Shelly Therese MacGillivray

Shelly Therese MacGillivray

Shelly MacGillivray Obituary

Published by Star Tribune on Jun. 20, 2008.
MacGillivray, Shelly Therese age 44, of Chanhassen, was taken from us tragically on June 18, 2008. Survived by her love & life companion, Mark Van Guilder; parents, Roger & Kay of Proctor, MN; sisters, Dory (Jim) Guzik and Brenda; niece and nephew, Anjelica and Jake Guzik. Memorial service 3:00 PM, visitation 2:00 PM Sunday, June 22 at the Cremation Society of MN, 7110 France Avenue S., Edina 952-924-4100. In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred. "Her bright spirit and lovable personality will be greatly missed by all."
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.

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Stephen Evenson

June 14, 2019

I still miss not being able to call you and hear your voice and thoughtful/honest/funny response to whatever I wanted to talk to about. You are still loved by me and many others who were fortunate enough to have been friends with you.

August 12, 2010

Shelly how I miss you!!! Your sweet smile, your laugh, the way we used to make homemade velveeta mac & cheese together, living in the house in Plymouth with the "chandelier", Biker Bob in the basement and you and me and Nancy in the rooms upstairs - catching some rays in the back yard. And meeting Mark for the first time. Slave Raider and all 80's concerts!! :) You always were the one I could talk to and lean on who would never judge and just be there for the ride... I miss you and love you so much my sweet friend!!

~~Ann

Ann Wagner

August 12, 2010

Shelly how I miss you!!! Your sweet smile, your laugh, the way we used to make homemade velveeta mac & cheese together, living in the house in Plymouth with the "chandelier", Biker Bob in the basement and you and me and Nancy in the rooms upstairs - catching some rays in the back yard. And meeting Mark for the first time. Slave Raider and all 80's concerts!! :) You always were the one I could talk to and lean on who would never judge and just be there for the ride... I miss you and love you so much my sweet friend!!

~~Ann

Jodi Meinhardt

May 18, 2009

Dear God - May you help us to live up to the love that Shelly felt from all those that loved her - may we all be loved as much as she was...

April 2, 2009

Lynda Miller Senger

February 16, 2009

Mark,
Even though I just found out about your loss, I can't imagine the pain you must have went through. I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers.

Chrissy Rosas

August 6, 2008

Shelly, I just wanted to say hey and that I miss you. I know that you have be busy up there with your new duties--making HIM laugh. Or your are working on getting #4 for us because you think we need him. I dont think we do but you would know. I think about you all the time and I want to call you or email to say Hey girl we are getting together for Ladies Night in Excelsior or it is time for Carver County Fair derby time. Can you guys make it? More the merrier as we would always say!!! Until next time, Love ya Chrissy

Ronda (DeRoche) Roethle

July 13, 2008

Dory and Family ~
I am so sorry to hear about Shelly. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God bless you with His "peace that surpasses all understanding" during this very painful time, and may you find your hope and strength in Christ.
With Love,

Heidi Envall

July 9, 2008

Dear
Mark, Roger, Kay, Dory, Brenda,
I am so very sad to hear about Shelly.
I saw her two Christmases ago after mass at St. Rose. She gave me a big
hug and told me about Chanhassen and her dear Mark. Shelly was a precious
friend to me in childhood. So many of my memories are connected to her.
We pretended we were horses: Black Beauty and White Beauty! We loved imagining
all kinds of things. We played Lite Brite, ate cornnuts in that little cubby
hole upstairs, and pet Tipsy. So many wonderful memories! When my little
brother died when we were in elementary school, Shelly was a supportive friend.

I know your hearts must be so heavy with pain. You have suffered such a
great loss. Shelly should have been with you much, much longer. But, of
course, her spirit lives on. She is with God and knows the joys of heaven.
I am so grateful that Shelly was in my life. You have my deepest sympathy.

Kristie Envall

July 8, 2008

I just heard about Shelly and I wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. I will always remember her laughter and smile. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Joe & Dee BELANGER

July 7, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Dan McNelis

July 4, 2008

Brenda, Mark and families,

I was shocked and saddened to hear of the tragic and senseless loss of Shelly. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Shelly was sincerely a generous, thoughtful and fun loving person, she will truly be missed.

ALISON AND CHRIS HOY

June 30, 2008

Dearest Mark
Chris and I are so very saddened to hear of your loss. Shelly was a wonderful woman and will be greatly missed. We will always remember her wonderful spirit and laughter. You're always in our thoughts.
Chris and Alison Hoy

Jim and Karen Flattum

June 30, 2008

Dear Mark and MacGillivray Family-

We are shocked and deeply saddened by the loss of Shelly. This tragic event has created an ache in our hearts and a void in our lives. Shelly has left a lasting impression with so many who knew her and loved her. We will always remember how she would just show up and illuminate the room. Her smile, warmth and positive attitude will be greatly missed. We will fondly recall her many funny stories and love for life. The world has lost a beautiful free spirit but gained an angel to watch over us all. May you find comfort in cherished memories and peace in knowing that Shelly will live on forever in the hearts of those whose lives she so deeply touched. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jeff Birdseye

June 30, 2008

Roger, Kay and family, so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. Your family will be in the thoughts and prayers of our family. Let the healing begin.

Deb Hoy

June 29, 2008

Mark, I have not seen you and Shelly for years. I am so sorry for your loss. Shelly was a great person and you guys shared a great love!!!
So sorry for you and Shelly's family. I just heard the news from Chris's wife Alison. So sorry!

kat

June 29, 2008

Wow!!! What a loss! peace be with you all!

June 29, 2008

I didn't know Shelly, but after hearing about her tragic passing, I can't get her out of my head. I'm so sorry to her friends and family. She sounds like a wonderful free spirit. I wish people would start giving motorcyclists the room on the road they deserve! Hang in there, Shelly's looking over all of you. peace.

TRACY C

June 27, 2008

We are very sadden by your loss. As fellow motorcyclists there is a bond even when you do not know each other in person. Your whole family will forever be in our thoughts. We hope you will soon be able to find peace.

Jim Saylor

June 26, 2008

Dory and family,
I just heard about this tragedy yesterday from Rob Nelson. I'm so sorry that I couldn't attend the service so that I could express my sympathy in person. Dory you and your family are in my thoughts. I wish I could take your hurt away.

joan lien

June 24, 2008

brenda,

very sorry to hear about your familys loss.
joan (stauty) lien

John Holm

June 24, 2008

I don't know what to say.What a terrible loss. I hadn't seen Shelly for a long time but will always remember her big smile & cheerful attitude. Life won't be the same without her.

Chris Dobson

June 24, 2008

Roger, Kay, Dory and Brenda
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Shelly. Although I had not seen her in many years, I never forgot what a sweet person she was. Her passing leaves a hole in the hearts and lives of all who knew her. I am so sorry for your tragic loss.

Tonja (Hultgren) Spindler

June 24, 2008

Brenda,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. My heart goes out to you and your family at this difficult time.

Rina Dillard

June 24, 2008

Her smile will never fade, even as the years go by. She was more genuine than most, and I will miss seeing her bright and glowing face. Fishing, camping, etc. I will keep these moments close to me, until we meet again. Mark, Deb, & Families...dig deep down and find the strength in knowing that she is free to ride anywhere now, no holds barred.

Scott & Kris Grebe

June 24, 2008

Our hearts and prayers go out to Mark, Brenda and the MacGillivray and Van Guilder families and friends.
We will forever miss Shelly’s heartfelt laughter, her genuine love for life and those around her, her wit, her smile and her friendship. Shelly was truly a genuine person who absolutely glowed from the inside out. She had a light that burned so brightly that it drew everyone to her, as demonstrated by the massive number of people who attended her memorial service last Sunday. It was devastating and heartbreaking but yet somehow amazing and comforting all at once to see how many lives she has touched and how many people care about her and were all brought together through her.
Shelly, you will be forever in our hearts and we love you.

J.

June 24, 2008

I am also a fellow motorcycle rider and I live in Excelsior. I was extremely moved and saddened when hearing of Shelly's accident, having driven through those crossroads hundreds of times. I think of her each and everytime I drive through. I did not know her personally, but by the sound of the Guest Book...she was an amazing woman with an amazing partner in life. Be thankful...that you found each other and spent some time together on this earth. What a blessing in itself. May you rest in peace, Shelly.

MIKE KOSKI

June 23, 2008

I pray for all the family,and friends.shelly we are still going for that bike run down the minnesota river like we talked about i know its your favorite ride, and the bbq at my house we talked about on our last ride on 6-14-08 all of us are going to talk about this and we can set a date love you shelly! mike k.

Paul & Lisa Mattson

June 23, 2008

Our heartfelt sympathy to the MacGillivray family. Shelly's bright smile and warm personality will be missed by all, and never forgotten.

Dale Gauthier

June 23, 2008

MacGillivray Family,

I was saddened to hear of the tragic loss of Shelly. Shelly and I were roommates when we first moved to the twin cities. I will always remember Shelly for her ability to live life to the fullest. My deepest sympathy.

Kim Manthe Marshall

June 23, 2008

I remember coming out to your house a couple of times when we would come to visit Aunt Helen and Uncle Mervin. Shelly was just a wee thing, and oh so cute. I haven't seen Shelly for about 40 years, but I remember like it was yesterday-jumping on the beds, running down stairs, running in the yard, screaming and holloring, just to bug the parents. Eathing Aunt Helens Pickles-yummy, and Rogers catch in deer meat- all of us kids watching uncle mervin snore, wondering what in the world was down his throat making all that noise. ha
Bill and I are Bike riders too, and bikers have a common code, be safe and wave hello everytime you pass another biker. You ride here in Texas and that is what you see.
we hurt for you and the family, know our prayers, and love are with you and the family. Shelly will be dearly missed, she will be looking down from biker heaven on all bikers doing her best to help keep them safe. her nature and her way. We love you, take care of each other, and we will all remember just how precious life is. Love Kim and Bill

Eric Krafve

June 23, 2008

Mark,
Truly sorry for your loss, our prayers our with you.

The Krafve's - Howard's Point Marina

Ann Ackerman

June 23, 2008

Dear Brenda and Family,
I am so saddened, my heart goes out to you in this very difficult time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
With Love.

Betty and Jim Merling

June 23, 2008

Kay, Roger and family,
You have our deepest sympathy in the tragic loss of Shelly. Our prayers are with all of you.
Betty and Jim Merling

Mary Delgado

June 23, 2008

Brenda, and the MacGillivray family. I'm so sorry for you loss.. Shelly was a wonderful person.. She was so kind and gentle, and loving.. Im sure she got that from her family.. My prayers, and thoughts are with you all..

Bev Leckie Scheirer

June 23, 2008

Anyone lucky enough to know Shelley was lucky enough.Now I know why she did not call back on Tuesday!! Our birthdays will never be the same without Shellys call, she never missed one!! Women like Shelly only come around once in a while and we are proud to have her as a friend!! Mark, our love to you!! Love ya Shell!!
Bev and Tom, Jacobson, MN

Marge Kruger

June 23, 2008

Dear Kay, Roger, Dory, Brenda & Mark: No one can take away the pain of loosing our friend Shelly. Hopefully you can take comfort in knowing that she is at peace with God and one day you'll all be together again. My heart aches with the thought of not seeing her smile and comforting hugs each time I saw her.

Listen for angels hovering near, whispering words you are longing to hear, love is not over, life is not gone, now and forever, her spirit lives on.

I am blessed to have known you, Shelly, and thank you for being the wonderful true friend to my daughter, Deb. Rest in peace knowing you will always be in my heart.

Ricky & Denise Anderson

June 23, 2008

Mark,
We just heard of the tragic loss of Shelly. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May your friends and family keep you strong during this time.
Deepist sympathy.

Anne Robinson (Scanlon)

June 23, 2008

Brenda & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Shelly was a kind and beautiful person. Just remember her radiant smile and all the fond memories of her to help you through this difficult time. My prayers go out to you all.

Brenda- I love and miss you very much!! I will see you soon. Take care.

Traci DeWall(Lund)

June 23, 2008

I was a classmate and friend of Shellys in High School. We had many good times and alot of laughs hanging out. I had the chance to see and visit with her at our 25th class reunion last summer and as always she had that big, bright smile and a big hug for me.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

Betsy and Mark Sangrene

June 23, 2008

Mark and Shelly's family
so sad to hear of the news on Shelly. Our prayers go out to all of you. Will miss her on those occassions when we all got together and will keep you all in our thoughts. She will be a soul that will be missed by many, a smile, a laugh and a hug.

Bonnie Kunz

June 22, 2008

Because....

You can no longer see me
Yet I watch you from above
I know you’re grieving deeply
Because your heart is filled with love

I loved you so much
And I know you loved me too
But please don’t cry for long
Because I will always be with you

Just remember the good times
We had along the way
And I’ll see you in heaven
Because on earth no one can stay

Bonnie Kunz

ANDY DREVDAHL

June 22, 2008

MARK SORRY TO HEAR OF SHELLY PASSING.ERIC CALLED ME AND TOLD ME.SO VARY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

Jerry & Bea Besvold

June 22, 2008

Roger, Kay Dory. & Brenda.
We are so sorry to hear about Shelly. You are in our thoughts and Prayers. If there is anything we can do for you . Please call .
Love you

Brenda Foster

June 22, 2008

Kay, Roger, Dory and Brenda,
I am just finding out about Shelly's passing and it brings me to tears. I have known Shelly since I was 5 yrs old and grew up with her as one of my best friends. Going to school at St. Rose and then our CCD classes on Wednesday nights. I have alot of great memories of Shelly and her family. I am so glad I got to see her at our 25th high school reunion. I am so saddened by her passing, but know in my heart that she is looking down on us and wishing the pain to lessen. Thank you Shelly, for being one of my first friends.
Brenda Foster, formerly of Proctor, Minn.

Kay Cadotte

June 22, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
Victoria and Savanah Vees Mom Kay

Ray and Jan Anderson

June 22, 2008

Dear Mark; Alice,& Family,
We send you our deepest sympathy in the tragic loss of Shelly. She was the ray of sunshine in your lives. You are in our prayers Mark and hope God will ease your pain in the loss of your soulmate and life companion.

Love Ray and Janice Anderson friends and former Harrision Circle neighbors.

Denis &Miriam Nesbitt

June 22, 2008

To Shelly's family Dad,mom.and sisters.We are so sorry about your loss.alway's remember the good times with shelly.She went to school with our daughter Sherry (Nesbitt)Jacobson and my niece Debbie (Kruger)Vantassell very best friend.our thought and prayer's are with your family.Denis and Miriam Nesbitt Proctor,MN (Duluth MN)

Laurie (Jacobson) Carlos

June 22, 2008

Brenda ~

I just got the tragic news of the loss of Shelly.

I kept in touch with Shelly over the years, even though it was just occasional, and we chatted about our court reporting careers. It was always nice to hear from her and we always found something to laugh about. She had the best sense of humor. She was a kind, generous spirit and will be missed by so many.

I was in your situation three years ago for my sister Amy who we tragically lost, and six years ago for my Aunt Deb from Proctor who we lost in a motorcycle accident at the age of 44. My heart feels your pain and sorrow.

You and your family are all in my thoughts.

Larry and Sharen VanDenHeuvel

June 22, 2008

So sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Annette & Al

June 22, 2008

Brenda, Berry & Family
We are thinking of you and are very very sad to hear about Shelly.
Our good memories will always be with us.
Love,

Adrienne Bisping

June 22, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you, Shelly's family, in this time of sorrow. It is truly a loss for all of us.
Keeping all my fond memories of Shelly through the years.

Tom & Sherry Rust

June 22, 2008

We wish to share with the family and loved ones of Shelly, how she added to the memories of our family. In November 1986, Shelly was the Maid of Honor at the wedding of our son Michael and his wife Ann (Dvergsten) Rust. Her great smile and sense of humor added joy to our family’s celebration that special day. Hopefully the positive memories of the people she met in life will be of some comfort to those who loved her so much. God Bless.

Aaron & Lisa Starke

June 22, 2008

There's no way to convey the loss. It just digs down really deep. Your friendly and kind personality will be greatly missed!!

Anne Johnson

June 22, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Patty and Andy Waples

June 22, 2008

As a common sentiment echoed by all prior entries, it is obvious that the world will be a darker place without Shelly. I cannot even remember a time seeing Shelly without a smile on her face and a laugh in her heart. Mark, you truly are the love of her life, and all of us in the Excelsior area are there for you in your loss. Our thoughts for love and healing to the entire MacGillivray family.

Anita Wilson & Family

June 22, 2008

Dear Mark,
I am so sorry! I was deeply saddened to hear the tragic news of our friend Shellys death.
The two of you together illustrated the true meaning of soulmates!!
It can be said that anyone that was lucky enough to have known Shelly has a saddened heart today!
But in all our hearts, the memories of her sense of humor, her conntagious laugh, and kind spirit will live on forever.
My heart and tears are with you.
To my friend Shelly,In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always, 'till we meet again my friend

P.T. Lewis

June 21, 2008

Sending my love and support to Shellys' family...Another angel to watch over us and be forever in our hearts..

Sheryl Alvar

June 21, 2008

My dear friends,
I still cannot believe that this has happened. There are so many good memories of growing up on the Stark Rd. and Shelly's funny sayings. You have all been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard the terrible news. I love you guys and I know that your love for each other will help you get through this. My family and I share your grief, Sheryl Alvar and the Johnson family

Ann (Dvergsten) Rust

June 21, 2008

Dear Mark and MacGillivray family,
The good times and many memories Shelly and I have together will always be with me and will outlast this sad time. My heart is truly broken over the loss of my friend. Though we have not seen as much of each other lately, I will always consider her my best friend. Peace Shelly, and I'll be there as soon as I brush my teeth. Love You, Ann

Jenny Reick

June 21, 2008

Shelly, thank you for being a generous soul and a beautiful spirit. You touched many lives with your kindness and friendship. I think the world could use a million more people just like you, and then what a peaceful garden this world would become. If I close my eyes I can hear you say "Love ya!"
I will never forget the day we met and all the times we shared or your laughter.

May God bless all who grieve your loss to this world.

Linnea Roos

June 21, 2008

Dear Mark,
Our hearts broke when we heard the news of your Shelly's tragic death. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,

Al and Linnea Roos, Angle Inlet, MN

Nancy Huard-Roberts

June 21, 2008

No words can really help to ease the pain and loss you all are feeling now over the loss of Shelly, but as time goes on may beautiful memories restore the joy that has been taken from your hearts! Our entire Huard family sends their deepest sympathies. To my oldest and dearest friend Dory, be strong and know that I am here for you anytime! Shelly was a beautiful gift from God and will always live on in your heart.

Gregg and Lori Melstrom

June 21, 2008

Life on earth is so brief and so fragile I guess the old saying is true; "If want God to laugh just tell him what your doing tomorrow". God had a greater need for Shelly than we did and he called her home. She is serving a higher purpose now. God bless Shelly and may the Lord comfort Mark and her family.

Lori Wegler

June 21, 2008

Mark and family, my deepest sympathies go out to all of you, and Mark, hang in there guy. The love that you and Shelly shared will continue to live in your heart forever. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Pelinka Family

June 20, 2008

Mark and Family, We didn't know Shelly personally but we are neighbors of your Mom, and we are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers

Mike and Trish Hagan

June 20, 2008

Mark, Brenda and Family our hearts are deeply sadden by the tragic loss. Shelly was beautiful person and great friend. We feel truly blessed to have spent so many fun times with her. We will miss her bright smile, laughter and friendship. May Gods blessings be with all the MacGillivray and Vanguilder Families and to all grieving from this tragic Accident.

Sherry Jacosbon

June 20, 2008

Mark & MacGillivary Family, I am so sorry to hear about Shelly, she was always such a bubbly person to be around, looking at the bright side of life. She will truely be missed by many people. I will keep you in my prayers during this difficult time.

Chris Rosas

June 20, 2008

Mark, Brenda, Dory and Family,

Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Shelly was a very special person. She was always smiling and brought others to smile with her even if they had a bad day. She would laugh and others would laugh along with her. She told the best stories because she brought life to them or something funny happened to her. Her stories would make me laugh for days even years afterwards. I will never forget her stories, her smile or her laugh.

Shelly,

I will miss you very much. I know you will make Him laugh too.

Love,

Chris Rosas and Charles Fountain

Chris Rosas

June 20, 2008

Mark, Brenda, Dory and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Shelly was a very special person. She was always smiling which made everyone around her smile. She would be laughing and make everyone around her laugh. I loved to hear her stories because she brought life to every story she told or something funny happened to her. Her stories would make me laugh and smiles days or years afterwards. Well I will never forget those stories, or her smile or her laugh.

Shelly,
I will miss you very much. I know you will make Him laugh too.

Love,
Chris Rosas and Charles Fountain

Russell & Marilena Hall

June 20, 2008

Mark, Brenda, a warm hug from us.
Russell & Marilena Hall

Ted and Lynn Peterson

June 20, 2008

Kay, Roger and family.
We are incredibly saddened by this tragic news. Please accept our deepest sympathy. We know that the close ties within your family will help with the healing process and please know that we are thinking of you and the spirited life of your daughter Shelly.

Sincerely, Your friends Ted and Lynn

Sharon Schuler

June 20, 2008

To Mark and Brenda and Deb and all of Shelly's family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss!! I feel blessed to have known Shelly through Deb as one of my biking sisters. She was great fun, a wonderful person.
Words are difficult to find. She will be greatly missed.

Kathleen Feldman

June 20, 2008

I went to school with Shelly at Rasmussen for court reporting. She was a wonderful gal. We didn't keep in touch but I remember her bright spirit and wonderful smile as we struggled through the tests! I'm sorry for your sudden loss. Take care.

Gregg & Lori Melstrom

June 20, 2008

Mark,
Gregg & I are just so sad about Shelly's passing. I know we haven't seen each other much lately, but we all will miss her great laugh and fun attitude. If you need anything- comfort or a place to hang out please let us know. Our thoughts are with you at this horrible time. Hang in there, time will heal your heart.

Sheri Johnson

June 20, 2008

Mark. Roger, Kay, Dory & Family, Brenda,
I am so sorry for the loss we will all have to face in losing Shelly; she was a great companion, daughter, sister and friend. The emptiness will never be filled. I know Shelly cherished the memories with her friends and family. Memories can not be taken from us. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. I will forever miss you Shelly, my oldest and dearest friend.

Tracy Wold

June 20, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with Shelly's loved ones during this difficult time. Shelly and I worked together for the last ten years. She was such a truly caring person. I will miss talking to her.

A fellow rider

June 20, 2008

As a fellow rider I would like to give my condolences to the entire family. What a tragic accident. I am so sorry for your loss.

Joanie Huebner

June 20, 2008

I attended night school at Rasmussen Business College with Shelly in the court reporting program. Shelly had an ever-present smile and very warm personality. I'm so saddened to hear of her death and will keep her family and friends in my thoughts and prayers.

Shari Werdean

June 20, 2008

I enjoyed meeting Shelly with Mark on several occations, she will truley be missed.
May God hold you and comfort you at this very tragic time.

Kathy Niemeyer

June 20, 2008

Brenda & Family,
All of us at ACI Asphalt are saddened to hear of your tragic loss.
Our Prayers & thoughts are with you.

Steve Evenson

June 20, 2008

Why Shell? My heart goes out to Mark, Brenda, Dory and the rest of the MacGillivray family. We only made one short ride together which will forever be etched in my mind - she was a safe biker. Miss you, Shell.

Sheri Johnson

June 20, 2008

Mark. Roger, Kay, Dory & Family, Brenda,
I am so sorry for the loss we will all have to face in losing Shelly; she was a great companion, daughter, sister and friend. The emptiness will never be filled. I know Shelly cherished the memories with her friends and family. Memories can not be taken from us. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. I will forever miss you Shelly, my oldest and dearest friend. “Peanuts: Shell them and Sher them”

Nancy Njaa Vollen

June 20, 2008

Dory, so sorry to hear about your sister Shelly. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at the difficult time.

Becky Carter

June 20, 2008

Iam so sorry to hear about shelly,My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends...

Jim Richter

June 20, 2008

Mark,

we are sorry to hear of your loss. I know we have not been in contact with you and Shelly often but we will truly miss her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Shelly's Family.

Jim Richter and Bea Harbaugh

Mary & Mike Gilbert

June 20, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Mark, and all of Shelly's family. Her contagious smile and heartfelt laugh will be among the many memories that will keep her alive in all our hearts. To quote the Old Irish Blessing:
"May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand."

Jo Ann Cich

June 20, 2008

My prayers and thoughts go out to family and friends of Shelly. She was a friend of my daughter Christina.

Carmen Powers

June 20, 2008

Kay, Roger, Brenda, Mark and My Sweet Friend Dory, I can only tell you that SO many are thinking of you, grieving with you and praying for you during this time of such deep sorrow. Many who have lost touch are now gathering and reconnecting....all because of Shelly's sweet nature and deep caring for you all. She was a shining light. What a loss.....we can only imagine, and my heart truly is broken for you. Many care - know that. I pray that your faith in Jesus will comfort you, be your strength and PEACE. And may you KNOW that Shelly is with our Heavenly Father who loves her more than we can comprehend. LOVE, PEACE, Carmen

June 20, 2008

Wishin we were fishin.

Tim
Bloomington, MN

Christina England

June 20, 2008

Shelly was a great person and she will be missed by many including myself! My thoughts and prayers go out to Mark, Brenda, her parents, family and all the friends who loved her so much! I will miss her smile and her positive attitude and all the fun times I remember when we were together. We love you Shelly! Watch over us as we continue to Ride to HONOR YOU!

Mary Piehl

June 20, 2008

Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with Shelli's family and loved ones at this terrible loss. I worked with Shelli at the Diane Wright court reporting agency, and I know that her leaving so suddenly and tragically touches all those who worked with her.

Ernest Olson

June 20, 2008

Shelly will be missed. She is truely one of the best.

Steve Evenson

June 20, 2008

Damn. I will forever regret not keeping in better contact. We had a special relationship that I will always cherish. Our few and far between conversations over the past couple of years always left me with a smile on my face. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Sheri Johnson

June 20, 2008

Mark. Roger, Kay, Dory & Family, Brenda,
I am so sorry for the loss we will all have to face in losing Shelly, she was a great daughter, sister and friend. The emptiness will never be filled. I know Shelly was looking forward to the Tina Turner concert with you Kay, and we had just talked about the good fishing times she had with Roger, she cherished these memories. Memories can not be taken from us. Dory and Brenda- she thought you guys were the greatest, and she was proud to be an aunt. Mark, the love you and Shelly had together will never die, and I know she loved your family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. I will forever miss you Shelly, my oldest and dearest friend. “Peanuts: Shell them and Sher them”

Teri Hill

June 20, 2008

So very sorry to read about Shelly. Shelly was one of my students at Rasmussen and we continued to talk and share life stories with each other after she graduated. She has always held a special place in my heart. I remember many wonderful comments about Mark. She will be missed. I will not be able to attend the memorial but will be there in spirit.

Jeff Gauss

June 20, 2008

Brenda and the whole MacGillivray family, You are all in my prayers. I was sad to hear the tragic news about Shelly. Its been a while since I've seen you, but I'll always remember you. My deepest sympathy goes out to you all.

wendy armstrong

June 20, 2008

We are truly saddened to hear of Shelly's tragic passing. She was such a beautiful person - always smiling.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you, her family. Let it bring some comfort knowing your friends are here for you - thinking of you and praying for you.
We will miss her - but will always remember her smile and wonderful heart.

Mike and Wendy Armstrong

Jeanine & Jim Hall

June 20, 2008

She was such a sweet and fun loving person. Our sorrow and sympathy goes out to all who loved her.

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