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Kenneth Ray Bray

1938 - 2021

Kenneth Ray Bray obituary, 1938-2021, Austin, TX

BORN

1938

DIED

2021

Kenneth Bray Obituary

BRAY, Kenneth "Beaver" Ray Ken was born on December 15, 1938 in Cawood, Kentucky to Edna and Elvin Bray. At the age of nine following the death of his parents from TB, he and his siblings were raised at the Odd Fellows Home in Lexington, Kentucky. He passed away in Austin, Texas on January 8, 2020 due to complications of COVID. Ken "Beaver" attended Henry Clay High School in Lexington and Berea College. He retired from IBM in 1992. Ken and family were members of Bethany Methodist Church were he enjoyed working 11 years with House of Friends, an Alzheimer's respite program. Some of his best times, best friends, and favorite memories were made at Balcones Country Club where he was a member for 50 years. Ken was preceded in death by his parents, brothers Denver and Roscoe Bray, brother-in-law Steve Terhune, and his devoted in-laws Lillie and Bill Terhune. He is survived by his loving wife of 62 years Marlene Bray, Austin, TX, his children Ken Bray Jr., Austin, TX, Lisa and Jay Whitaker, Austin, TX, sister Sue Schlegel, Lexington, KY, and very best brother-in-law Neal and wife Linda Terhune, Woodland Hills, CA. He is also survived by grandchildren Kaylan Bray, Kelsey Calhoun, Clay Whitaker, Madison Gardner, and great grandchildren Zoey and Presley Whitaker and Oliver Gardner. And finally, by all the many cousins, nieces, and nephews that he kept dear to his heart and made up his Kentucky roots. No memorial services scheduled at this time due to COVID. Memorial donations may be made to either House of Friends, Bethany Methodist Church 10010 Anderson Mill Rd., Austin, TX 78750 or Berea College Memorial, CPO 2216, Berea, KY 40404. We know that he is dancing up in Heaven.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Jan. 17, 2021.

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Gloria Simonson

January 11, 2025

When I think of 'Beaver', I smile!! A really good friend.

Ralph Simonson

September 24, 2021

Marlene, I just saw this and have to tell you we will always remember and love Beev!! Thinking of of you. LOVE

Jane Howard-Bynum

January 31, 2021

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May your memories of Beaver comfort you in the days to come. He was a delight to many!

Lisa Whitaker

January 30, 2021

I can only say how grateful to you all that shared. From my mom and I we appreciate you and love you

Eric Chance

January 22, 2021

I’m so sorry and sad to here of Ken’s passing. He was always so
friendly, helpful and supportive at IBM. It was always nice to see him at IBM retiree gatherings. My thoughts and prayers are with Ken’s family.

Ed Ritcherson (Gainesville, Texas)

January 21, 2021

I worked for IBM Austin from 1967 to 1977. It has been many years, but I remember Ken as a true gentleman with a wonderful sense of humor.

Ginny Conklin

January 21, 2021

Ken was a Sweetheart. I am so sad at his passing. I met Ken thru Herbie Beard, who was also a long time volunteer of the House of Friends, an Alzheimer support program at Bethany United Methodist Church. His ready smile and kindnesses will long be remembered.

Bill Hanson

January 20, 2021

My condolences to the Bray family.

Roger Shannon

January 19, 2021

I am proud to have called Beaver a best friend, since 1957 at Berea College. In fact, I always felt he was like a brother. He was kind, generous, funny, loved his family, and had numerous true friends. My wife, Genie, and I will miss him terribly. We shared a lifetime of great memories. He will live on in the thoughts of everyone who was fortunate enough to have known him. I’m sure he has St. Peter laughing, playing golf and having a scotch in the clubhouse.
Our condolences and love to Marlene, Lisa, Ken and family.

Roger Shannon

Shari Riddle

January 19, 2021

Beav. You were always the life of the party. I loved singing for you. I hope Heaven knows what they have. I will miss you so my sweet friend. We will keep Marlene and family in our prayers.

Shari Riddle

January 18, 2021

Beav. You were always the life of the party. I loved singing for you. I hope Heaven knows what they have. I will miss you so my sweet friend. We will keep Marlene and family in our prayers.

Shari Riddle

January 18, 2021

Beav. You were always the life of the party. I loved singing for you. I hope Heaven knows what they have. I will miss you so my sweet friend. We will keep Marlene and family in our prayers.

Shari Riddle

January 18, 2021

Beav. We loved you. You were always the life of the party. Always had a kind word. I loved singing for you. Until we meet again...I hope Heaven knows what they have. Miss you my sweet friend. We will keep Marlene in our thoughts and prayers.

Shari Riddle

January 18, 2021

Beav. We loved you. You were always the life of the party. Always had a kind word. I loved singing for you. Until we meet again...I hope Heaven knows what they have. Miss you my sweet friend.

billie m wedlund

January 18, 2021

A beautiful tribute to a good Christian man. My condolences to you, Marlene and your extended family. Heaven got a little brighter when Beaver entered the Pearly gates.

billie m wedlund

January 18, 2021

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

January 18, 2021

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Beverley McDonald

January 18, 2021

Beaver was a faithful member of the Henry Clay High School class of 1957 and attended many of the class reunions. Marlene and all his family are in my prayers.

Michael & Donna Mace

January 17, 2021

My husband Michael and I only knew Ken from seeing him at church. He always gave the best hello hugs. We will miss him asking about how did I feel and how was Michael’s golf game. We know he will be missed by many from our church.

Al Prather

January 17, 2021

I am so saddened to hear of Beaver's passing, as he has been a devoted friend since 1953. I want to offer my condolences to his entire family, and trust the Good Lord will fill their hearts and minds with good memories. RIP friend

Ralph Clay

January 17, 2021

A dear friend that will never be forgotten. What a sense of humor, he love to laugh. He was a kind and a good man, will be missed.

Alvin Gold

January 17, 2021

He was a good friend and great manager at IBM. I will miss him. Thoughts and prayers to his family.

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