Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

Hazen & Jaeger Funeral Home

1306 North Monroe Street

Spokane, Washington

Mary UPTAGRAFFT Obituary

UPTAGRAFFT, Mary Kathleen Funeral services for Mary K. Uptagrafft, much loved wife, daughter, mother, teacher and friend will be at 11:00 am Saturday, April 27, 2019, at St. Ann Church (2120 E. 1st Ave). Mary went to Heaven on Friday, April 5, 2019 at Hospice House South, surrounded by family and friends. Mary was born in Portland, Oregon to Paul and Ellen Ewing, joining her brother Allan and later her brother Ben. She attended the Madeleine School through eighth grade, and St. Mary's High School until she moved to Spokane, Washington with her family. Starting at Holy Names Academy midway through her Sophomore year. Mary's mother was a journalist and was the first to inspire Mary in her writing. She was involved in journalism as copy editor of Holy Names Academy yearbook. She held leadership positions as an officer in the National Honor Society. Mary participated in many clubs like National Scientific Society, and Future Teachers of America. After graduation she became a fixture during the summer at Camp Sweyolakan, known as "Miss Richie," to all. Starting as a counselor, she moved up quickly to swimming instructor, then waterfront director. She continued her love of swimming throughout her early life, teaching handicapped children at the YWCA. Mary enrolled at Eastern Washington State College to pursue a degree in Secondary Education, with emphasis in Journalism and PE. While she was in college, Mary had two children, Eric and Mollie, staying home with them until she graduated. After graduation, Mary began her career by substitute teaching in Spokane schools. She then started a full-time position at Libby Middle School, teaching PE to 7th and 8th graders. She became affectionately known as "Mrs. Up." She taught PE for several years, then started teaching English and Social Studies. Mary stayed active in PE by coaching many different sports, especially in Track and Field. She was a great coach! Mary was ahead of her time in her teaching methods. Mary and Kathy Williams taught integrated Science and English before anyone ever heard of team teaching. Mary was nominated by one of her students and awarded "Teacher of the Month." She taught Publications and was the advisor for the school yearbook and newspaper. Her Millennium Yearbook (2000) won best of the year for publisher Herff Jones nationally. Mary was flown to Baltimore where they honored her at a ceremony and dinner. In 1991, Mary completed her master's degree in Gifted Education, going on to teach Honors English and Social Studies until she retired in 2001. After her retirement, she traveled throughout the country, always with a camera around her neck. Photography was her passion and if she was not taking pictures, she was looking at them. She was so proud of her son, Eric, and his wife, Sandra, who were the first couple to compete together in the London Olympics. Mary's faith was very important to her. She had such a strong belief in God and knew exactly where she was going, HEAVEN! Mary Uptagrafft is survived by her beloved spouse of 30 years, Dianne Fields, her children, Eric and Sandra Uptagrafft, Mollie and Scott Finn, Jeff and Tamara Mosar, Doug Wiseman, and her brother Ben (Gina) Ewing. She is known as "Grammie Mia" to her three grandchildren, Ted, Garrett and Blythe. Mary is also survived by hundreds and hundreds of friends. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in Mary's name to Hospice House of Spokane South. Online condolences may be expressed at hazenjaeger.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Spokesman-Review from Apr. 15 to Apr. 14, 2019.

Memories and Condolences
for Mary UPTAGRAFFT

Not sure what to say?





Marvin Reguindin

April 29, 2019

Diane, Paul and I are very sorry to hear of Mary's passing.

Mary was a fantastic neighbor on 14th. She always had a great smile and always very happy to see me and my dogs while we were on a walk. She will be missed.

Marvo Reguindin, Paul Tiesse

Jennifer and Eric Quantock

April 24, 2019

Dianne, we are so sad to hear about Mary's passing. We have been so blessed to have you both in our lives. Abby, Madison, Jack and Nate have always talked about how much they love you two. I bet she's taking awesome pictures in Heaven.

Mike Wallace

April 22, 2019

I remember meeting Mary... I'm so glad I did. Jennifer just loved her when she was at Libby. What a wonderful thing to be together for 30 years! For us, we certainly had a lot of fun and you were so good to me Diane. You'll never know how much you changed my life. In all your memories, Mary is still with you. I'm thinking of you...

Sandra Cronin

April 18, 2019

My heart is sad for the loss of this amazing lady. Mrs.Uptagrafft was one of my favorite teachers at Libby Junior High. Rest In Peace Sweet Friend! My thoughts and prayers to her family and friends.

Bob Troman

April 18, 2019

As we left Spokane, you were both getting into framing, matting your photographs et al. You gave us an angel to carry with us which has been in our bedroom since leaving. Her name now will be Mary and with us always. Blessings to you Diane

Gordon & David

April 17, 2019

What an amazing person. I knew her in her latter third and she was/is such a light!

Alec Hirschauer

April 16, 2019

Mrs. Up was a wonderful teacher and a wonderful person. She will be remembered dearly by all of her students.

Julie Perron

April 16, 2019

Mary holds a special place in our hearts. I remember when we brought Brady (as a baby) back from Guatemala and she was the first to reach out after his baptismal mass to get her baby fix. What a giving, talented and bright star on this Earth, and now in heaven. Love, Julie, Cameron, Brady and Morgan

Mary Fran Anderson

April 16, 2019

I was privileged to attend Holy Names Academy while Mary was there. I remember her as an energetic, smart, outgoing person and a formidable competitor on the basketball court. I am not surprised at the wonderful things she did with her life and I am grateful to hear about them. My prayers for all her family and friends. I know this lovely woman must have left many heavy hearts.

Robin McLain

April 16, 2019

Mrs. Up was one of my favorite teachers! So sorry for your loss.

Maureen & Bob Troman

April 16, 2019

Oh, Dianne, we are so very sorry for your loss in the death of dear Mary. She was a gentle, wise soul. We appreciated knowing both of you.
Big hugs
Maureen & Bob

Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary

April 16, 2019

Dear Dianne, Eric, Sandra and Family,
On behalf of all our Sisters, especially those who taught at Holy Names Academy, Spokane, may we offer prayerful sympathy to Mary's family and friends. May her new way of living in God's Presence bring great peace and joy to her, and may you experience Mary's nearness always.

April 16, 2019

Our sincere condolences to the family in the loss of your dear love one. Our prayers are as yours, that God provide his care and comfort you each day.
Psalms 145:18,19

Showing 1 - 14 of 14 results

Make a Donation
in Mary UPTAGRAFFT's name

Memorial Events
for Mary UPTAGRAFFT

Apr

27

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

St. Ann Church

2120 E. 1st Ave, WA

Funeral services provided by:

Hazen & Jaeger Funeral Home

1306 North Monroe Street, Spokane, WA 99201

How to support Mary's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Mary UPTAGRAFFT's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more