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John Carman Obituary

11/5/1960 ~ 9/24/2020
John Robert Carman was born on November 5th, 1960, in Walla Walla, Washington, to John R. Carman and Glynna Johnson. John passed away on September 24th, 2020, at the age of 59. John grew up in Cottonwood Heights, Utah, alongside his brother, Rick Heese. John graduated from the University of Utah in 1990, with a degree in Civil Engineering, while simultaneously rising in the ranks to become the head of the Metropolitan Water Treatment District of Salt Lake and Sandy. Additionally, he worked to get his Masters degree from the University of Utah, in Civil Engineering and in Fluid Mechanics. At the time of his death, John was continuing his educational path toward the completion of his PHD. John married Leslie Nelson in 1984, and had two amazing children, Catesby and Colter Carman. After the separation from Leslie, John continued his career. He worked for CHM2 Hill and then became the Director of Public Utilities for the city of Raleigh, North Carolina. Later on in his life, he became the Director of the City of Dallas/Fort Worth Water Department, where he remained for two years. When he wasn't playing cribbage or listening to loud music, you would most likely find John fly fishing on the Green River. John was a loving and supportive father, an eccentric human being, a major cat enthusiast and proud swim father. Often, he would remind us all about the First Law of Thermodynamics: Energy is always conserved, therefore, John and his energy will continue on within his family, albeit in a different form. John is survived by his children, Catesby M. Carman and Colter J. Carman, their mother, Leslie Kovach, his brother, Rick Heese, his parents, Glynna Johnson and John R. Carman, as well as by Jay and Kathy Nelson, grandparents to Catesby Carman and Colter Carman. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the YWCA or Rape Recovery Center of Salt Lake City.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on Oct. 4, 2020.

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Judie Golightly

September 28, 2021

Oct 1 2020
I lost a very special person Thursday. His heart was true and if you were lucky enough to be one the receiving end of his love you knew it! We could agree to disagree on religion and politics but it never affected our relationship. I'll miss the walks and bike rides along the Trinity. I'll miss the late night movies...trying to get through your top 50 and always trying to stay awake to catch Saturday Night Live. "Everyone needs more cowbell!" I wish I had a picture of you in your cowbell shirt. You were my favorite chef. I'll miss staying late baking cookies. I'll always remember the surprise pre-birthday trip to Colorado. It was full of fun...long hours of driving but great company, stories, singing, no GPS, flat tire and watching the sunrise from the wagon commuter at the rest stop waiting for help to arrive. There isn't many who somehow knew when I was in need of a call or text but you did and spent six hours talking to me, making sure my thoughts and emotions were in check. I'll miss you John Robert "Carman", there is a hole that can't be filled the brightness of the day dimmer with you gone. There is a special place in heaven for you...believe it or not. Love you Carman!

September 24, 2021
It's been a year that I lost you. You've been on my mind so much the past week. Why did you have to go? I miss you and your unconditional love, strength, movie nights, food/drink concoctions and just being us, reset time. It may have been music, dancing, bike riding, walking, new/old restaurants, cooking at home or checking off another movie on your top 50. You were the port in the storm-my life. We had a quiet and special relationship, extraordinarily fulfilling. We found each other through an unexpected path and chain of events, God as the navigator. The last text I received from you before you left was simple but so you..."are you okay?" Never a doubt in my mind how much you cared, never did I doubt you would be there for me. There aren't many like you. I pray you continue to watch over-share the light of your heart and spirit always. I hope you're enjoying true peace...we agreed to disagree but I told you so. Save a spot on the bench for me. I love you "Carman."

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Mick Haun

February 8, 2021

I always enjoyed being around J.R. and his inquisitive mind. He always had something thought-provoking to discuss. Elaine and I will miss him. We wish his family well going forward.

Richard Dubois

November 9, 2020

Colter, I was sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I barely knew him, but there is one event I will never forget. I was Colter's high school swim coach in Raleigh. One day I sent an email blast out to the team. I reminded them that water had been running across the road to the pool for several weeks. I had asked the pool management about it and they never did anything about it. Since we were to have freezing temps overnight, I warned the team in the blast that the water would most likely freeze and that they should be careful driving to practice at 5:30 A.M. I added that if any of them had any pull with the city, that maybe they should ask someone to check into it. Mr. Carmen emailed me back and said, "um, that would be me. I am the Public Utilities Director." He got the water leak stopped that very day. I had no clue he was the one in charge, but was glad he immediately took care of the problem.

Courtney Ng

October 23, 2020

Carman - The world is just lesser in your absence. As in John Irving's Until I Find You (which you had me read), memory is unreliable and I hate that I have only it to rely on now. You will forever be my favorite "old man" and I miss you.

Courtney

Ron Lovan

October 12, 2020

We will miss you “Carman”. You simply wanted to be called Carman, but was far from a simple man. One of the most thoughtful, kind and interesting person I have ever known. God bless you and your family.

Ron Lovan
Friend and water business acquaintance

Dave Friess

October 5, 2020

Friend for 45 years, colleague for 39. Goodbye Bobby, Bob, John, Robert, John-Robert, JR, Carman. I will miss all of you. Godspeed.

kenneth hibbert

October 4, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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