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Alfred C. Cox M.D.

1933 - 2020

Alfred C. Cox M.D. obituary, 1933-2020, South Bend, IN

Alfred Cox Obituary

Alfred C. Cox, MD

May 5, 1933 - June 9, 2020

SOUTH BEND, IN - Dr. Alfred Cox, age 87, of South Bend, passed away peacefully on June 9, 2020, in the comfort of his home, surrounded by his loving wife, children, and grandchildren.

Dr. Cox was born on May 5, 1933, in Rice Lake, Wisconsin, to his parents, Charles Richard Cox and Violet Cox Haeschke. He is survived by his wife of 56 years, Ellaine Krueger Cox; his three children, Jeffrey M. Cox (Cathleen) of Park Ridge, IL, Dr. Kathryn Cox Cohoon (Michael) of Granger, IN, and Jonathan Charles Siade-Cox (Heather) of Hartland, WI; his sister, Lucille Marie Yergovich of St. Pete Beach, FL; and his ten grandchildren: Meghan, Connor, Anders, Matthew, Celia, Hallie, Maxwell, Gretchen, Gretta, and Eliza. Also surviving are his sisters-in-law, Patricia Dueringer (Richard) and Kathryn Krueger, and many nieces and nephews.

Dr. Cox started his education in a one room schoolhouse in rural Wisconsin, graduated from Hammond High School, Hammond, IN and attended Indiana University, earning his Bachelor of Science in 1955. He earned his Master of Science in 1956 from Indiana University. Dr. Cox returned to Indiana University, School of Medicine, earning his Medical Doctorate degree in 1962, and beginning his lifetime, personal commitment to serving others in healthcare. He completed his Family Medicine Internship at Memorial Hospital in South Bend, in 1963. After completing his Internship, Dr. Cox opened his medical practice in South Bend, working as a primary care physician for 57 years. Twenty-six of those years he also worked as a part time urgent care physician at several of Memorial Hospital's MedPoint facilities.

His devotion to and involvement in organized medicine was exceptional. Dr. Cox was a Life Member of the Indiana Academy of Family Physicians and the American Academy of Family Physicians. He was a member of the St. Joseph County Medical Society for 56 years, serving as the Secretary-Treasurer for many years. Dr. Cox was very involved with the Indiana State Medical Association, serving as the president in 1998. He was a member of the American Medical Association for over 48 years, and a Delegate for 14 years. Dr. Cox was involved within the South Bend medical community and devoted much of his time to various elected volunteer positions. Dr. Cox was the Chairman of the Family Practice Department at Memorial Hospital for 3 years. He served as President, Vice-President, and Secretary-Treasurer of the Memorial Hospital Medical Staff.

Above all, Dr. Cox put his family first. He was a phenomenal husband, father, brother, grandfather, and uncle. Dr. Cox adored gathering his family together, especially during the holidays, where he shared his Jelly Bellies and played trivia and bingo. There was never a vanilla ice-cream that he did not absolutely love nor a family puppy that did not receive all of his affection. He also spent much of his free-time throughout the years playing tennis and volleyball.

Dr. Cox's mark on the South Bend and Mishawaka area is unparalleled and his dedication to serving others knew no bounds. Whenever and wherever Dr. Cox went out, he was always greeted with friendly conversation by someone he knew either as a patient or friend. Dr. Cox was known for his thoughtfulness, compassionate heart, profound knowledge, relentless sense of commitment, and quick wit, all of which will be immensely missed.

Dr. Cox had exceptionally loyal and dedicated office staff as well as devoted patients for whom he was always grateful. His greatest honors in life include being a husband and father to his children and grandpa to his grandchildren, but of equally great importance to him was providing noble and honest care to his patients throughout the years.

The family wishes to express gratitude to Hospice for all of the kind care and support provided to the family during this very sad time.

The family will receive friends from 10:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. Friday, June 19 at Clay Church, 52866 Ironwood Rd. Please wear a face mask and practice social distancing. A private memorial service will be held. Memorial contributions in Dr. Cox's name may be made to the Dr. Alfred Cox Memorial Fund of Clay Church at the visitation, on their website, www.claychurch.com by using the “GIVE' drop down box, or by sending to Clay Church, 52866 Ironwood Rd., South Bend, IN 46635. These donations will be used for the church's community programs.

Palmer Funeral Home - Welsheimer North Chapel is assisting the family with arrangements. Family and friends may leave email condolences at www.welsheimer.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by South Bend Tribune on Jun. 14, 2020.

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Lawson Roberta

June 8, 2024

If only doctors today could be as committed as Dr. Cox was to his patients, we would all be better off.He is missed very much (was a great Doctor)

April J Mitchell

July 28, 2020

I knew Dr. Cox from seeing him and his wife at Sam's Club when I worked at the pharmacy there. They were a few of my select favorites working there. Always a smile from one or both from them, and I always enjoyed talking with them. I just found out today at work that Dr. Cox passed away. He was a wonderful person and a phenomenal physician. He will be greatly missed.

Richard Mead

July 8, 2020

RIp. Dr Cox. U took care of our family for many years. You will be missed

Melanie Heniff

June 25, 2020

I was a physician colleague on committees for ProAssurance with Al for over 15 years. He was incredibly intelligent and kind. We often talked about our families and mutual ties to Rice Lake Wisconsin. His love for his family always came across in our discussions. My deepest condolences to his family.

Sharon Heater

June 19, 2020

I am so sad to lose Dr. Cox as my go-to doctor for many years. He was very kind to me and helped me with my personal problems as well as my medical problems. Dr. Cox and his staff, were very rare and hard to find. The world has lost a wonderful doctor, one never to be found again. God bless his wife Elaine and the entire family.

Sharon Heater

Cheryl Little

June 18, 2020

Dear Ellaine and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will never forget Al and the many years he was Ken's and my physician before we retired to California. He was an excellent doctor with the right blend of seriousness, compassion, and humor. Thank you for sharing him with us.

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Carrie Banda

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Lynne Dzierla

June 18, 2020

Dr. Cox has been my doctor since I was 10 years old, a total of 57 years. He always joked with me that there was only one other person that was with him longer than me. Dr Cox and Dr. Buck were like fathers to me. They helped me when my parents passed, watched me go through nursing school, and helped me raise my children. Going in for an appointment was more like catching up. He always took me in his office to see the updated pictures of his family and shared with me what each one was doing. I will miss him dearly. He was a legend. His office staff was the best!
My sincere condolences to his loving family. He was so proud of each and everyone of you. May you find peace knowing he did what he loved until the end and comfort in your many memories.

Stonehill Family

June 17, 2020

Dear Cox Family, extending our heartfelt condolences to you at this time. Your dear Dad touch the lives of so many. May his life and all that he did for others comfort you.

Tom & Jena Lewis

June 17, 2020

Al And Ellaine our first and closest friends in South Bend. Many wonderful memories and laughs. Al was the founder and chief operating officer of the Darden Road Gang. A great friend and neighbor. Our prayers for E and kids

Rev Charlene Harris Allen

June 17, 2020

He was our doctor when I was a child. He was gentle and kind. Prayers of comfort for his family and friends.

Mary T Short--Clay High retired

June 16, 2020

Such a good man who left a lasting legacy. He understood what a great physician was supposed to do for his patients. Well done, good and faithful servant. Condolences for his wife and children who he dearly loved.

Julie Birr

June 16, 2020

As a young homecare medical social worker in the 1990's, Dr. Cox truly encompassed everything positive in family medicine. His family meetings to introduce my role (as we transitioned patients to home care) influenced and taught me also. He led by example of putting the person and family first. He was so compassionate with his patients. Thank you Dr. Cox. May your family find peace at this time

Rob Riley

June 16, 2020

I was saddened to hear of the passing of my friend and mentor Dr. Al Cox this week. He was a role model and teacher to me when I was a young resident. (And he was fun, toohe helped me prank one of my fellow residents!). Later, he played an important role in bringing me back to South Bend to work and Ill always be grateful for that as well as for the way he cared for his patients and his willingness to participate so actively in organized medicine. We have lost a valuable member of our medical community. I extend my sympathy and best wishes to Elaine, Kathy, and the rest of Als family and friends.

carol j bockaj

June 16, 2020

took care of mom till she past away last year . he was her dr for over 40 years she only wanted him to take care of her.. thank you for such great care sorry for your loss

carol j bockaj

June 16, 2020

would like to say I am sorry for the passing for DR Cox. he took such good care of my mother,Suzanne Rose for over 40 years she loved this dr.. he was there with her days before she passed away but told me he was heading out of to for a meeting and they would take good care of her. she past away days later. thank you .. sorry for your loss

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Charles & Roberta Lawson

June 15, 2020

Dr. Cox was our family doctor for 47 years and he will truly be missed. Chuck and I thank you for all the great care you have provided us. To your family please except our condolence .

thomas vidic

June 15, 2020

A great role model and mentor.

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Stacie Wenk

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Steve Gutermuth

June 15, 2020

Dr. Cox diagnosed my juvenile diabetes in '69 at age 11 and helped me thru this very difficult and scary time(shots, dietary changes, and fear) as well as being our family's outstanding doctor for 6 decades and we are eternally grateful. May you rest in peace.

Linda Szabo

June 15, 2020

Dr. Cox was a very good and compassionate Dr. I went to him for years and so did my daughter and grandson. He will definitely be missed by everyone. I will always remember how he would tell goofy jokes to ease your fears if needed. My sincere condolences to his family, co workers and everyone 's life he had touched.

Sharon Evans

June 15, 2020

Dr. Cox was our family doctor for many years. He delivered my daughter almost fifty years ago and saw our family through all the twists and turns of our lives! He was always patient and caring even when we had to deal with painful truths!

Wendy Henry

June 15, 2020

To the family of Dr. Cox: I am so sorry for your loss. Doctor took care of my husband from 2001-2006. He was kind and straight forward. Didn't mince words when he couldn't do anything further for my husband. My husband wanted me to give him his hat and doctor was pleased to accept. Thanks doc - rest in God's peace.

PAUL MINTON

June 15, 2020

Dr Cox, You are so missed thank you for all the care to me and many family members ! You were the BEST Sincerely Minton and Morris Family

SharonMiller Hoffman

June 14, 2020

I started going to Dr. Cox around 1972ish, what a pillar of strength he was for me. He knew what to say and what to do to help me through many dark spots in my life. I am eternally grateful to have him as a doctor, a neighbor and a friend I want to extend my deepest condolences to his wife, children and grandchildren,--- also his office ladies and Dr. Buck. HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.Rest In Eternal Peace,and THANK YOU!

Corey Billet

June 14, 2020

He was my doctor my entire life. He is like part of my family. He will be missed.
Such a dedicated man to helping others.

Sandy Chonody

June 14, 2020

Dr. Cox was a kind and compassionate man. I had the privilege of working for him for several years and saw firsthand his care and dedication to his family and patients. Andy and i send our deepest condolences to the family.

Sandy Chonody

June 14, 2020

Dr. Cox was a kind, compassionate man and I had the privilege of working for him for several years. I saw firsthand the care and dedication he gave to his family and his patients. Andy and I send our deepest condolences to the Cox family.

Sam Milligan MD, FACP

June 14, 2020

Please accept my sincere condolences. Dr Cox always had the best interest of his patients at heart and was very attentive to the details of their medical care. It was an honor to have worked with him to care for his patients over the years

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