to dance on the clouds with Jamie. Rest in peace my friend,
Patrick McMahan
July 1, 2020
Thank you for the friendship, love, and laughter over the years. Rest now, my friend. Love, light, and Godspeed.
You arw missed.
Love,
Patrick
Marcia
July 1, 2020
Val was a girls girl, Turquoise, sparkle and spunk was her middle name So many memories, her selfless nature made her the best friend ever. You are so loved and already missed. RIP in my friend with your Jamie
July 1, 2020
To Paul and all of Valerie's family,
My deepest condolences to all. Valery and I have friends for many many years and I will always special thoughts of her.
Bob Rocha, an old friend . . .
Dana Surgick
July 1, 2020
Your company, laughter, smile and love will not be forgotten. Rest in heaven and hugging all those youve loved from above. ❤
Patrick
July 1, 2020
Val, thanks for all the love, laughter, and friendship over the years. You are missed. Love, light, and peace. Godspeed.❤
Patrick
Michael and Rene Fong
July 1, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Cassandra Christolos
July 1, 2020
Having known Valerie since my teens i can say she always had a smile for you, Lisa you and your family are in my heart & prayers.
Sherry Bechthold
July 1, 2020
Val was a very dear friend to my husband and myself. Always upbeat and the life of the party. We will miss you our dear friend ❤
Luana Whitford
July 1, 2020
Valerie was an icon at St Josephs Hospital. Not only loved by coworkers, but also the patients she cared for! She will be missed by so many.
Fly with the angels
Kathy Belcher
June 30, 2020
worked with Valerie at st Josephs fir those 25 years. I recently spent a few hours with her when we both were getting chemo at Dr Mehdis office and spent time reminiscing about our lives. So sad and will not forget that day less than 2 months ago.
Cami Abeldt
June 30, 2020
Rest in peace my dear friend. Thanks for the memories! Love & hugs to you and Jamie.
teresa bavender
June 30, 2020
I love you Valerie,
Tammy Blair
June 30, 2020
Val will always be remembered for how much sparkle she brought to everything she did !
Love you Val and will always remember the fun times we had .
Pam Lucchesi-Hammond
June 30, 2020
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Patti Brice
June 30, 2020
Im sure missing you! Rest In Peace my friend! James and I will continue to say Cool your jets we will forever miss you
Debra D. Simas (Graham)
June 30, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. We had memories to cherish, and I will see you again.Love you Valerie, hug your Jamie!
Debra D. Simas (Graham)
June 30, 2020
In the loving memory of a friend since high school days, we had great love, laughs and Valerie was always welcoming to her friends and family. Love you always, Val.
Deena Adams
June 29, 2020
Valerie and I met when her Jamie and my Nikki were in grade school, we babysat, had playdates and became great friends! She was the most beautiful, brightest shiny penny EVER! Our lives went in different directions and sadly we lost touch. I however have always loved her, I never forgot about her and never will. RIP
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June 29, 2020
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