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Ruth Schorer Feb. 13, 1913 - Nov. 18, 2010 Died on November 18 at the age of 97. Preceded in death by Mark Schorer, literary critic, author, and English professor, her husband of 41 years and father of their two children, Page and Suzanne, known to all as Suki, and by her second husband, Erle Loran, artist, author, and art professor emeritus in 1999. Born in Columbus, Ohio in 1913 to William Herbert Page, a law professor in Madison, Wisconsin, and Ruth Grey Page, she was the youngest of four children, all of whom are deceased. Ruth graduated from the University of Wisconsin in Madison and later from the Library School at UC Berkeley. When she was young, she danced in both the United States and Vienna, Austria and wrote for The New Yorker under another name. Glamorous, elegant, an inspiration and role model to all who knew her, Ruth was surrounded by creative artists and writers all her life. David Park painted portraits of her and Eileen Simpson wrote about the glamour that she and Mark brought to Cambridge when he taught at Harvard. A wonderful cook who loved parties, hers and others, she was known for her joie de vivre and generosity of spirit. She drew people of all ages to her. She was still stunning in high heels at 90. She was an irrepressible optimist. She often used the word thrilling. Survivors include her son Page of Berkeley, and Suki of New York City, and adoring grandchildren Nicole Macotsis and Page Ruth Schorer. The family would like to thank Felicitas Gazzingen for her loving longtime care. Funeral arrangements are being handled by the Neptune Society. In place of flowers, the family suggests donations to The School of American Ballet, 70 Lincoln Center Plaza, New York, NY 10023. The family will have a memorial celebration of her life in December.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Nov. 20 to Nov. 21, 2010.

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Wanda

November 14, 2024

Aunt Ruth was an inspiration and a wonderful role model for me. When I was a young child, she and Mark would come and visit us. I always thought that she was so beautiful.

When someone becomes a memory the memory becomes a treasure. Ruth is one of my true treasures.
Love and Hugs,
Wanda

Mindy

November 14, 2024

Dear Suki, Dear Nicole,
Remembering your beautiful, delightful mother.
xoMindy

Mindy Aloff

November 14, 2022

Dear Suki, Dear Nicole,
Thinking of Ruth's beautiful voice and her kindness.
Love, Mindy

Mindy

November 14, 2021

Dear Suki, Thinking of your mom, you, and Nicole--such fantastical women all. Love, Mindy

Mindy Aloff

November 14, 2020

Beautiful, brilliantly funny, a paragon of understated elegance, Ruth brought joy with her to every gathering. It's shocking to realize that she's been gone for ten years. Brava, Ruth.

Karim LATIFI

December 4, 2010

Dear Suki, Nicole and Page,

Ruth was such a great person, so glamorous, so elegant, an inspiration and role model to all who happened to know her.

I'll never forget all the extraordinary moments we spent all together, and all the expressions, and mimics which were her personnal signature :
Questionning her about how she was and felt, she would always give the same answer "Aging, but it's Life, and Life must go on !".

She kept on smiling till the very last moment of her so rich and significant Life..

She enjoyed her Life, danced through the Ballet of Life from her Beginning, to her very last breath.

She dared to live her dreams, she dared to be herself whoever or whatever the situation was.

I consider myself as a happy few, since i had the opportunity to meet her, and to share some delightfull moments in her compagny.

And in the memory of Ruth, Life goes on, so keep on trying to live your dreams, whatever the difficulties are, just believe in you, and live your dreams, smiling to life, Life will just smile back to you ...

In the memory of a special person, who happened to be your grandma, and who i had the pleasure to know : Ruth SHORER, an irrepressible optimist, and known for her joie de vivre and generosity of spirit. God bless you Ruth.

Karim (Paris, FRANCE)

November 23, 2010

Dear Suki & Nicole,
We share with you beautiful memories of Ruth - birthday parties with our children; times being together. Her presence always was loving, fun, positive and elegant. She lived her 97 years well - even vibrantly. And, she has shown us how to age with dignity.
We hold her in our hearts with these special memories of this special person.
With our Love to you both, Jan & Gil, New York City

Morton Paley

November 22, 2010

Dear Suki,

Ruth was my dear friend for 45 years, during all of which I was the beneficiary of her warmth, wit, and
empathy. I'll miss her.

Ellen Sorrin

November 22, 2010

Suki: Your mother seemed a force nature, much like you are. I'm sure you will miss her terribly, but as I've learned, we carry those we love close always in our hearts. Fondly, Ellen Sorrin

November 22, 2010

Dear Suki - We are so sorry to hear about your loss. May your fond memories of her be a condolence, and source of inspiration. Best, Jeff Blustein and Beverly Kalman

Luisa E. Rodriguez

November 21, 2010

Niki, mis mas sinceras condolencias por el deceso de tu querida abuelita. Su vida nos servira como un modelo e inspiracion a todas las mujeres que amamos la inde[pendencia, la libertad, el arte y la cultura. Un fuerte abrazo con mucho amor, Luisa

Irma Alfonso Rubio

November 21, 2010

Dear Suki:
You have been so lucky to have had such a wonderful mother.
Now she must be close to mine, in the best section of heaven.
Kisses and a big hug.
Irma.

Linda & Jim Gucciardo

November 21, 2010

Dear Suki and family,
May the beautiful memories that fill your heart help to bring you comfort in your time of loss.
Hugs,

Mindy Aloff

November 21, 2010

Ruth was magic. I knew her through the parties that Suki would give over the past 20 years or so, and to see her sitting on the sofa, wearing an elegant creation, her beautiful legs tapering to exquisite shoes, was to feel, for a moment, that one was liberated from the storm and stress of life and transported into another world--of New York in the 20s, with high life, and merriment, and literature being written on the wing, one hand on an Olympia keyboard and the other balancing a flute of Champagne. She would smile enigmatically, like the cat that got the cream, and then she would tell a story. Oh goodness, could she tell a story! The mischief of her stories! And the kindness and humanity and humor. It was a joy and a privilege to know her.

Delphi Harrington

November 20, 2010

Oh, Ruth we miss you already. Your obit scratches the surface. I will always think of you when I have a glass of the very best champagne. A toast to your effervescent spirit which will always be with us whenever we celebrate our lives.

Love, Delphi and Norman

Connie & Mark Hochman

November 20, 2010

Our love and condolences to Suki, Nicole, Page, and Page Ruth. We will always remember seeing Suki and her beautiful Mom walking down 65th Street together, arm in arm, radiant smiles, twinkling eyes - ageless and full of grace.

Gail Taras

November 20, 2010

I will always remember this fabulous woman – beautiful, inspiring, funny, generous, surprising, and elegant in a way that is so rare today. She was a true roll model for me. It was a joy and an honor to have known her. Ruth, thank you for being!

Melissa Collier

November 20, 2010

What a lovely tribute to a woman who lived, as we all should, with spirit and passion. Our love and thoughts are with you all... Melissa & Keaton.

Wanda Schrank

November 20, 2010

My dear Aunt Ruth was an inspiration and roll model for me. When I was young I always thought she was so beautiful when she and Mark would come for a visit. She was one of the most elegant women I ever knew. She was very positive and a delight to be around. I called her fairly often and we shared wonderful conversations. My husband and I went to visit her in CA and had the best time. She was so gracious, with a great sense of humor and wisdom to share. I will miss her dearly. She was and still is an elegant angel in my life. God Bless. Love and Hugs, Wanda Schrank

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