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Judie Golightly
September 28, 2021
Oct 1 2020
I lost a very special person Thursday. His heart was true and if you were lucky enough to be one the receiving end of his love you knew it! We could agree to disagree on religion and politics but it never affected our relationship. I'll miss the walks and bike rides along the Trinity. I'll miss the late night movies...trying to get through your top 50 and always trying to stay awake to catch Saturday Night Live. "Everyone needs more cowbell!" I wish I had a picture of you in your cowbell shirt. You were my favorite chef. I'll miss staying late baking cookies. I'll always remember the surprise pre-birthday trip to Colorado. It was full of fun...long hours of driving but great company, stories, singing, no GPS, flat tire and watching the sunrise from the wagon commuter at the rest stop waiting for help to arrive. There isn't many who somehow knew when I was in need of a call or text but you did and spent six hours talking to me, making sure my thoughts and emotions were in check. I'll miss you John Robert "Carman", there is a hole that can't be filled the brightness of the day dimmer with you gone. There is a special place in heaven for you...believe it or not. Love you Carman!
September 24, 2021
It's been a year that I lost you. You've been on my mind so much the past week. Why did you have to go? I miss you and your unconditional love, strength, movie nights, food/drink concoctions and just being us, reset time. It may have been music, dancing, bike riding, walking, new/old restaurants, cooking at home or checking off another movie on your top 50. You were the port in the storm-my life. We had a quiet and special relationship, extraordinarily fulfilling. We found each other through an unexpected path and chain of events, God as the navigator. The last text I received from you before you left was simple but so you..."are you okay?" Never a doubt in my mind how much you cared, never did I doubt you would be there for me. There aren't many like you. I pray you continue to watch over-share the light of your heart and spirit always. I hope you're enjoying true peace...we agreed to disagree but I told you so. Save a spot on the bench for me. I love you "Carman."
Judie Golightly - Family, Friend and Other Relationship
Mick Haun
February 8, 2021
I always enjoyed being around J.R. and his inquisitive mind. He always had something thought-provoking to discuss. Elaine and I will miss him. We wish his family well going forward.
Richard Dubois
November 9, 2020
Colter, I was sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I barely knew him, but there is one event I will never forget. I was Colter's high school swim coach in Raleigh. One day I sent an email blast out to the team. I reminded them that water had been running across the road to the pool for several weeks. I had asked the pool management about it and they never did anything about it. Since we were to have freezing temps overnight, I warned the team in the blast that the water would most likely freeze and that they should be careful driving to practice at 5:30 A.M. I added that if any of them had any pull with the city, that maybe they should ask someone to check into it. Mr. Carmen emailed me back and said, "um, that would be me. I am the Public Utilities Director." He got the water leak stopped that very day. I had no clue he was the one in charge, but was glad he immediately took care of the problem.
Courtney Ng
October 23, 2020
Carman - The world is just lesser in your absence. As in John Irving's Until I Find You (which you had me read), memory is unreliable and I hate that I have only it to rely on now. You will forever be my favorite "old man" and I miss you.
Courtney
Ron Lovan
October 12, 2020
We will miss you “Carman”. You simply wanted to be called Carman, but was far from a simple man. One of the most thoughtful, kind and interesting person I have ever known. God bless you and your family.
Ron Lovan
Friend and water business acquaintance
Dave Friess
October 5, 2020
Friend for 45 years, colleague for 39. Goodbye Bobby, Bob, John, Robert, John-Robert, JR, Carman. I will miss all of you. Godspeed.
kenneth hibbert
October 4, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
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