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A.J. Sarno Obituary

Saratoga Springs, NY - A.J. Sarno passed away Thursday May 16 at his home in Saratoga Springs holding the hand of Dolores (Dee), his beloved wife of 60 years. He shared his final days with Dee and his children Dawn Nolan, Douglas Sarno, and Dina Slawson, leaving this world with the same determination, grace, and humor he demonstrated in every one of his 82 years.As one of nine children, A.J.’s life was always centered on family and he was most proud of his three children, ten grandchildren (Michael, Lauren, Christopher, Gregory, Ryan, Jeffrey, Mark, Mirelle, Connor, and Aaron) and two great grandchildren (Hudson and Audrey).He was born in the Bronx to John and Angelina Sarno and grew up in New York City. While an excellent student, he left High School at age 16 to work in his Uncle’s hardware store to help support his family. Pride in his country was a strong motivation throughout his life and he enlisted in the Army at 18, where he served in Korea, attended the Army’s Advanced Leadership School, received his GED and began earning college credits. Over time, he was able to balance a demanding career, be a devoted husband and father, and still find time to steadily complete his education. He was always learning, attending countless management programs including at the University of Virginia and Cornell University, ultimately earning his Master’s Degree in Public Administration from Syracuse University.After marrying Dee in 1959 and starting their family, he joined the Postal Service. Starting from the bottom, he quickly became a supervisor and joined their management development program, sparking a life-long passion for how to make organizations work. His career brought him to Roanoke Virginia where he served as District Manager for southwestern Virginia and West Virginia, and Syracuse, New York where he served as Postmaster and District Manager for central New York. He completed his career as a trainer at the Postal Service Management Academy in Potomac Maryland where he loved to see people learn the power of communication and collaboration.Upon retiring from the Postal Service, A.J. started Creative Quality Concepts, a consulting firm to work with organizations around the country to improve their management and leadership. After a few very successful years, cancer cut his second career short. With the same dogged determination he demonstrated in every aspect of his life, he fought and beat three different cancers over almost 20 years. He swore that cancer would not beat him and it did not, as he was cancer free when he died.In his last decades, he devoted himself to family and faith. He built on his strong beliefs of the power of peace and love and cooperation to establish the InterFaith prayer breakfast. Working with Steve Sullivan, they brought together faith leaders and local residents to think deeply about faith, and community and peace in what became a monthly institution in Saratoga.In addition to his wife, children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren, he is survived by his brothers Dominic and Michael and his sister Dolly.Relatives and friends may call from 10am to 12 noon Sunday, (May 19) at the Wilson Chapel at Skidmore College followed by a service at 12 noon in the chapel. A reception will follow at 1:30 pm at Longfellows Restaurant, 500 Union Ave. Burial, with military honors, will be conducted at 9am, Monday (May 20) in Greenridge Cemetery, Lincoln Ave.In lieu of flowers please make donations to Community Hospice of Saratoga.Arrangements are under the direction of the William J. Burke & Sons/Bussing & Cunniff Funeral Homes of 628 North Broadway.Online remembrances may be made at www.burkefuneralhome.com. http://www.lastingmemories.com/aj-sarno

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Published by The Saratogian from May 17 to May 18, 2019.

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Mike Brick

May 11, 2024

Hi Di. Still have fond memories of you and AJ. Think of him often especially when I drive on Taft Rd near the PO. Have a picture of him and me on an end table in my den.

Mike Brick

May 11, 2023

Hi Di Hope you are doing well. Just want to let you know I think of you and AJ a lot. I have a picture of me and him in my den. I am so ever grateful for what he did for my career. Promoted me twice over the so called favorites .. Thanks to him I have had 25 years of comfortable retirement. Miss him !

Mike Brick

September 27, 2019

My condolences to you my old friend, your in my p thoughts at this time as always, Gerry Sciarrino

Shirley Schultz

May 20, 2019

Dear Dee,
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
I would have given my condolences in person, but just noticed this in the paper today.
AJ was very kind, upbeat and soft spoken person. He will be missed by many!
My best wishes to all.
Shirley Schultz

Gerri Thompson

May 20, 2019

Dee & Family of AJ,
I am saddened to hear of the loss of your husband and father. AJ had an impact on all those he touched, and I consider myself blessed to have been able to count him among one of my friends and mentors. I wish I could come back for the services, but I'm unable to do so. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

May 19, 2019

Dear Dee, My heart is heavy with the loss of your lifetime partner. I didn't know him well, but I was always certain of your love for one another. It was expressed in your kind and gentle manner, your clear awareness of each other's circumstance, and the generosity that flowed from such a full cup. No doubt the legacy you both leave is in part due to the synergy derived from the pairing of two exceptional human beings...how fortunate we all are to know the Sarno's.
My thoughts are with you.
Linda Lake

Helen and Duff Gerhardt

May 19, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Cathy and Jim Sawaya

May 18, 2019

Dear Sarno family,

Our hearts are heavy with sadness of the news of AJ's passing. Jim and I have been friends with Dina and Dan for 25+ years. Dina and I have had numerous conversations about AJ's strength and courage. He was Dina's rock, inspiration and greatest supporter. There were opportunities through the years (family visits, plays, Lauren's wedding) that we were able to spend time with Dee and AJ and there just could not have been a kinder, gentler, caring man. Words just can not express the sadness and heartache I know you all are going through. Love to all. We will be keeping you in our hearts and prayers during this extremely difficult time.

May 18, 2019

Dee,

Thank you very much for calling me about AJ's passing. I really appreciate you letting us know.

We didn't know what we were getting when he came to Syracuse as the MSC Manager. We found out quickly. He was the best. Firm and very fair. He had confidence in me and promoted me twice over the heir apparent. Thanks to him I am enjoying a long and prosperous retirement.

It was our pleasure over the years he was here that he was not only my immediate Manager but also my friend. It is said you can't mix business with pleasure, however in his case you could. He was the boss and you knew it but he was also your friend and you knew that, too. We enjoyed both your company over the years as social events here inSyracuse.

We enjoyed reading your Christmas card every year and keeping us up to date on your family.

Enough already. I could keep going on and on.

You and your family have our sincere condolences and we will miss him as I know you will, too.

Love
Arlene & Mike

PAT AND CARRIE PINTO

May 18, 2019

DEAR MRS. SARNO,
WE LIVE IN BEAVERPOND VILLAGE AND HAVE ADMIRED YOU AND A.J. AS NEIGHBORS. WE KNOW HOW DEVOTED YOU WERE TO HIM. WE WILL KEEP YOU IN OUR PRAYERS.
SINCERELY,
PAT&CARRIE PINTO (19-PAMELA LANE)

Yvonne

May 17, 2019

AJ what a man! So sorry for your loss. He will be missed. Hugs and love to you Dee and your family

May 17, 2019

Sarno family, my sincere sympathy to you. May your treasured memories continue to provide a measure of comfort and peace to the family. Please be strengthened from (Isaiah 61:1,2) our God "binds up the broken-hearted and comforts all who mourn"

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