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Dr. Fran Yeager Fehlman

1928 - 2020

Dr.  Fran Yeager Fehlman obituary, 1928-2020, San Diego, CA

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1928

DIED

2020

Fran Fehlman Obituary

Dr. Fran Yeager Fehlman
June 23, 1928 - October 24, 2020
San Diego
Dr. Fran Fehlman passed away surrounded by her family. Fran loved life and its great adventure. She was a talented and popular Psychology professor, teaching at El Camino, Mesa and Miramar Community Colleges. She was also a gifted artist, avid quilter, and respected family counselor. At 19, Fran participated on a work team to rebuild homes in war-torn Europe. She continued to travel throughout her life and always sought to serve others. Fran and her husband Bob, who was a Methodist clergyman for 63 years, led a variety of church congregations in New York and California. They were appointed to churches in La Jolla, Clairemont, and Point Loma, among others. Born in Long Beach, CA, Fran received her undergraduate degree from Arizona State, a postgraduate degree from Boston University School of Theology, and a PhD in Psychology from Cal Western. At BU, she met Bob. They were married in the spring of 1950. Bob was awarded a scholarship by BU to attend Cambridge University in England, where both he and Fran studied. They returned to the United States in 1953 with their first born, Mark, aboard the Queen Mary. Fran and Bob raised four children, including son Mark (wife Anne) a San Diego architect and artist, daughter Jennifer, an attorney in San Luis Obispo , daughter Jill (partner Frank) a retired RN and diabetes educator living in Encinitas, and Paul (wife Michelle) a financial executive in Dallas, TX. She is also survived by multiple grandchildren. The family is happy that she is with Bob and also with God, who she served her whole life. She was an example of living life with commitment, purpose and integrity. She will be terribly missed, but always in the hearts of those who loved her. The family also wishes to thank the employees of Wesley Palms and Silverado Hospice for their compassionate care of Fran. No public service is planned at this time, and Fran's family encourages a gift to KPBS in her memory.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Nov. 1, 2020.

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Anita Pigeon

October 6, 2021

I was thinking of this great woman that I met at Miramar Community College TODAY 10/6/21. A Great Psychology teacher and wonderful person to talk to. Blessings of Comfort for Family and Friends, I just found out she was in Heaven today

Heidi Martin

November 9, 2020

Fran was my counselor when I was struggling with depression 40 years ago and had no self-worth. She showed me so much and enabled me to continue forward when I was on the brink of suicide. She was so very kind and patient. I so appreciated the strength she found inside me and showed me. She is one of the biggest reasons I am here and thriving today. Much love and sympathy to the family but also great joy for having known her.

Tim Cassidy

November 1, 2020

Fran was an instructor of mine in the 80’s @ Miramar College. She was so insightful and memorable. A remarkable instructor. My condolences to the family.

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