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Roger Deal Obituary

Roger Wesley Deal

Boylston - Roger Wesley Deal- a man of faith, people, and music- died Sunday, July 19, 2020, in Boylston, Massachusetts, with loving family at his side. He was 87.

Roger was born December 13, 1932, in Peoria, the son of John and Mary Deal. He was the eldest of four children, including brother John and sisters Theola, Naomi, and Eleanor (who died at birth). Growing up during the Great Depression, Roger was known for his popular, easygoing nature, his talent for playing the trumpet, and his love of playing all sports, especially basketball and softball. At Olivet Nazarene College, he majored in music and became deeply involved in church ministry. He composed spirituals and played the trumpet and piano in places of worship ranging from dusty tent meetings in Midwestern fields to missionary meetings in the hills outside Havana, Cuba. He recorded gospel music, too, including the album A Lovely Song, which featured songs such as "What a Day That Will Be" and "When They Ring Those Golden Bells." He would always keep that love of spirituals. Up until the final days of his life, he was known to sit down at the piano and sing spirituals such as "Just a Closer Walk with Thee."

Roger served on the Boylston school committee and was also elected as a selectman for the town of Boylston, Massachusetts. Long after he ended his years of service, he maintained an unofficial status as Boylston's counselor, always willing to offer words of advice and help when asked.

He is survived by his loving wife Joan, of Boylston, Massachusetts; and his children, Jody Getz, Cathy Segraves, Karen Bach, Daniel Deal, David Deal, Michael Deal, Stephen Deal and his stepson, Howard Rappaport. Roger will also be lovingly remembered by his brother, John (Trudy) Deal, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Calling Hours will be on Thursday, July 23, 2020 from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. in the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation Street, Worcester. His Funeral Service will be held privately, but will be "live streamed", and can be viewed on Friday, July 24, at 10 a.m., by visiting he funeral home website and selecting "live services". Interment will be at Pine Grove Cemetery in Boylston.

In accordance with public health guidelines, social distancing and the use of face masks that cover the nose and mouth, will be practiced during services.

In lieu of flowers, donation sin his memory may be made to First Congregational Church-Boylston, 10 Church Street, Boylston, MA 01505.

There is an online register for messages and condolences, it as well as the link for "live stream" can be found at

www.mercadantefuneral.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Jul. 20 to Jul. 22, 2020.

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Timothy Houlihan

July 27, 2020

So many memories and laughs - his sense of humor, Thursday "Prayer Sessions" at the Pub, the monthly Men's Breakfast at the Congo. He will be greatly missed. My condolences to the family.

Tammy & Kevin Allen

July 24, 2020

So sad to hear of Rogers passing. He was such a nice guy, his smile lit up the room & always made you feel welcome. Truly a kind soul who will be missed by everyone. Love to Joannie & the family ❤

Dana Albers

July 24, 2020

I will always remember Uncle Roger as a spirited, engaging and outgoing guy - he loved many and will be sorely missed. I am so sorry for his loss and hope and pray that good memories will comfort his family’s hearts.

Anthony Coli

July 24, 2020

You will be deeply missed Uncle Roger. Rest peacefully.

Gennifer Jeffries

July 24, 2020

Roger’s charm and charisma could brighten anyone’s day! My thoughts and prayers are with all of Roger’s family and friends. I know he was cherished by many.

John Page

July 24, 2020

To Joanie and her family. We are thinking of you and remembering Roger.
Sincerely John, Natalie and Elizabeth

Semra Olnick

July 24, 2020

My condolences to Joanie and Roger’s children. Know their memories will comfort them in the days ahead. Roger was truly a happy person which is a rarity. We will miss his humor and individual style. God bless him.

Pastor Dave and Kathy Buchanan

July 24, 2020

Dear Joan and Family,
Pastor Dave and I were saddened to read of Roger’s passing. We have fond memories of serving with him both in the Church and in the Town. He and Chuck Jasiak were responsible for Kathy’s election to the School Committee despite being new to Town We are grateful for his support over the years despite the ups and downs of church life. Blessings to you and to your family in this time of grief and know you are in our prayers. Pastor Dave and Kathy

James Merita Maya Rappaport

July 24, 2020

You will forever live in our hearts.

John and Diane Butler

July 23, 2020

Dear Joan and Steven,
Please accept our condolences as we stand with you from across the miles, sharing our thoughts and prayers. We recall Roger with great fondness. He always had a kind word to share. Perennially upbeat at every meeting, it was always good to see him.
May peace and fond memories find you, and may you also be well.
Yours sincerely,
John and Diane Butler

BRAD WYATT

July 23, 2020

I'll miss Roger's insight, guidance, and jokes. He always made me feel welcome. Very sorry for your loss.

Hank and Tom Wernoch

July 23, 2020

To Joan and Family,
Our sincere condolences to all of you on Roger's passing. We are happy to have known Roger and to have crossed paths in life as friends. We will keep you all in our prayers, and he will be missed.

Robert Mcclure

July 23, 2020

So sorry for your loss we will all miss him.

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JAMES PARTRIDGE

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Norm Wilkinson

July 23, 2020

Joan & Family - so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences

Thomas Reddington

July 23, 2020

Rest in peace Roger. I am glad that our paths have crossed in this lifetime.

Sharon Wulf

July 23, 2020

Dear Joan, Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. Sincerely, Sharon Wulf

Juleen and Gus Weber

July 23, 2020

We loved Roger! We will miss his kindness, wit, and words of encouragement. We will forever cherish all the memories of the fun adventures together. Our sincere sympathies to Joan and the family.

Kathleen Williams

July 22, 2020

Our hearts are with you, Joan, and all of the children as you say goodbye to Roger.
I know he will be greatly missed and as he already is in our extended family.

Peter and Anita Thomas

July 22, 2020

We are so sorry to hear of Roger's passing. Pete, Matt and I have such fond memories of our time together. We will never know anyone like him. He was one of a kind. We send our love and prayers to Joanie, Howie, Michael, Stephen and all of Roger's family. May he rest in peace.

Karin Brennan-Scholwin

July 22, 2020

Dear Joan, I am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed my conversations with Roger. He was such a joy when I used to attend church in Boylston. He will be sorely missed.

Scott Thulean

July 22, 2020

Roger (Uncle Rog to me) was a very special person who taught me many things. I miss him very much.

Richard & Tina Lewis & family

July 22, 2020

Condolences to the family Roger was a great nieghbor

Shams Bhada

July 22, 2020

Joan,

I am very sorry for your loss

Michael Ahern

July 22, 2020

My condolences to Joan and the entire family.

Peter and Pam Haynes

July 22, 2020

Roger was a treasured friend and we hold special memories over many years close to our hearts. We express our love and sympathy to his family.

Janice Deal

July 22, 2020

From the moment I met him, Roger always made me feel welcome and at home. I will never forget his keen intellect, that roguish sense of humor, and the sincere interest he took in others. His many interests and passions - from a love of music, tennis, and poker; to his role as a selectman for the town of Boylston - informed a person who was interesting and interested, engaged, funny, and generous. I will miss him.

David Deal

July 22, 2020

Dad taught me many things, among them: 1) Never stop loving God; 2) Music is life; 3) Listen before talking; 4) if you get spiked playing softball, keep going without complaint and . . . 5) Never let the world’s problems get in the way of watching a good football game. You are always loved and always missed.

Michele Erikson

July 22, 2020

Dear Joan and family. May God bless you and your family.My thoughts and prayers are with you. Michele Erikson

Sue Spies

July 22, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with Joan and the Deal family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Michele Erikson

July 22, 2020

Joan My thoughts and prayers to you and your family Michele Erikson

Linette Chalifoux

July 21, 2020

There are some people you meet in life who you will change your life when you meet them. Roger was one of them. He was kind to everyone he met and a role model for many.

Stephen Flavin

July 21, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Deal family. Roger was always a great host for the many Summer celebrations held at his home. His quick wit and welcoming personality will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Joan and family.

Anne McClure

July 21, 2020

Dearest Roger. We will miss you deeply. Your love. Your laughter. Your stories. Your inspiration. Your guidance. Your generosity. Your spirit. So many shared moments together. You have written your song on all our hearts. We will remember you forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Joanie as you go through this very difficult time. Lots of Love, Anne McClure & the McClure Family.

Cathy Segraves

July 21, 2020

My Dad made you feel like you were the most important person in the world. Everybody was special to him. He will be truly missed.

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Stephanie Gibree

July 21, 2020

Many good times. I learned a lot from Roger. He will be missed by many.
My condolence to his family whom he had tremendous love for.

Karen Bach

July 21, 2020

He was my father and I love him. He was a great man. He will always be in my heart. I will miss him everyday of my life.

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