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Harolyn Giordano Matteson And Matthew Matteson obituary, Elmira, NY

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Harolyn Matteson Obituary

Harolyn Giordano Matteson and Matthew Matteson

Elmira - Tragically died on Tuesday, July 10, 2018. Both were born and raised in Elmira and were graduates of EFA. Matt, age 43, in 1993 and Harolyn, age 42, in 1994. Harolyn earned her undergraduate degree from Nazareth College, Rochester and earned her Master's Degree in Social Work from the University of Buffalo. Prior to settling in Elmira Harolyn and Matt lived in North Carolina where she worked in social services and Matt worked for Powerhouse Electric. They were married in Willow Spring NC in 2011. Upon their return to Elmira, Matt served as an apprentice with IBEW, eventually becoming a member of IBEW Local #139. He owned M&H Electric, specializing in both commercial and residential work. Harolyn previously worked for Family Services. When their son Lucas was born she became a stay at home mom, also doing child care for others. Currently, Harolyn was working evenings and weekends at Southern Tier Counseling where she was a therapist. Matt and Harolyn both enjoyed riding motorcycles, kayaking and snow skiing. They also both had a love for music especially Phish and the Chris Robinson Band. Last year they met Chris Robinson and he invited them to travel with the band to their next concert, which was in Ohio! They leave behind their children, Teagan James and Lucas Matthew Matteson, and Matt's daughter Mary Ashley Matteson. Their children were their pride and joy. They are also survived by Harolyn's family...mother Harolyn Wilcox Giordano of Elmira; aunt and uncle Virginia and Mark Griswold of Elmira...Matt's family…parents, Michael J. and Therese Hogan Matteson; brother and sister-in-law Brian M. and Valerie Matteson of York PA with their daughter Olivia Rose; sister and brother-in-law Catherine E. and Douglas Hammons of Northville NY with their children, Logan Douglas and Ella Catherine; grandfather Jerome F. Hogan of Elmira; aunts and uncles, Colleen Hogan of Horseheads, Daniel and Lory Hogan of East Nassau NY, Catherine and Stanley Burczynski of Elmira, Patrick and Rose Hogan of White Plains NY, Kevin Hogan of Elmira, and William Matteson of Elmira. Also surviving are numerous cousins. Harolyn was predeceased by her father James C. Giordano and brother James L. Giordano. The Giordano and Matteson families will receive friends at McInerny Funeral Home, 502 W. Water Street, Elmira, on Monday July 16, 2018 from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. A prayer service will be held at the funeral home on Tuesday, July 17, 2018 at 10:15 a.m., followed by an 11:00 a.m. Mass of Christian Burial at St. Patrick's Church, Elmira. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to The Matteson Childrens Fund, c/o Chemung Canal Trust Company, Westside Branch, 628 W. Church Street, Elmira NY 14905.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Jul. 13 to Jul. 15, 2018.

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Catherine O'Leary

July 24, 2018

I was Harolyn's advisor while she completed an internship at AIDS Rochester, Inc.

She was a dedicated student and I was impressed by her maturity when it came to crisis case management situations.

My deepest sympathies.

Jennifer (Schuck) Park

July 22, 2018

Sending my deepest condolences to the whole family. While I did not know them, Mrs. (Therese) Matteson was my 6th grade English teacher. One of my very favorite teachers. I'm so sorry for your family's tremendous loss.

Lee Hawk

July 16, 2018

Harolyn,so sorry for your loss. She was an amazing young lady. Loved her smile,Harolyn,so sorry for your loss. She was an amazing young lady. Loved her smile

Catharine Callas

July 16, 2018

No amount of words or tears can compare to the Millions and Millions of smiles that Harri Jr. gave freely to all! Her lively spirit and warm heart welcomed all, she had the best examples in her Mom, Dad and brother to live up to and she exceeded all Giordano expectations! I was only fortunate to meet Matt a few times, but it was obvious that he was the counterpart that completed the other half of Harri. The love they exuded and demonstrated for each other, their children, families, friends and the unknown person on the street, can only be a lesson to the rest of us on how to succeed a a monumental example to all! As tragic as ever the Heavens welcomed them as the Angels they were and we are so lucky to have them to watch over us! The welcome committee that greeted them was filled with those we love and embraced them in warmth and shared laughter that reflected their personalities. They maybe gone from our daily lives, but will live forever in our hearts with those that past before them. Many blessings and prayers to family and friends may the peace of God be with you all!

July 15, 2018

Dear Harolyn, My heart aches for you. I remember Harolyn and her beautiful smile when she was a student at Booth. I am praying for you and the children. Rita MacDowall Grinnell

Randy and Dawn Malloy

July 15, 2018

Aunt Harolyn and The Matteson Family

I am at a loss for words during this sorrowful time. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying for peace and comfort.

Nancy Shon

July 14, 2018

Harolyn, I am at a loss of words. Such a terrible loss. Hoping thoughts and prayers will help in some way.

Flora Cunnagin

July 14, 2018

Harolyn, I am so sorry. Praying that God will give you comfort and strength.

Flora MacDowall Cunnagin

Bud Marshall

July 14, 2018

This Is So Sad I am Lost For Words. God Bless The Family.

Carol Kennedy

July 14, 2018

To the Matteson and Giordano families,

Our hearts grant immortality
to those we love
in memory.

May His peace which passeth all understanding be upon you.

Carol and Larrry Kennedy

Kathy Webster

July 14, 2018

A true example of what a family is ..... I thank u for the love you showed to my grandchildren every single day..... I am inspired by the unconditional acceptance you demonstrated to every person who walked into southern tier counseling center.... it has been a true priveledge to know both of you..... I am the lucky one .... RIP. Kathy webster

Dorleen Kauffman

July 13, 2018

I am so saddened to hear of their tragic deaths. I taught Harolyn in elementary school and will cherish my fond memories of her. May God comfort her family.

Jo Anne Sarli

July 13, 2018

We knew Matt from the work he did on our house. What a special man he was. Full of life and fun. He worked to please. During his time with us he was always saying something about his family. One could tell he was a loving father and husband.

July 13, 2018

B. L. Elmira NY

Kathy Rourke

July 13, 2018

Harri,
My heart aches for you at this horrible tragedy. I'm praying for you and the children.

John Comereski

July 13, 2018

Harolyn along with the Giordano and Matteson Families, I am so very sorry to hear of this tremendous loss. Words cannot express the sadness and sorrow many feel. You are certainly in my thoughts and prayers!!

Sandy Hall

July 13, 2018

Dear Harolyn, I remember Harolyn as one of my favorite Booth School students. My heart is breaking for you and her family. My sincere sympathy . Sandy Hall

Shirley Reiser

July 13, 2018

I worked closely with Harolyn during her time in graduate school. I remember her smile, her heart as big as forever, and her passion for social work. Keeping you all in my heart and prayers.

Betty Sheehan

July 13, 2018

You are in my deepest of prayers throughout this difficult time.

Patt Dzikowski

July 13, 2018

Harolyn and family,
My deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Noel and Catie Swasta

July 13, 2018

Sent with love to get through this tough time. Our most sincere condolences.

Crystal Murphy

July 13, 2018

What an amazing couple. Such love for their children. Harolyn had such an infectious smile. I didn't know them well. But the amount of time I did left a huge impression. May God be with your family at this hard time.

July 13, 2018

Harolyn and family,
Words cannot express how sad I am for you and your family. May God give you strength to get through this terrible tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Sincerely,
Maxine Condon

Marcia Dunlap

July 13, 2018

Sending my thoughts & prayers to the entire family of Harolyn & Matt. May God continue to watch over their children & all their loved ones. May they both RIP.

Jim and Barbara Singerhoff

July 13, 2018

So sorry Mike and Teresa. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this tragic time.

Bridget Duncan

July 13, 2018

So sorry for your loss. Matt and Harolyn were wonderful people and will be greatly missed . Prayers for healing and comfort for you all .
Duncan family

Tom Swinko

July 13, 2018

Thoughts and Prayers are with your Families at this difficult time

July 13, 2018

My deepest and heartfelt condolences in your tragic losses of Harolyn and Matthew Matteson. May God give you the strength to face each day ahead. May God bless you all. Amen
Sincerely,
Viola Brill

Valerie Mccormick

July 13, 2018

My deepest condolensces to the children and the rest of the family. Attended school with these two wonderful people. May you rip

Rose Giammichele

July 12, 2018

It's a difficult time and it's heartbreaking. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely, Ria

July 12, 2018

With deepest and most heartfelt condolences to both families for such a tragic loss of your loved ones.

cayce mell

July 12, 2018

Two beautiful radiant individuals who each lit up every room they walked into so devastated my love and prayers to their families and many friends who are grieving this tragic loss.

Jamie Ostrander

July 12, 2018

I will never forget Matt. I grew up in West Elmira and went to Hendy Avenue as well as Ernie Davis with Matt. I kept in touch until college and then lost touch but his amazing and infectious personality was unforgettable. He was always funny, kind, and generous and he had incredible passion for things he loved which is why it's no surprise that him and Harolyn were such an amazing couple. Him along with many other west Elmirans made an impact on my life and although I'm 3000 miles away in Oregon I will never forget Matt and who he was. Rest in Peace my friend I wish I could be there personally to honor your memory and celebrate your life but I send my deepest condolences and prayers to all of his friends, family and neighbors. Jamie Ostrander

Jennifer Piasecki-Washko

July 12, 2018

My deepest condolences to the entire family that these 2 people are leaving behind. To Harolyn: GO EFA BLUE DEVILS FOREVER!

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