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for Cindy Buford-Wissbaum
JoAnne Hoffman
February 9, 2025
Still think about you and miss your smiles! Love, JoAnne
JoAnne Hoffman
February 9, 2023
You are always in my heart.
JOANNE HOFFMAN
February 9, 2022
I still remember you as such a good friend, and how funny you were.
JoAnne Hoffman
February 10, 2021
I will never forget you Cindy, as long as I am alive! Sending hugs to heaven.
JoAnne Hoffman
March 14, 2009
Hi Cin,
I keep your picture near by always, on my counter at work, and my desk at home. I always miss you... much love, Jo
Yvonne & Tom Fields
March 13, 2009
You are still in our thoughts, our memories, and our hearts. Miss your beautiful smiling face and wonderful personality. We love you in death as we did in life.
Susan Buford
February 6, 2009
Hey Cindy,
How is the fishing? We miss you so much. I am waiting for the daffodils to pop up. Much love to you and mom.
Love,
Sue
terry buford
June 1, 2008
Hi Cin, just thinking about you again and wanted to say hey. I spoke to Jilly yesterday and she says all is fine with the family. I love you sister. t
Mo & John Nash
April 22, 2008
Hay Cindy,
How's the fishing? Gosh I miss those days of going out on the boat with you kids & your mom & dad.Miss your darling smile.
I think about you often, your picture is on my book case with me & John when all things were ok with the world. We love you dear Cin. Love Mo & John
buford terry
April 21, 2008
Hi Cin. I'm having a Cindy day and wanted to tell you how much I miss you every day. Joanne and her husband invited Larry to a dinner party or March 26th, in honor of your birthday. Hope you had a good time. Anyway, I just wanted to tell you how much I love you and I'll see ya soon. t
Bill Buford
April 1, 2008
My dearest Cindy,
When you left, I thought the world would stop turning, but it is still spinning like a top. At least now your mom has someone to bait her hook and Stormy has someone to push his buggy. You were the life of our family and I sure am looking forward to seeing you and your mom. We feel very blessed for having you for such a short time. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. I love you.
Your daddy.
Amber Buford
March 26, 2008
Wishing you a happy birthday, hope you are enjoying the fishing and wonderful talks with Gram. Love you and miss you.
Audrey West Hunt
March 15, 2008
My first fond memory of Cindy is when she was a young girl. I'd see her at the L Street House or on Shy Lane. She was so pretty, with long shining hair. What comes to my mind now is - she was truly her Daddys Girl!
Many years flew by. The next time I saw her was around 1999 or 2000. I met Bill, Cindy and Terry at the Silver Dollar. We spent such a nice afternoon, reminiscing and enjoying each others company; as old friends will do.
Little did I dream I would never see her again. We know she's in that heavenly place but will always be missed.
Lovingly,
Audrey West Hunt
Ron Yaros
March 3, 2008
Cindy, It has truly been an honor to be able to work with you and call you my friend. In my 35 years of dental practice you are the best assistant I have ever had. You always made me smile and your spirit always "lit up" the office. I miss you so much.
Tom & Yvonne Fields
February 16, 2008
Cindy we miss that beautiful smiling face, and the outreached arms for a hug, your sweet lips pressed on our cheeks in love honey, we still feel coming from you up above. Another Holy Season is here and though we are apart, I still keep you in my daily prayers, as we hold you dear in our hearts.
Susan Buford
February 13, 2008
Our dearest Cindy, lo and behold as promised you showed your shining face in my garden. A beautiful daffodil appeared and I know it was a sign from you that you were doing ok. I am taking good care of your brother and keep in touch with the girls as much as possible. Bill and I miss you ever so much and think of you daily. I tALK to dad a couple times a week, he misses you so much. Keep on eye on us down here, we could use all the help we can get. Isn't it funny that you,Sheryl,Billy and I became grandparents within a few months of eachother?. Oh, the fun we would have had. I love you and miss you, Sue
Karen Cassard
February 11, 2008
I make a promise to the Buford faimly that Cindy will never be forgotten. In doing this I promise that on every Christmas I will gather with my two dearest friends and the three of us will light a candle for our loved ones that were lost during the Holy season. Ruth, Cindy and Thora will never be gone from our thoughts. I make this my solemn oath from this day forward.
Dolly Fairchild
February 6, 2008
Hello My Friend!I thought of you the other day, when it snowed while at work ...You are missed by many who loved you, and, still love you. We think of you daily and all your cute little sayings! Thanx for being the wonderful friend that you were...you taught me alot and I'll never forget you! Everytime I see Larry and give him a litte hug, I feel you inside of him...what a lucky man he is! I know you are up there looking down on us all saying"come on in...the fishin'is great...I'll save ya a spot lamie!"
I am honored to have been a part of your life here on earth...You ROCK sister!
Love always,
Dolly
JoAnne Hoffman
February 4, 2008
Dearest Cindy,
there is not one day that goes by that I don't think of you and how much I miss you. I have your picture on my desk so I can look at you as often as I like. I am sure you know that Rick and I keep in touch with Larry, and that he takes wonderful care of your babies (meow). Maybe you see my Sophie up there, she left us in August last year. Please love her up for me. I am smiling right now just thinking of you, MUCH LOVE, Jo
terry buford
January 27, 2008
Hi Cin, I sure do miss you; every single day. Even tho you already know, we keep in touch with Larry often and he with us. When I spoke to him the other day, he seemed a bit down, but I know he'll be fine. He misses you so much, but we pull strength from each other. Anyway, we have 2 new little ones that I'm sure you're watching over. Marianna Grace and Trevor Charles. The are just the cutest little blessings from God that I've ever seen. It's been over a year now, since you left us for that better place, but I just want you to know that you are in my every thought and my every prayer. Watch over all of us sweetheart, and we'll see you when we get there. I LOVE YOU SISTER. t
p.s. How's the fishing up there. Are you outfishing Randy or is he outfishing you?
Tom & Yvonne Fields
December 25, 2007
Prayers have been said for you and your family during this Holy Season, love to you all.
Amber Buford
December 24, 2007
It's been a year since we lost you and we come upon a Christmas without you. Even though you are in our hearts everyday. The love that we have spent with you will always remain in our hearts, especially today. As a family we will remember the great memories that we made over the years. Thank you for making sure Trevor came into the world and watch over the birth of our little Marianna. May the family be blessed with good health and to know you and Gram are watching over the family with lots of smiles and many kisses. Love to everyone who has kept Cindy in their hearts, remember the smile she could always bring to your face. Merry Christmas you'll always be in our hearts.
John & Mo Nash
November 28, 2007
To the family of Cindy Buford Wissbaum
This is the time of the year when we think about the wonderful gal we all loved so much, and you were so much fun
so alive & a great personality. A joy
to your family & friends. We know you are looking down at us knowing you were loved so much
Love John & Mo
Yvonne & Tom Fields
November 25, 2007
It's hard to believe it's near Christmas again without you physically here, but the memories of your beautiful smiling face and wonderful personality linger on.We love you Cindy, forever. Tom & Yvonne
John and Tina Fasce
November 24, 2007
The holidays are very bleak this year due to the loss of Cindy and Tommy B. May they rest in peace forever.
Chris Holtry
June 27, 2007
Miss all the dances we use to have together. You had the greatest smile in the world. I know you were good to everyone that you can in contact with. I miss you. Chris
Members American Legion Post 434
June 21, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Dana & Karen Cassard
March 11, 2007
Cindy you will surely be missed. Your smile lit up any room you entered and your laughter brighten every heart. You were one in a million. We shall never be so lucky to meet anyone quite like you in our short lifetime. God is lucky to have you among his angels. Rest in peace little one.
Patrick Murphy
March 10, 2007
We will all miss you Cindy, it was very fun knowing you and your smile.
luv ya Murf
Thomas Beirsdorfer (Tommy B)
February 26, 2007
To my BEST friend Cindy, A LADY that could out drink me and out fish me. You were ALWAYS the party and everybodys FRIEND. Witout you there would never be a Party. Love forever, may you rest in peace.
Amber (Buford) Callender
February 22, 2007
Since Heaven has become your home
I sometimes feel I'm so alone;
and though we now are far apart
you hold a big piece of my heart.
I never knew how much I'd grieve
when it was time for you to leave,
or just how much my heart would ache
from that one fragment you would take.
God lets this tender hole remain
reminding me we'll meet again,
and one day all the pain will cease
when He restores this missing piece
He'll turn to joy my every tear
and when I wear this necklace near
it will become my simple way
to treasure our Reunion Day.
Cindy and man's best friend
February 22, 2007
Cindy & Bill on their way to fish
February 22, 2007
Cindy & Larry Wissbaum
February 22, 2007
Terry, Billy, Cindy & Sheryl ( Cindy's Wedding)
February 22, 2007
Terry & Cindy
February 22, 2007
Mo, Cindy & Nash
February 22, 2007
Cindy & Larry's Rehersal Dinner
February 22, 2007
Tommy & Cindy
February 22, 2007
Cindy & Jill (her "bestest" friend)
February 22, 2007
Cindy, Terry, Bill & Sheryl
February 22, 2007
Susan Buford
February 21, 2007
On behalf of the entire Buford family Bill,Terry,Sheryl(Morales)her children Julie Harkema and Ken, and their sons Stephen and Kenny, Cindy and Carl and their children Xavier, Carl, Serenity, and Elena, Billy and Sue and their children, Amber, Matt and Rebekah (Trevor too),and Amanda, we would like to thank all of you who have taken the time to write stories, memories, kind words, and sent prayers.
A big thank you to Tommy B and John Fasce who are sponsoring this guest book for the next year.
Please feel free to contact us at any time. We will be downloading some pictures to this site soon.
A special thank you to Laura for her great picture of Cindy at her 20th class reunion.
Bill and my family have ordered a brick to be placed at the Chula Vista High School's School of Performing Arts. All of us in our family including Cindy,were part of this great program. Once the brick is placed we let you know on this site and you may view it, right in front of the new theater on K street.
Again thank you and remember to smile when you see a Daffodil, it's just Cindy-she's amazing.
Rose Metcalf
February 21, 2007
My sincerest sympathy to the Buford Family. I did not have have the good fortune of meeting Cindy. This is my loss.
Take comfort in knowing that this beautiful soul is at peace. God-bless you and your family.
Ernie Hayes
February 20, 2007
My sympathy to Larry and to the Buford family. Cindy was well liked by myself and my wonderful wife Gail who passed away in may 2006.
Ken Greenawald
February 20, 2007
I also did not know Cindy very well and that is my loss. My thoughts and prayers go to Cindy and her family during this very difficult time.
Kathy Jester
February 19, 2007
I do not know Cindy that well but my husband Curt knows her better then I did He and his first wife who has passed and Cindy and alot of other friends all were fishing buddies together my husband had told me some of the stories and they were all good ones. I did meet Cindy once and she was a very sweet lady and well loved and we will all miss her alot. We love you Cindy
Bob McCauley
February 19, 2007
Comes as quite a shock, so young. Poor daddy Bill, he's been through a lot too. My heartfelt sympathy to the family in their time of need.
Necktie Bob of Post 434 Chula Vista now Las Vegas
Tina Fasce
February 18, 2007
I DID NOT KNOW CINDY AS WELL AS SOME BUT, MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE BUFORD FAMILY.I DO KNOW SHE WAS VERY LOVED AND WILL BE MISSED.
John Fasce
February 18, 2007
Those of us that knew both Terry and Cindy knew that they had a very special bond where when one was happy the other was happier and when one of them was sad the other was even sadder. I never saw them sadder than when they said their goodbyes when Cindy boarded her flight to Denver to begin her "New" life there. I never saw them more happier than when Cindy came out of the box at the legion to surpise Terry at her XX birthday party. I will always remember Cindy as she was on that very special day in her sisters life. My sincere condolances to the entire Buford Family and Larry. May her smile be with you forever.
Mimi Bryson Felmly
February 18, 2007
Dear Buford/Wissbaum Family and Friends:
I enjoyed a fond and memorable friendship with Cindy from the CVHS Class of 1974 - May your hearts be filled with loving memories of such a spirited soul.
VERNITA WESP
February 17, 2007
To know Cindy was to love her. She was a breath of sunshine, and always had a smile and hug for everyone. Had we known GOD was to take her early in life to brighten the Heavens, we would have squeezed her tighter and longer when she would put her arms around us. She was a special young lady, and the sound of her laughter and her free spirit will linger in our hearts. GOD only takes the best! May GOD bless and comfort her family as she will be sorely missed.
Dennis & Patty Kier
February 16, 2007
I am going to miss you. May God and His Son keep you in their embraces. Dennis and I Patty Kier will miss your smiling face.
Yvonne & Tom Fields
February 16, 2007
He must have loved her very hearty, to take her on His special day. Knowing she loved a good party. SHE IS NOT DEAD, BUT JUST AWAY. And all of us who the wildest yearn, for the old time step and the glad return. Think of her faring on, as dear in the love of There, think of her still as the same I say, SHE IS NOT DEAD, SHE IS JUST AWAY. Tom and I loved her and I will miss her very much.
John & Maurine (Mo) Nash
February 15, 2007
Dearest Buford family, We want to
express our condolences as we loved that girl. I met the family when John & I were dating & spent good times with the family when they lived on L. Street
We watched all the Buford girls sing & dance, they were so delightful together. She will be missed, what a sweet girl Cindy was.
Love Mo & John Nash
Kelley Dupuis
February 15, 2007
I went to high school with Cindy. We sang in the choir together. The summer I graduated, I took her out to dinner one night at the Hotel del Coronado, one of the fanciest places in town. We were both 17 and it was a wonderful "date." I would sometimes correct her grammar, which she didn't like, but was also fortunate enough, a few times, to make her laugh, and she did like that. My late sister Lynne was very fond of Cindy. They were also friends in the Spartan Choir. Some of us who knew Cindy in those days have wondered often over the years whatever became of her. I'm saddened to see that she has left us, and my thoughts are with her family at this difficult time. Cindy, you sometimes talked tough, but we all knew you had a heart of pure gold. We loved you and will miss you.
Nora (papish) Gantz
February 15, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Cindy, Laura and Debbie (the Three Musketeers) at our High School Reunion
February 15, 2007
Laura Capp
February 15, 2007
Our friendship lasted beyond locations and time. I'll never forget her; I'll never stop loving her,for all the joyous times we shared. For allowing me to be one of the three musketers along with Debbie. My faith reassures me that she is with her Mom and in the heavens watching over us.
Arnold Cordova
February 15, 2007
Sorry to read about Cindy's passing. I heard from mutual frineds in Chula Vista she'd been ill and was hoping for her recovery. I knew Cindy from Hilltop Junior High. We were friends. We ate our lunch time meals together in the cafeteria. After ninth grade she went to Chula Vista High and I went to Hilltop High and we lost touch with each other but I always remember her when I pass her old house on "L" Street. Again, I just wanted to express my sympathy for you and your family. I really liked her. She was a funny gal.
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