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Joan Allekotte
May 22, 2019
Somehow in the past few days I was remembering both Nancy and Ted after many, many years. I had the privilege of providing music for Nancy's Mother, Harriet after my husband and I first moved to San Francisco in 1986. I was a practicing music therapist at the time and was working independently. Nancy, concerned that her mother would have some enjoyment in the nursing home setting found me and hired me to visit Harriet every week, which was a delight, as Harriet loved to tell stories of her youth. I do not remember too many of her stores but I do remember Horseback riding was one of her enjoyments and I have an impression that she wholly loved being in nature. It was very apparent that there was a lot of love in the family. I was missing my own at the time as they were far away on the east coast. I remember Ted and Nancy who were so generous, had us over for dinner in their San Francisco flat that they had been renting for many years. They also came to our flat out in the Richmond once to have dinner with us. The last we met was at Harriet's funeral in Guerneville. After so many years, I just want to say that I feel blessed to have met such a wonderful and delightful couple and a wonderful family. If any of the family members find my note, I would be so happy to connect with you.
Joan Allekotte
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