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Ken LaCosse

1960 - 2019

Ken LaCosse obituary, 1960-2019, San Francisco, CA

Ken LaCosse Obituary

Ken Lewis LaCosse

April 9, 1960 — June 28, 2019

Ken LaCosse passed away unexpectedly from cardiac arrest on June 28, 2019 in San Francisco, California.
A native of San Jose, California, Ken was the younger son of Fred LaCosse and the late Mariette LaCosse.
Ken was an all-conference receiver on the Leland High School football team, and later attended San Jose State University where he studied fine arts and was profoundly influenced by his teachers and experiences there.
Arts and music continued to be at the center of his life, and became the foundation of his career: the study of traditional Japanese shakuhachi music, then the design and manufacture of unique bamboo instruments. Ken crafted hundreds of flutes, which eventually found their way into the hands of players all over the world.
Ken was also a prolific recording artist and videographer who made videos of his original songs as well as covers, parodies, instructional guides, and footage of players using his instruments.
A chance meeting in Europe turned into a decades-long marriage with his beloved wife Susanne Frey. They settled in San Francisco in 1988.
His profound love for his family was well-known. Ken had an especially tight bond with his father and brother, with whom he took many memorable trips.
Ken was a humble man of few but well-chosen words who naturally drew people to him. Ken's niece Lindsey put it this way: "Life is incredibly fragile. Uncle Ken and I had a special bond. He was a man of few words but always spoke with intention. He was the 'cool' uncle, an amazing artist and musician and lived a beautiful life in San Francisco with his love, Sue."
Ken is survived by his wife Susanne Frey, his father Fred LaCosse and stepmother Terry Lowry; his elder brother Kevin and sister-in-law Susan LaCosse; and his nieces Kelsey Cluff, Lindsey Green, Lacey LaCosse, and their families.
A private celebration of Ken's life will be held at a later date.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jul. 9 to Jul. 21, 2019.

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Dimtirs Rapakousios

September 8, 2019

I don't know what to say......
I want to express my condolences to the family and people who love him.i am shocked and deeply sad .I just read about his sudden death on a site I rarely visit.i always visit almost everyday mujitsu site to check his new work and great flutes, but couldn't figure out about the sad news.i own more than 10 flutes of great maker and person Ken in the last 4 years.i am addicted to his flutes .huge lover of his work.i am from Athens,Greece my name is Dimitris I never had the chance to meet Ken but he knew every detail I wanted on my flutes like we knew each other for years.i am very sad I can't believe this great man will not share anymore his great art with the Shakuhachi lovers.i wish the family to get the strength and have the health to remember him like all the people that he gave his love through his great ,perfect flute making ,will remember him For life and pray for his soul.if I can help in any way the family please don't hesitate to contact me.I will always remember him like I always did every time I am blowing his great and soulful flutes.Rest in Peace Ken!!!!!!

Julian Harper

September 2, 2019

He was a great and honorable man and my life is much better for having known him, and at one time I had an incredible shakuhachi which he made. His loss will touch many, but may he find peace and rest now.

Leland Prom 1978

Bob Fields

July 17, 2019

Almaden 1978

Bob Fields

July 17, 2019

Bob Fields

July 12, 2019

Kenny was an incredible childhood friend and I will miss him dearly. Sadly as we grew older we drifted apart as we became involved in our adult lives. Remember seeing his photograph in the San Jose Mercury News playing guitar in San Francisco when the City hired musicians to perform to draw people downtown. Hadn't talked too him in years and called him. We talked for an hour laughing about old times and felt like we never were out of touch with one another. I will always cherish his friendship in my heart. My condolences to Fred, Kevin and all his family and loved ones. Rest In Peace my brother.

Bob Fields

Mark Dills

July 11, 2019

Kevin, Fred and all friends of Ken,

So very sorry to hear of Kens passing. Growing up 2 doors down from the family I have many fond memories of the early years.

Thoughts are with you,
Mark Dills

July 10, 2019

to Fred LaCosse and kevin this is Jere Dills I am extremely saddened by Kenny's Death myself Bob Fields Bill Myat Loui Deroche really feel obligated to pay our respects if there's anyway we can do that it would be greatly appreciated

Leland High School 1977

Bob Fields

July 9, 2019

Bret Harte 1975

Bob Fields

July 9, 2019

Almaden Indians 1972

Bob Fields

July 9, 2019

Almaden Indians 1972

Bob Fields

July 9, 2019

Leland Chargers 1978

Bob Fields

July 9, 2019

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