Elizabeth O'Toole

Elizabeth O'Toole

Elizabeth O'Toole Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 18, 2009.
VERNON, CT — Elizabeth "Liz" (Andrews) O'Toole, 57, of Vernon, beloved wife of John J. O'Toole, passed away on Thursday, September 17, 2009, after a courageous battle with cancer.

Born in New Bedford, Massachusetts, daughter of Louise (Chisnell) Andrews of Harwich, MA and the late Albert Andrews, she lived in Vernon for over 30 years. She was most recently employed by Pro Health Physicians at Vernon Family Medicine and worked in the main office at Skinner Road School for 12 years.

She was an active member and Past President of the Vernon Junior Women's Club. She was also active in the Vernon PTA where she had served as Past President of the Maple Street School, as well as a former Brownie Leader.

Liz was an avid reader, enjoyed going to the beach, rollerblading and playing tennis. She was a loving and devoted daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, sister and friend who enjoyed spending time with her family and friends.

Besides her mother and her loving husband John of 37 years, Liz is survived by her beloved children, Maggie Elizabeth Ouellette and her husband, David of Raleigh, NC and Gregg L. O'Toole of Webster, MA; two granddaughters, Madison Elizabeth Ouellette and Allie Claire Ouellette; a sister, Sallejane Rivard and her husband, Raymond of Harwichport, MA; and many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

Her family will receive friends for calling hours on Monday, September 21, 2009 from 4 to 8 PM at the Ladd-Turkington & Carmon Funeral Home, 551 Talcottville Road (Route 83), Vernon. A memorial service will be celebrated on Saturday, October 3, 2009, at 11 AM at Pilgrim Congregational Church of Harwichport, MA. Burial will be private and at the convenience of her family.

Memorial contributions in her memory may be made to the Melissa Fry Scholarship Fund, c/o Maggie Ouellette, 8509 Swarthmore Drive, Raleigh, NC 27615 or to the John DeQuattro Community Cancer Center, c/o ECHN Community Healthcare Foundation, Inc., 71 Haynes Street, Manchester, CT 06040-4131.

For online condolences and to view the guestbook, please visit our website www.carmonfuneralhome.com

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September 25, 2009

Joanne Hudson posted to the memorial.

September 23, 2009

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September 22, 2009

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Joanne Hudson

September 25, 2009

I will always remember her smile, she could fill a room with such peace.

Liz will be missed but never forgotten.

To Aunt Louise, John, Sallejane and there families.

I am sorry I can not be there,just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love you,
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Larry Trahan

September 23, 2009

another good person i grew up with on blackmore pond gone forever... life is too short.

David Tremblay

September 22, 2009

Liz was a neighbor of mine on Blackmore Pd in West Wareham, MA. I remember her out sunbathing and hearing her alarm clock going off for her to turn over.

Diane & Jeff Sanborn

September 22, 2009

John,

Our deepest heartfelt sympathies. May the lifetime of happy memories you shared with Liz replace your sadness.

God Bless you and your family.

September 22, 2009

It has been lifetime since last we played along the beach on beautiful Blackmore Pond.. a very long time ago indeed.. rest now Eliza-bug..

Bob Sweig and Lisa Phelan

September 21, 2009

John, we are in disbelief that the world has lost such a beautiful soul. We are so proud that we had an opportunity to know Liz and hear her laughter and feel the joy of her being. We are selfishly sorry that we will not have more of those moments in our future and our hearts go out to you and your family. Liz brought a great deal of brightness into this world and her memory will be one that we always cherish. Our love to you all.

Carol Barton

September 21, 2009

John, So sorry to hear about your wife, Liz. My prayers go out to you and your family.

Donna Chick

September 21, 2009

John, I'm so sorry to hear about Liz, she was a kind lady. I know these times are going to be hard for you and your family just keep all your memories close.

You are in my thoughts any payers.

September 20, 2009

John and family, I have so very many fond memories of Liz and you, John. Blackmore Pond, Achusnet and the gang! So very sorry to hear of Lizs' passing. Please know that my prayers are with you and yours at this time. God Bless You. Deborah Thatcher Robbins

Jim and Louise Hudson

September 20, 2009

Aunt Louise,Sallejane,John and all the family. I have fond memories of going to spend summers at Blackmore pond.Spending time with family. Miles separate us now,but I am with all of you in spirit.God Bless all of you in this sorrowful time. Our prayers are with you. Jim, Louise and family.

Richard Tariff

September 19, 2009

My sincere thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. I was honored to have known Liz.
Richard Tariff, retired Director of Adult Education and previously Assistant Principal, VCMS

Sylvia& Bill Stevens

September 19, 2009

Maggie and David we are sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. We have been in touch with Liz each day to see how she was doing. You will have all the good memories of a great mom and grandmother and that will help. We are thinking of you during this difficult time and please convey our condoloences to the family.

Rick and Alice Fancher

September 19, 2009

John O'Toole and family. Having the privelege of sitting next to you at work and sharing your day to day stories, I cannot tell you how much Liz's passing has affected me. We both share the love of our wife, kids, grandkids etc, and we share many of the same dreams. Both my wife Alice and me, send our deepest condolences, and offer our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Rick and Alice Fancher.

Cliff & Thea Smith

September 19, 2009

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal. May the memories move to the front of your heart...Our thoughts are with you.

Bernie & Charlie Dorgan

September 19, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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