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JOHN BORNEMAN Obituary

BORNEMAN, JOHN WILLARD El Cajon Pioneer John entered this life on March 12, 1922 in Wilmington, North Carolina and entered into rest on February 25, 2011 at the age of 88 years, in San Diego, California. He will be deeply missed by his son John Borneman, Jr., daughters Sharon Davis and Mary Diane Borneman Wein-traub, four grandchildren, John Borneman, Jr., Wes Weintraub, Cassandra Borneman, and Sharisse Weintraub Ben-Yaacov, three great-grandchildren, Yehuda, Ariel, and Ze'ev Ben-Yaacov of Jerusalem, Israel. John was preceded in death by his wife of 50 years, Karoline Iavelli Borneman. The last 10 years of his life, John was privileged to have the friendship of Mavis Stensacher of El Cajon., extended family and friends. John has made the East County his home since 1943. John served in WW II on a naval destroyer seeing action in the Pacific theatre and sent to Pearl Harbor after the attack to aid in the very sad clean up operation. After the war, Dad started the first milk route in El Cajon Valley. He delivered milk to many famous people including Lance Alworth, Dale Robertson, Monte Hall (Monte Hall's Children's TV show and owner of Tiny Town Ranch). Pediatrician, Dr. Marshall Persky said that Johnny the milkman helped him get patients by recommending Persky to young mothers. After retiring from the milk business, John became an advertising salesman for El Cajon Speedway. He was very entrepreneurial and also sold Race Programs and ice cream bars. The man did not understand the word, retirement. John and Karoline produced a family of stars. John, Jr. a Cajon Speedway Champion wowed the crowds. Fans will never forget the night he married Debbie just before the main event. Grandson, Johnny III, followed in his father's footsteps and now races NASCAR Nationwide Series and Super Trucks. John's daughter, Mary "Diane" attended SDSU and UCLA. She went into show business and was a dancer with Liberace, Jimmy Durante, Sonny and Cher, Sammy Davis, Jr. the Carol Burnett TV Show, "Vive Les Girls" at the Dunes Hotel in Las Vegas. She was Miss Nevada in the Miss World pageant in 1969. Youngest daughter, Sharon, was a dancer in Eula Hoff's Ballet Petite. She also was an award winning ballroom dancer. Visitation hours are scheduled on Wednesday, March 2nd, from 4 until 8 p.m. at Legacy Funeral Chapel, 7043 University Ave., La Mesa, California. Graveside service will be held on Thursday, March 3rd, at 2:00 p.m. at the Dearborn Memorial Park, 14361 Tierra Bonita Road, Poway, California. A celebration of life/ reception will follow at Johnny Borneman's race car headquarters in Ramona. Legacy Funeral and Cremation Care Phone: 619-337-1400 www.legacyfuneralcare.com

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Mar. 1, 2011.

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Sherri Garman-DeMink

March 4, 2011

Dear John, Debbie and family: I am so sorry to hear of your father/grandfather's passing. Although, I never met him personally, I wanted to send my prayers and love your way in this sad time. I know how hard it is when a loved one leaves this world for the next and just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you with warm thoughts. Sherri Garman-DeMink

March 3, 2011

Dear Sharon and Borneman family, We are saddened to hear of your great loss. Our hearts are heavy with sadness. We knew Mr. Borneman from El Cajon Speedway for many, many years and he was a local icon. His smile was always a warm welcome every Saturday night. Now with our families coming together, we too feel a sense of great loss.May God give you all peace, beyond all understanding. Our prayers are with you all. If you need anything please don't hesitate to call us, anytime day or night. The Jones family. Mike, Gloria, Heather and Michael Jones

Kristen Cummings Schermerhorn

March 3, 2011

Dear Mary and family: I'm saddened to hear of the passing of your father. He was such a friendly and kind man. I have fond memories of him delivering our milk and the chats we had at our back door.
I know how hard it is to lose your father. There isn't a day that goes by where I don't think of mine. You were blessed to have him with you for as long as you did. He, truly, had a full and wonderful life filled with family and lots of love.
My condolences...

Linda Morrissey-Walling

March 3, 2011

Dear Mary and family, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. It's been many, many years, but I remember your dad as such a kind man and I always thought it was so neat to have a milk man for a father! I also remember my one and only trip to Cajon Speedway was with you and your dad. At the time, it was one of my most exciting adventures! I know how hard it was losing my dad and I pray your memories will keep him close to your heart. Here's to warm remembrances.

Melissa Hess-McCune

March 2, 2011

Sharon, Mary and Johnny: What a huge part of my growing up all of you came to be. Both your mom and dad were there for us time after time. I know John Sr. was a fabulous guy and will be missed by so many. I remember getting a ride many times in the milk truck...fun times and times when we needed a supportive adult...Thank You Mr. Borneman. Love to you all,

Shirley and Steve Johnson

March 2, 2011

To the entire Borneman Family. We were so sorry to hear of John's passing.I always remembered John joking and harassing me in fun out at Johnson's Bug Machine every year without fail with the ads in the Cajon Speedway programs. I will always remember that smile and laugh.I told him ,John, I have more important things to spend the money on and he replied,"Mrs.Johnson if I had your money I'd retire" Our deepest sympathy in your loss.May God grant you all comfort and peace in this time of sadness.

March 1, 2011

To Members of John's family, -We will miss his presence in our Koffee Klatch times at Steph's Donut Hole in Alpine, CA. He always kept our blood circulating with his witty and fun thoughts. When John was around you had to have your wits about you or he'd manage to awaken all your senses. What a man!!!
Julianna and Gerry

March 1, 2011

We enjoyed our friendship with Mr. Borneman. We shared may laughs together. He and I both enjoyed harassing Jerry. He lived life to the fullest. Our deepest sympathy to his loved ones who will miss him the most of all.

Gerald Moore, Ph.D. and Joyce Swineheart Moore, Ph.D.

Orey Hess

March 1, 2011

Dear Johnny, Mary & Sharon: I am very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. He was a nice man with a great laugh that I can still hear in my mind. When things were tough for my family we would often find cold bottles of milk on our doorstep that had been left by your Dad. He was a sweet man. Thanks, Mr. B. May you rest in peace.

john and debbie borneman

March 1, 2011

we will miss you so much,but we have great memories.

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