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Rita Paola Palmieri Elkins

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Rita Elkins 1950 ~ 2005 Rita Paola Palmieri Elkins, 54 passed away peacefully Friday, February 4, 2005. Rita was born in Florence, Italy March 16, 1950 to Josephine Frances Lupo and Dr. Antonio Fulvio Palmieri. She personified the characteristics of the city in which she was born - beauty, art, grace, and inspiration. In 1953 Rita immigrated to the United States with her father, mother, and young sister on the Italian ocean liner, The Conte Biancamano. She resided in Arlington and Richmond, Virginia, throughout her childhood where she developed her talents in painting and writing, and her love for the arts. At the age of 18 Rita became a true pioneer for her Italian Catholic family when she moved west to attend Brigham Young University. It was there that she was baptized a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Upon returning to Virginia she paved the way for her mother and sister to also be baptized by inviting the missionaries to their home. One of these young elders, Robert Scott Elkins, was to become Rita's future husband. Rita and Scott were sealed December 17, 1971 in the Salt Lake Temple. They made their home in Orem, Utah where they became the parents of two beautiful daughters, Tanya Michelle, and Taryn Melissa. When her children became older, Rita returned to Brigham Young University to earn a Bachelor of Arts degree in Design and later a Master's degree in Art History. Rita went on to teach in the Art History Department and served as president of the Art History Association at BYU. She soon became a favorite professor among students. Oftentimes, students took Rita's class just to fill a requirement, but were so inspired by her passion for the subject that they later went on to major in Art History. Her quick wit, intellect, and sense of humor brought the subject matter to life for all who attended her class. Throughout her life, Rita held many callings within the church. Whether it be serving as Relief Society president, gospel teacher, or Young Women advisor, Rita brought to all of her church callings a love and dedication that truly made a difference in the lives of those she served. She had an incredible gift for teaching gospel principles because of her ability to relate to everyone. Rita had a particular interest for reading and reporting on health-related subjects. She became a well-known author in the natural health field, publishing dozens of titles, one of which received the honor of Foreword Magazine's Book of the Year. Rita had a rare strength about her that radiated to everyone who knew her. She was known for Italian cooking, Christmas mornings, innovative Halloween costumes, extraordinary camp cooking, a passion for politics and patriotism, treasure hunts at thrift stores, gardening, spoiling grandkids, and impeccable taste and style. Most of all, Rita's greatest love was spending time with her family, especially her two granddaughters, Taylor Michelle and McKenna Josephine Gardner. Rita will be missed by her husband, Scott; daughters, Tanya (Jon) Keller, Taryn (Brian) Gardner; granddaughters, McKenna and Taylor; sister, Bianca (David) Lisonbee; mother-in-law, Gladys Elkins. She was preceded in death by her mother and father, Josephine and Antonio Palmieri; and her father-in-law, Col. Robert Elkins. Ti volgliamo bene, Rita. Sempre famiglia! Funeral services will be held Tuesday February 8, 2005, at 11 a.m. in the Orem East Stake Center, 810 East 600 North, Orem. Family and friends may call Tuesday at the stake center from 9:30-10:45 a.m. Interment will be in the Orem Cemetery.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Feb. 6 to Feb. 7, 2005.

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Nancy Bartley

February 17, 2005

I was very sorry to hear of Rita's passing. I know she and her mother, father,and Mama Lupo are sharing many hugs and stories now, but I also know family and friends still here on this earth will miss her greatly. My prayers and love to all of you.

(Elder)Micah Lisonbee

February 16, 2005

Well, I am a nephew of Rita´s. I am serving in the Spain Bilbao mission. I just have to say that the news of Rita´s death was very impacting to me. She was always a light in my life and it was incredible to see how she iluminated the lives of all who knew her. She will be missed.

Karen Bartley

February 10, 2005

To the Elkins and Lisonbee families,

I am so sorry to hear of Rita's passing. I have known Rita for 48 years, and her compassion, courage, and love have touched my life in so many ways. She approached challenges with an attitude of hopefulness and shared her experiences in ways that helped others grow. Rita was receptive to the contributions others were able to make, valuing people in a way that helped them be the best they could be. I think we really have no idea the many lives she touched with her compassion and kindness.

Knowing there are those on the other side who are celebrating having her with them again, it is still so painful to give her up, even for a little while. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Rita's death leaves a hole in our lives that nothing else can fill, and I don't think anything or anyone else was meant to fill it. I know Rita's death was not accidental or random, but part of the eternal plan of a loving Heavenly Father. I believe that death is not extinguishing the light, but turning down the lamp because dawn has come. Take care.

Kathy Clawson Watkins

February 10, 2005

I only knew Rita as a young girl with a vibrant personality and delightful family. My sister Etta has kept in touch through the years, and our entire family is saddened by her passing. She has certainly led a fruitful and rewarding life! My prayers are with you as you struggle with your loss.

Mary Hair

February 8, 2005

Scott, Tanya, Taryn and Bianka,

We pray the blessings of Heaven will rest upon you and your family at this time. What a wonderful person Rita was.

We love you and if you need us we will be here for you! Remember, the Lord will watch over and keep you till you are reunited with your mother and wife!

Michael Johnson

February 7, 2005

Scott, Tanya and Taryn...I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I know how hard these times can be.



Scott, I will always be grateful for your guidance as my scout leader and friend. I have a lot of examples of how to raise my children and live my life because of you and your family.



Memories to last a lifetime and beyond...



My thoughts and prayers are with you all.



Michael

Kathy Crockett

February 7, 2005

Dear Scott, Tanya, Taryn and Bianca and families:



Rita has been one of the dearest, most gracious ladies I have ever had the priviledge of knowing. She was so talented and such an eloquent speaker. She is truly a "one of a kind" person.

Knowing her for the past 25 years has been such a blessing to me. Not to mention that she was a great cook, and her "Mufaletta Sandwich's" were a delight to the pallet.

Oh, how I will miss my beautiful Italian friend.



Con amore,

Jenell Lester

February 7, 2005

Tanya and Family,

My mom called me today and told me of your mom's passing. I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am. Your mom was great - I still remember the Kermit the Frog and Miss Piggy costumes. Your mom was creative and just a great person all around. I wish your family all the best - I miss you and "the old neighborhood".

Jan Bartley

February 7, 2005

Scott, Bianca, and family.

We are so saddened to hear of Rita's passing. I had not seen her in years, but remember vividly her gentle grace and beauty. She touched many, and I am fortunate to have been one of them. Our love to you all, and may the love and gentle peace of our Savior comfort you.

Love, Jan and sons

Randy Reynolds

February 7, 2005

Having lived right next door to Rita for most all of my childhood, this kind of hit me like a ton of bricks when my family brought it up yesterday. My deepest condolences to Scott, Tanya and Taryn during this difficult time. -- Randy S. Reynolds

Dan and Miriam Steurer

February 7, 2005

Dear Scott,

How blessed Dan and I are to have you and Rita in our lives. Although we haven't been in touch for a few years, our love for you has never dimished. You are eternal friends and we feel so privileged and blessed to count you as friends. We are so saddened to hear of Rita's passing. Words don't do justice to what a wonderful person she was. We recall the many "young married" times we had together and her love of life. She was the most optimistic person and never ran from a challenge but would tackle it head on. We cannot know the lonliness and sadness you feel at this time. Our prayers are with you and know that in time the peace of the gospel will fill your heart with the quiet assurance that all is well. I'm not sure if Bianca remembers us, if anyone she'll remember Dan (and his love of all things Italian!). Please give our condolences to her. We wish we could be there for Rita's funeral but this will have to do for now. If you are ever in St. George, please call. We would love to touch base again. We're in the phone book!

Love, Dan and Miriam Steurer

Kim (Whiting) Weinreb

February 7, 2005

I attened highschool with Tanya and just wanted to expreess my condolences to the family. May the Lord bless you during this time.

Kurt Peterson

February 7, 2005

Scott,

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Your wife was a wonderful, cheerful person each time I met her, and I can only imagine what you and your family are going through. It was wonderful to read about her life. Take care,

Mike and Linda Newsome

February 7, 2005

Dearest Bianca, Dave, Taryn and Brian,

We are thinking of you at this difficult time. Our prayers are with you as you mourn the loss of your sister and mother.

All our love,

Steven Bule

February 7, 2005

Dear Scott, Tanya, Taryn, Bianca,



We were profoundly saddened to learn of Rita's passing. The world has lost a bright light. She was an exceptionally multi-talented person who positively influenced all who knew her. It was an honor to have been her teacher and advisor. Our love to your family, the Bules

Diane Campbell

February 7, 2005

I have known Scott and Rita for about 28 years. They are wonderful people. They inspired everyone to be the best they could be.

Rita was our Laurels Advisor.

I would never be able to express in words the times we shared together, and the friendship we have. I love her very much! Also, I babysat Tanya and Taryn when they were small, They are beautiful young ladies now!

We will miss our dear sweet friend, and sister always!

AnnMarie Petersen

February 7, 2005

Rita Elkins has been an angel for me in life. She was a true leader. She treated me like family, and I value her as such. I will always cherish her wonderful ways. Her beautiful eyes, warm smile and sense of humor are among my favorite of her traits.

(I love her laugh)

I had the honor of babysitting her beautiful girls Tanya and Taryn. She spent time with me and treated me as someone with great value.

It has been 29 years since that time and her love is with me still. Her example and love remain a strong part of my every day life.

Rita Elkins displayed in her actions her love of the Savior. She touched everyone around her with this love. I couldn't love

her more for the things she taught me. I look forward to the day when we will meet again.

I know that day will surely come.

Catherine Jex

February 7, 2005

Our deepest sympathies for the Elkins family and friends. Rita's generous and prolific contributions to the published works on Alternative Medicine & Consumer Health Information have enriched the lives of many.

Verlynne Witney

February 7, 2005

I grew up with Rita and her daughters, she is a dear friend to my mom. I want to express my deepest sympathy. Your mom was a wonderful lady. Always thinking of other people. She will be missed.

Derrell Mangum

February 6, 2005

Scott,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Were it not for the Gospel, there would be nothing left. However, we know that it will only be "moments" until you and Rita are reunited. I sincerely pray the Lord's most calming blessings will rest with you and your family.

Sandra Howe

February 6, 2005

Our deepest sympathies to Taryn, McKenna, Taylor, Tanya and Bianca and your families. We hold you close in our hearts and are praying for you.

Sally Linford

February 6, 2005

I am one of Bianca's reading group friends, and I have had the honor of getting to know Rita through Bianca. They are perfect examples of what sisters should be to each other. I am so thankful I got to meet her.



Much love and comfort to your family,

Sally

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