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LUDLOW - On Nov. 19, 2011, John Francis "Murph" Murphy Sr., age 88, passed away at his home, surrounded by family. John was genuinely part of the fabric of Ludlow, Vermont. He was born on Lamere Avenue on February 22, 1923, baptized in the Church of Annunciation and attended school there. As a young man, John worked building local roads and bridges until going to work for General Electric for 28 years. But, most famously, he served the people of Ludlow and the state of Vermont as a member of the Vermont House of Representatives for 30 years, receiving his constituents' support through 15 consecutive elections.

John had many great loves. He loved to hunt, going to his deer camp with friends and family for more than 50 years. He loved to fish, even tying his own flies. But mostly he loved his church, his community and his family.

You could say John's marriage to Florabel was a match made in heaven. He saw her in church and asked her friend, Lucille Bowker, to introduce them after second Mass. Lucille did, and that was the beginning of a love story lasting over 60 years. They were blessed with a wonderful son, John Jr.

The contributions John made to his community and the state of Vermont are almost too numerous to mention. Countless summer weekends, he could be spotted in downtown Ludlow wearing his signature paper bag chef's hat and cooking his famous barbecued chicken in support of local charities and community groups. As a founding member of the Ludlow chapter of the Knights of Columbus, John helped promote many causes and scholarships. John was instrumental in establishing Camp Plymouth State Park. Camp Plymouth, owned by the Boy Scouts since 1927, was considered prime real estate on Echo Lake in Plymouth, Vermont.

When the Scouts decided to sell the property, it could easily have been purchased for development. John was determined to preserve this beautiful and historic site for the use of all Vermonters. With the assistance of the Ottauquechee Land Trust, the property was conveyed to the state of Vermont and Camp Plymouth State Park was opened to the public in 1989. After retiring from the House of Representatives, John was appointed by the governor as a consumer advocate on the Motor Vehicle Arbitration Board; John took his role very seriously, remaining an active board member until his death at the age of 88.

When talking about John, one thing you hear over and over is that he was a good man who worked tirelessly for the average Vermonter. He was smart and kind-hearted. Even those who disagreed with him liked and respected him. Perhaps nothing illustrates that fact more than his long and cherished friendship with former Speaker of the House Ralph Wright. John butted heads with Ralph, perhaps more than anyone else in Montpelier. But Ralph had the following to say about his friend, John:

"If you asked anyone ‘Who is Mr. Labor?' the answer would be John Murphy. John literally kept the union cause alive for three decades in Vermont. He worked tirelessly for fair wages and justice for Vermont's working men and women. For more than 20 years, John was the general, in the General and Military Affairs Committee. It didn't matter who the speaker was, Democrat or Republican, Murph was the named chairman.

"No one could better read the pulse of the floor of the house than John Murphy. He understood people, their desires and their motives. That was one of the reasons he seldom lost a fight on the floor. If he sent a bill out of his committee, it most often ended up on the governor's desk.

"But John wasn't a ‘pushy politician.' He believed people had a right to different opinions and gave advice only when one was receptive to listening. His nature was to deal with people as adults and not be overbearing. Sometimes he appeared to speak in parables and often, quite some time might pass before one would realize the true meaning and wisdom of an earlier conversation.

"John had political partners everywhere. Many legislators had the political know-how to move their bill through the House, but struggled to find a partner to facilitate its passage through the Senate. Murphy was always planning ahead. When the time came for action on a bill in the Senate, he had it all wired, sometimes months earlier and often with smooth bipartisan cooperation -- other times in not so pretty a manner.

"Murph didn't drink or smoke and was early to bed and early to rise, but he was always a candidate for that person one would most like to have at dinner (or as he would say ‘supper'). Everyone liked John Murphy, friend and foe alike. Perhaps his most telling characteristic, simply put, ‘He was a good man who cared a whole lot about others less fortunate than he.'"

John was predeceased by his father and mother, Thomas Murphy and Fern (Balch) Murphy; and two brothers, Harry "Buddy" Murphy and Thomas Murphy. He is survived by his beloved wife, Florabel; son John Jr. and his wife Wanda, all of Ludlow; three sisters, Mary Kalinen of Chester, Ann Lawson of Ludlow and Helen Wheeler and her husband John of Claremont, California; a granddaughter, Angela Murphy, a grandson, John Jennings, a great-grandson, Matthew Murphy, and three great granddaughters, Kiki, Felecia and Haley Jennings.

Calling hours will be held from 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, November 22, at the Church of Annunciation Parish Center. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at the Church of Annunciation at 10:00 a.m. on Wednesday the 23rd. The Rev. Romanus Igweonu, pastor, and the Rev. William Beaudin, former pastor, will concelebrate the Mass. The graveside committal service and burial will follow in the family lot in Pleasant View Cemetery in Ludlow.

The Miller & Ketcham Funeral Home of Brandon has been entrusted with the arrangements.

The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to one of the following: The John Murphy Memorial Fund, this fund will be used to support candidates who wish to further the cause of labor, checks should be made payable to The John Murphy Memorial Fund and mailed to Vermont Democratic Party, PO Box 1220, Montpelier, VT 05602; or Springfield Adult Day Activities Fund, 266 River St., Springfield, VT 05156.

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Published by Rutland Herald from Nov. 20 to Nov. 21, 2011.

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Ron Pickering

November 14, 2020

Murph is missed by working Vermonters, missed by all of his friends. John will be forever be a good friend. I learned a lot from him during my tenure as President of the AFL-CIO.

Lauren, Michael, Alex and Erin Coleman

November 29, 2011

Aunt Flo, Johnny and Wanda - was so sorry to hear about Uncle John. I'm so sorry I didn't hear before his services. Our hearts are with you all.

Cherry Hopson

November 27, 2011

I never met Rep. Murphy and I never lived in his district, but I once called him to commend him on a position he took on school administration. I began by saying, "I am not one of your constituents." He responded, "You are as much my constituent as anyone else in the state of Vermont," a comment I never forgot. He took the time to discuss the issue with me, and I ended by saying, "I wish I could vote for you--and I'm a Republican." We need more politicians who care more about people and issues than about votes. My sincere sympathy to all of Rep. Murphy's family and friends.

Donna Hendee

November 27, 2011

To the Murphy family, I met this gentleman in the 70's at an event in Rutland - from that time on we were part of his group. As we came to know him better in our trips to Montpelier it was obvious why everyone relied on "Mr Murph" he took care of /helped everyone no mater what the political affiliation or cause. Bet he gets a charge out of me going back-up the hill- now, for the same reason he first got me going..Donna Hendee
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Laura Wyman

November 27, 2011

Murphy Family, We are all sadden by Johns passing. He was indeed a wonderful man in every meaning of the words. God holds a special place in his kingdom for men like him.
Laura (Hyjek) Wyman and family

Lorraine Zigman

November 27, 2011

My deepest sympathy to all of John's family. He was, indeed, the champion of labor and equity for all in the work force. I remember fondly participating in the March of Dimes Ride-In, snowmobiling from Weathersfield to Plymouth State Park. Of course John was there grilling hotdogs and, I think, burgers for all the participants. He was a man who stood up and was counted in supporting many, many causes.
Hold fast to all your wonderful memories of him, a most remarkable and energetic man who stood for all the right things.

Andy Snyder

November 23, 2011

I have had no greater honor in my life than to have served in the Vermont House of Representatives with John Murphy. My sympathy and warm thoughts are with his family, community and the entire state of Vermont.

Nanette Benoit

November 23, 2011

Dear Martha, we're saddened to hear of the loss of your uncle. Keeping you and yours in our thoughts and prayers.
Nanette and Virginia

Janet Ancel

November 23, 2011

I got to know John Murphy when I worked for Legislative Council. He was passionate, kind and principled and he always used those virtues to look out for the "little guy." I remember working with him on a bill to protect the right to dry -- hanging laundry -- and he and I had some good times trying to address the many concerns that bill raised. Vermont has lost a treasure.

Steve Balch

November 23, 2011

Dear John Wanda--Anges are in heaven and this I no is true but ur dad was a angle of the earth because he touched our lives and will me missed by all
Steve Balch

Jan Sherer

November 22, 2011

Flo, John and Wanda.....what a great loss! A patriot in every sense of the word and a great friend to Bill and me for so many years.....he will be missed.

Robert Cody II

November 22, 2011

Thank you for Fwd John's obituary...He was an incredible man. I am thankful for the time we had together on the Lemon Law board. I thoroughly enjoyed his sense of fairness; his humility & his humor. I will miss him very much.

John Manahan

November 22, 2011

Needless to say I was saddened by the news of John Murphy's death. I can honestly say that some of the best days I have had were those spent sitting next to John Murphy on the Lemon Law board. When Bob would ask us to identify ourselves and John would say "John Murphy....consumer!" you knew immediately what the man was. I don't think I ever met anyone more sincerely concerned for the 'little guy' than John Murphy. I know I'll miss him, but I also know I'm glad to have known him,

Patty and Jay Clark

November 22, 2011

The end of an era. John was a man of wisdom, compassion, understanding, generosity and a burning desire to "set things right". Cherish and take comfort in your memories and pride in all of his accomplishments. He will be missed.

Barbara Calhoun

November 22, 2011

Flo, Wanda and John, there are so many sharing your loss.
For years, and years, when I saw John Murphy I knew I was home.

susan shangraw

November 22, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mr. Murphy and Son John Cooking

Spence & Sue Williams

November 22, 2011

John and Wanda,
We are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.
We are so sorry to hear about your Dad.
Our hearts and thoughts are with you.
Your happy memories that last forever will help you through this sad time.
May you find strength in the love of family and in the warm embrace of friends.

Jill Tofferi

November 21, 2011

John and my Dad, Harold Tofferi, grew up together and were lifelong friends. I remember hearing about some of their boyhood adventures when I was a kid. John was a wonderful friend to my Dad, and made our community and this State a better place to live by his tireless efforts through the years. He will not be forgotten. My deepest sympathies.

dave watson

November 21, 2011

john stayed at our house in montpelier for several years,when in session. we enjoyed many conversations about hunting and our deerherd.he and gordy stafford had some entertaining conversations at our house. our condolences to his family.

Tim&Bar VanZandt

November 21, 2011

Flo and John,Sorry for your loss. The General was quite a guy. He put a number of people "into a tight pair of shoes". A Real Vermonter who fought hard for minimum wage, and for short trout. I can hear StPeter now... Where is Murph? What is he up to??? Our prayers are with you.

paul poirier

November 21, 2011

John Murphy was one of the people I first respected when I arrived at the statehouse as newly elected legislator in 1981. He was the voice of the working person and I am a much better person for having known John Murphy. My thoughts and prayers to all the family.

Scott and Jean Grover

November 21, 2011

Flo,John, Wanda our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ludlow won't be the same without him. He was a wonderful man.

Margot & Mark Martell

November 21, 2011

John, Wanda and family, So sorry for your loss. Your Dad will not be forgotten. He was so many things to so many people. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Ron Pickering

November 21, 2011

When I was elected President of the VT AFL-CIO, my predecesor Ralph Crippen said there was one man I had to be introduced to, and that man was John Murphy. From that day forward John and I struck up a friendship. I knew if there an issue coming up which dealt with working families/labor, we could ALWAYS count on the "General". God Bless you and God Bless your family.

Ron Neronsky

November 21, 2011

John was certainly a huge supporter and good friend of the Vermont National Guard. I always enjoyed his visits to the Ludlow Armory when I worked there.

My deepest condolences to his family.

Norrie & Kathy Hoyt

November 21, 2011

We'll miss John very much.

john j. zampieri

November 21, 2011

john...was a friend to me and my wife for over 35 years. i served with him in the vt.house for 20 years and also on the uvm board of trustees. he was the champion for the important issues for the children, and working men and women of vermont. he and his wife spent several winters in florida with us. spending time fishing trying to catch the big one! also eating fresh strawberry short cake and telling stories about our legislative days.... he will be dearly much remembered and missed. proud to have him as a friend.

November 21, 2011

Condolences to Flo and John Jr. Another Ludlow treasure has left us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Time will dull the pain of loss but it can not rob us of our cherished memories. Earl Washburn

November 21, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. John will be greatly missed. He was a wonderful man and really did all he could for the people.

Barb Grimes

November 21, 2011

Flo, John Jr. and Wanda:
I will miss my friend. He was many things to many people but family came first, then loyalty to friends and supporter for those who needed him.

Steve Graves

November 21, 2011

Condolences to John's family. I'll never forget John's bbq'ed chickens with his special butter and vinegar basting sauce. Rest in peace, John.

Will Hunter

November 21, 2011

There will never be another politician like John Murphy. He taught me and many others volumes about politics. He was passionate, funny, and ever so clever in making the process work for the working people he loved. I feel so lucky to have been his student and friend for nearly 40 years.

Tom Little

November 20, 2011

I knew John as "General" Murphy, for his longstanding Chairing of the House Committee on Housing and General Affairs. He helped me out, kindly, in my first year in the House, and was also candid with his opinions but aware that after a floor fight, you live to work together another day. My sincere sympathies to all of the Murphy family.

Cheryl Bowker Wendt

November 20, 2011

Flo and John Jr. I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of John, I have many fond memories of him. We had such good times at my parent's house and other places. He will always be remembered for his BBQ chicken. You will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

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