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Carmen Barrera Obituary

August 17, 1924 - February 22, 2015
In 1923 Ana Barocio and Jose Erasmo Zendejas of Piedras Negras, Coahuila, Mexico decided to visit family in San Antonio, Texas. They paid the required 5 cent fee to cross the border and while here, they discovered the fruits and opportunities offered at the Cementville factory where the wage of $3.50 per week enticed them to stay. Ana resigned her position as a teacher in their hometown of Piedras Negras, to work as a seamstress for Finesilver Manufacturing Company and Jose went to work for the Cementville Company as a machinist.

Maria del Carmen Zendejas was born on August 17, 1924 to Ana Barocio and Jose Erasmo Zendejas in the municipality of Cementville, Texas - now more popularly known as the Quarry Shopping Center, a first generation American of immigrant parents. She had three younger siblings, Bertha Tellez and Celia Alaniz (deceased) of San Antonio and Robert Zendejas of Colorado Springs, Colorado.

Carmen attended Hawthorn Junior High and graduated from San Antonio Tech High School in 1943. She became engaged to her high school sweetheart Roy Barrera, Sr. (Former Texas Secretary of State - 1968) on Halloween Night in 1947. She attended San Antonio College, St. Mary's University and UTSA, giving up her educational aspirations to care for her mother Ana in her last years.

Carmen and Roy celebrated their 50th and 60th wedding anniversaries at their home among family and friends - riding in their 1929 Dodge Roadster to San Fernando Cathedral where they renewed their marriage promises to each other. September 2014 marked their 66 years of marriage.

Carmen enjoyed many charitable, social and civic memberships over the years but held Pan American League and Wolf Trail Kids Kamp near and dear to her heart for over 40 years. She worked tirelessly to stock and assist Dentists at the free clinic providing young children with the very necessary dental work they needed to keep a healthy and beautiful smile. She also gathered used eyeglasses to help the aged reduce the cost on their new prescriptions at the eye clinic. Though both of those clinics are now closed and sold, she was one of the major decision makers over where the funds from the sale of the two clinics would go which we all know was to the San Fernando Cathedral Civic center - one million dollars, all told.

For over 40 years, while she worked with the Pan American League toward their fundraising goals and charitable works, she joined the Wolf Trail Kids Kamp as a board member, invited by founder and executive director of the Tranchese Foundation, Father James H. McCown of Our Lady of Guadalupe Catholic Church in the inner city. She proved to be a dedicated board member and served as its President for several years, when Fr. McCown figured the only way to keep her was to promote her to Executive Director - the position she held until her retirement at age 83. Over the course of 40 years, through serious fund raising efforts on her part and on the part of the Board of Directors, Wolf Trail Kids Kamp hosted thousands of inner city children to a week long summer camp experience, [in a safe and healthy environment not ordinarily enjoyed by inner city children] free of charge and complete with hot noontime meals and healthy snacks.

Other memberships include the PTA's of Mount Sacred Heart, Ursuline Academy and Antonian High School, San Antonio Bar Auxiliary [past president], El Patronato, Sembradores de Amistad [sowers of friendship], The Texas State Officials Auxiliary and Archbishop Flores's Telethon Navideno [collection for food and heating costs each November]. Carmen's attentions have always been children, their heath, education and welfare.

For many years, Carmen participated in Social Club to maintain her lifelong friendships. She played cards and bunco with the Club Capri, and enjoyed music, arts and philanthropy with the Ladies 12. Her compadres, Richard & Lena Erlich Cordova, Edgar & Lucy Casillas Ramos, Eddie Garza &Thelma Morales, H.F. "Hippo" Garcia & Caroline Harvey and Anthony & Virginia Nicholas stood as Godparents to her children at Baptism.

In her spare time, Carmen visited the European countries of the United Kingdom, Ireland, Netherlands, Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Poland, Czech Republic, Hungary, France, Italy and Spain, the Asian countries of China and Russia, the African countries of Chad, South Africa, Tanzania, Zambia and Zimbabwe, the South American countries of Brazil, Argentina, Chili and Uruguay and she set foot on the continent of Antarctica. She was a White House dinner guest of two Presidents of the United States, President Ronald Reagan and President Lyndon Baines Johnson, telling us that the second dinner was as memorable as the first, both "high lights" of her life.

Carmen is survived by her husband of 66 years, Roy, Sr. and her 5 children, Yolanda Arellano, Roy, Jr. and wife Sally, Gilbert, Carmen Alice and husband Rick Ramirez, Bobby and wife Karen. She is also survived by her 12 grandchildren, Roy R. Barrera, III and wife Jamie, Andrea Arellano, Mark Barrera & wife Abril, Marissa Ann and husband Lawrence Morales, Robert Arellano, Margo Ramirez, Monica Ramirez and husband David Khirallah, Ana Benita Arellano, Maricarmen Ramirez, Mia Ramirez, Olivia Barrera and Erik Barrera and her 9 great-grandchildren - Roy R. Barrera IV, Ava Rose Barrera, Blake Barrera, Sofia Morales, Lyla Morales, Felicia Morales, Emma & Elena Barrera and David Khirallah, Jr. Predeceasing Carmen are two great grandchildren, Elisa Barrera and Daniel Khirallah.

In 2008 Carmen was honored by "San Antonio Can" as "Mother of the Year". Their focus is on helping disadvantaged students to finish school, by removing the barriers that impede their success and honored as mother of Outstanding Hispanic Family of the Year.

Travel, shopping, cooking for family gatherings and special events, music and live theater, shopping, Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving and shopping - were just a few of her favorite things to do. San Antonio was her only home, Roy was her only love, heart and soul, her children were her life and her grandchildren & great grandchildren, her pride and joy!

SERVICES

ROSARY
7:30 PM MONDAY, MARCH 2, 2015
ST. MATTHEW CATHOLIC CHURCH
10703 WURZBACH ROAD

MASS
10:00 AM TUESDAY, MARCH 3, 2015
ST. MATTHEW CATHOLIC CHURCH
10703 WURZBACH ROAD

PROCESSION TO THE BARRERA FAMILY CEMETERY TO FOLLOW

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Published by San Antonio Express-News on Feb. 26, 2015.

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Mary Puente

February 20, 2020

It is a privilege remembering you...Feb. 20, 2015 was such a sad day for so many of us.
Love and miss you Madrina❤

March 8, 2015

Our condolences to the entire Barrera family at the passing of Your beloved Carmen. May God comfort you at this most difficult time and may loving memories bring you peace. Our prayers are with you.
Loretta and Elias Escamilla

March 5, 2015

Dear Carmen, Yolanda and the Barrera family.
While I haven't seen you "girls" in years, I knew this had to be your mom when I saw her beautiful picture! How blessed you are to bear her resemblance! I didn't know your mom but I was privileged to see what kind of mothers you both are as the school nurse to your sweet children, no doubt a credit to your own wonderful mom!! Praying that the beautiful legacy of family, a lifetime of joyful memories and, most of all, God's peace will be your comfort.
Blessings,
Paula (and Otha) Green

Joan Cook Carabin

March 4, 2015

Dear Roy Sr., Carmen, and Roy Jr.
Although I never met your wife and mother, I have an idea of what she was like from the wonderful way you helped me in the preparation of my book One-Of-a-Kind Judge, The Honorable Hippo Garcia. Without your input it would have been much less. My prayers are with you that Our Lord will sustain all of you in your loss of this beautiful, kind woman.
Fortunately, Olga Garcia Rodriguez let me know what happened.

Jeanie Jasso

March 4, 2015

I would like to extend my sincere condolences to the Barrera Family. May God comfort and strengthen you during this time of sorrow. Mrs. Barrera was an amazing woman, a true blessing here on earth and will be a greater blessing in heaven.

Kathy Clay

March 3, 2015

Dear Yolanda (and Family),

Your Mother was a great woman who touched many lives. Her life is a testimony of her faith, her love of family and dedication to her community. She was a blessing to all whose lives she touched. God's blessings upon you and yours at this difficult time.

Sincerely,

Kathy (Kemmy) Clay

Teresa and Liz

March 2, 2015

Sending love and prayers to the family.....a beautiful woman with an incredible heart and an amazing family.

John J. Kuntz, III

March 2, 2015

Roy, my prayers are with you and the family. May her soul rest in peace.

Belinda R. Padilla MD

March 2, 2015

May God wrap his arms around this beautiful family and grant them peace and acceptance during this difficult time.

Margaret Mireles

March 2, 2015

To Mr. Roy Barrera, Sr. and the Barrera family.She was an amazing woman! God bless you and your family during this difficult time. God has wrapped her in a Heavenly blanket and welcomed her to paradise. Sincerely, Margaret Mireles

Andrew Sanchez, III

March 1, 2015

Roy Sr.,
Sincere whole hearted sympathy at your great loss and at this most difficult time in your life. May your wife rest in peace.

Myrtle Sanchez

March 1, 2015

Roy, Sr.,
May your beloved Carmen rest in peace. I am sure her gentle touch remains with those who loved her best. Death does not seperate us from those we love. It deepens our union with God and with each other.
May He grant you and all the members of your family the strength to accept His will.
Love and prayers,
Myrtle Sanchez

Carolyn Pena

March 1, 2015

Dear Yolanda and family, please know you are in my prayers at this difficult time. I hope memories of the wonderful times you shared soon replace the sadness you now are feeling.
Sincerely,
Carolyn Malley Pena

Valerie Morales

March 1, 2015

Our deepest sympathy,thoughts&prayers are with all. Your Mom & Dad were my Dad's high school friends. Always,spoke very highly of your Mother. God Bless during this difficult time.
Sincerely, Fernando N. Villasana family.

Bonnie Aaron-Tom

March 1, 2015

It was both fascinating and inspiring to read your mom's legacy, Yolanda. My prayers are sent to you, your mom, and the family.

Becky Martin-Benavides

February 28, 2015

Yolanda,
Thank you for so generously sharing your sweet mother with all of us "Ursuline Girls" over the years during our reunions. Her desire to make sure we felt welcome and taken care of in her home was so lovely and kind. I know that you will miss her tremendously. You were very lucky to have such a good mom, and I know you were a good daughter to her....she told me so, more than once!
You and your family (especially your father) will be in my prayers in this difficult time.
Becky

R J and Leticia Molina

February 28, 2015

We share with all of your friends our prayers and condolences to the Barrera Family. Mrs Barrera's hard work, love and dedication to family and community are profoundly exemplary. May Almighty Father, Lord Jesus, Virgin Mary, Heaven's saints and angels continue to provide Mrs. Barrera blessings of peace and love.

linda delacruz " palomo"

February 27, 2015

Rest with grandmother Anita. Time to walk the street of gold with our HEAVENLY FATHER. Rejoice in HIS name.

inda delacruz " palomo"

February 27, 2015

My prayers and thoughts are with you on this difficult time. Mrs. Barrera was a sweet kind woman. She will be dearly missed. R. I. P

February 27, 2015

My Thoughts and Prayers are with your family. Be in comfort that she is in God's hands.
Marty (Rodriguez) New - Boerne, Tx

Fernandez (Belia) family

February 27, 2015

We are saddened to hear of Carmen's passing. May God give you comfort in your time of grief. With our deepest condolences-

Cinda Tapia

February 27, 2015

Me deepest condolences in the loss of your beloved mother.A beautiful,loving woman who raised such a wonderful family and touched so many lives. Memories will live on forever in our hearts. God Bless and Comfort All.

Deborah Torres Fox

February 27, 2015

To the Barrera Family-
God has Mrs. Barrera in his arms and I have you in my heart. With sympathy and gratitude to have been touched by such a beautiful lady.

Barbara Andonie

February 27, 2015

Tios y primos: Lo siento mucho!! Estan en todas mi oraciones ! Les mando un fuerte abrazo!

Cordy Sandoval

February 27, 2015

Yolanda, my condolences to you & your family! May your mother find peace with The Lord.

Becky Renteria-Offner

February 27, 2015

Barrera Family,
My sincere Condolences to your entire
family. May Carmen rest in peace with
God in Heaven. Healing and prayers at this time of sorrow.
Sincerely,
Becky Renteria Offner

Brad Flechtner

February 27, 2015

Thank you Carmen. You were an amazing woman. A true gift on earth and an even greater gift to heaven. Prayers to you all.

Robert (Bob) Alvarado

February 27, 2015

My thoughts and prayers go out to all the Barrera family at this most somber time. May Carmen's soul rest in peace in the House of our Lord, and God be with you all today and always.

Robert Cordova

February 26, 2015

I will surely miss my Aunt Carmen. From my earliest memories, her and Uncle Roy sharing good times with my mom and dad showed me what real friendship was suppose to be. I always admired the high spirits aunt Carmen had, and will keep them for inspiration when I need them. God Bless her.

Lanning & Karen Jones

February 26, 2015

A beautiful woman who left a beautiful legacy. Our prayers are with each of you. We will cherish memories of the one and only Mrs. B.
Love to all,

County Commissioner Paul Elizondo

February 26, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mary Helen (Nena) Puente & Family

February 26, 2015

My sweet Madrina was a beautiful and classy lady through and through. I am certain heaven's gates open wide and that my parents were there to receive her with open arms. I am truly sorry for your loss; my prayers for her and all of the family.

charles robles

February 26, 2015

mr.barrera please accept our condolences on the loss of your wife .sincerly charles and marie robles

Irene R. Valdez Fischer

February 26, 2015

My sincerest condolences to the family. Rest in peace Mrs. Barrera.

LAURETTA MANUPPELLI

February 26, 2015

CARMEN SET THE MOST BEAUTIFUL EXAMPLE OF WHAT A PERSON SHOULD BE. MY LOVING THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU.

Sylvia Large-Croley

February 26, 2015

My sincerest heartfelt condolences to the Barrera family. Prayers of comfort and strength during this time. What an amazing woman Heaven has gained. Amen. God Bless Each and Everyone. ~ Peace Be With You. ❤

Beth Watkins

February 25, 2015

I am so sorry for your family's loss. Thank you for sharing such lovely stories about Mrs. Barrera's life-- it sounds like her life was filled with friends and family who loved her dearly. I will keep you all in my prayers.

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