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Mary Deely Obituary

Mary Catherine Deely

Passed away peacefully in her home on Sunday, December 22, 2019. She was 71 years old. Beloved wife of Michael Deely for over 50 years. Loving mother of Liam, Alanna, and Laura. Doting grandmother of Olive, Wesley, Desmond, Isobel, and Ava. She is also survived by her kind brother Greg (Robert) and his wife Becky, and also her beloved and loving Dachshund "Rosalie."
Mary was born the youngest of seven children in the coal mining town of Mt. Carmel, PA. She had no car, no hot water, and no indoor plumbing. Yet, she loved her early childhood there. Her father died when she was two. Mary loved school, but by the first or second grade, she left Mt. Carmel with her mother and older siblings and moved to Oxnard, CA where she also enjoyed the sun, the orchards, swimming, and volleyball. She graduated Santa Clara High School at the age of 17. Shortly after, she moved to New York where she worked for a couture shoe maker in Greenwich Village, earning enough money to travel through Europe for six months on her own carrying only the shirt on her back, her camera, and a spare pair of jeans. She eventually returned to California and relocated to San Francisco in the mid to late sixties. She worked at a delicatessen on Geary Blvd where Michael frequented for lunch, and it was there they met.
Mary loved her family more than anything. She doted on her five grandchildren wanting nothing more than to see them happy.
We love you so much, Grammy.
Friends may visit Friday, January 3, 2020 at 5 PM for the Vigil Service at St. Anne's Church, and again Saturday, January 4, 2020 at 10 AM for the Funeral Mass. St Anne's Church is located at 850 Judah St, San Francisco, CA 94122.



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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 25 to Dec. 29, 2019.

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Lois Green

January 4, 2020

Michael, I just heard of your wife's passing. I wanted to send you a big hug of sympathy. I'm the Lois you see on fourth Saturdays at Martin de Porres.

Donna Sellman

December 30, 2019

The first time I met you was following my son's engagement to Alanna; I drove to your home from Gardnerville NV to meet you and your family. I was late arriving and felt awful to keep you waiting but you were so kind, so warm, and insisted on making me pancakes even though it was 11AM. I was so touched and honored to spend some time with you sitting around the kitchen table watching you make pancakes and sitting with me while I ate. Your gesture touched me deeply for the one thing I wanted for my son was a family and I knew he would have that with the Deely's. You will always have a treasured spot in my heart and in my memories. Rest in peace and Love Mary from Donna S.

Patty Diner

December 27, 2019

You are all in my prayers. I have such wonderful memories with Mary at Feiseanna's, at Cub Scouts and Junior Great Books at St. Anne's School. Love,
Patty and Christopher Diner

kaaren alvarado

December 26, 2019

Rest in peace lovely lady, and sincere sympathy to the family on your loss. Love + prayers, kaaren alvarado

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