Ruth E. Smelik

Ruth E. Smelik

Ruth Smelik Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 3, 2009.
Smelik, Ruth E. (nee Stienhans) 95, asleep in Jesus, Mon., June 1, 2009. Beloved wife of the late Walter F. Smelik; dear mother of Thomas (Marilyn), and the late Terry Smelik; dear grandmother of Michael (Michelle) Moore, Everett (Jennifer) Brown, and Michael Smelik; dear great-grandma of Makayla and McKenzie Brown; dear aunt of Robert (Joann) Mollett, Ron Smelik, and Don (Debbie) Cobb; great aunt, cousin and friend. Mom was a long time member of Hope Lutheran and Christ Memorial Lutheran Church, taught Sunday School for over 30 years, and served on the Altar Guild. Mom was a very generous and loving person who will be greatly missed. A special thank you to Terry McQuaide APRN-BC at Esse Health for the very good medical care given to Mom over the last few years. Services: Visitation at KUTIS SOUTH COUNTY CHAPEL, 5255 Lemay Ferry Rd. (at Butler Hill) on Wed., 4-9pm. Funeral Service at Christ Memorial Lutheran, 5252 S. Lindbergh at 10:30am (Visitation at church from 9:30-10:30). Burial at New St. Marcus Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Christ Memorial Capital campaign.

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June 4, 2009

Sandy Newman posted to the memorial.

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June 2, 2009

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Sandy Newman

June 4, 2009

Dear Marilyn and Family, We wish to express our sympathy to you and your family at this time of grief. I heard you speak of your mother in law often when you were working in the beauty salon and fixing my hair. I know you loved and respected her very much and gave her special care for many years. May God and your faith give you comfort.
Sandy, John, and Beth Newman

Pastor Bill & Gail Simmons

June 2, 2009

Dear Tom & Marilyn and family: It is with great sadness that Gail and I read of your mother's passing yesterday. It was my great pleasure to know Ruth and Walter. I knew them to be people of faith who loved the Lord Jesus and who treasured their family. Ruth will be missed indeed. But what a wonderful legacy of faith they have left with you all. I will miss thanking Ruth for bringing Tom and the family to church on Sunday. That comment always made her smile. And she just seemed to light up whenever either of the twins were on her lap. Remember her smile. Remember her warm and welcoming disposition. Remember the promises fo faith that console and even ecnourage us during a time such as this. Above all remember Jesus' words: "Because I live, you shall live also." This is His promise to Ruth and it is a precious promise indeed. Much love to you and your family. Pastor Bill and Gail

The Tallo Family

June 2, 2009

Dear Smelik Family,

Our heartfelt sympathies during this difficult time. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Matt & Michele Oswald

June 2, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Deborah Jackson

June 2, 2009

Dear Tom, Marilyn and family,

Dave and I always thought of Ruth as our dear Aunt. She was the most wonderful, generous and kind person. We will miss her presence at your home - but know that she is looking down from Heaven, watching over all of you.

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