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1924
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2020
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Emily Wildes Obituary
For 65 years, Mrs. Wildes resided in the Eastern Point area home her husband built. She raised two children there, and created a beautiful outdoor space. Mrs. Wildes was an accomplished gardener who, for many years belonged to an arts and crafts club. She was also a creative cook who drew upon her own American and Lebanese recipes.
Emily was predeceased by her brother Edward David; her sister Alice David Bantly; and her husband Warren. She is survived by two beloved children, Doretta Wildes of Middletown and Linda Wildes of Glastonbury; three adored grandchildren, Alex Maffucci of West Hartford, Emelie Winiski of Middletown and Max Maffucci of Brooklyn, N.Y.; and her dear sister-in-law, Bette Thomson of Groton. She also leaves behind many devoted nieces and nephews and their families.
A caring friend, as well as a loving wife and mother, Mrs. Wildes was proudest of her service as a cadet nurse during World War II, and loved to recount her experiences. Her family is grateful for all of her many sacrifices, her wisdom, her serious but good-humored approach to life, her high standards, her love of beauty and her willingness to accept us as we are. "Dearest Mom, you loved to sleep. Sleep well. We love and miss you."
A memorial reception will be held at 2 p.m. Nov. 14, at Par Four Restaurant, Groton. The burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, please send donations in Emily's name to Lawrence + Memorial Hospital, New London. To share memories or send condolences, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.
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Ron and Diane Reid
November 5, 2020
Dear Doretta,
We are so sorry for your loss. We know how devoted you were to Emily.
Your loving memories of your mother will stay with you and help you through your grief.
Love, Ron and Diane Reid
Barbara Frucht
November 2, 2020
Doretta and family. Your Mother and Father have always been kind and welcoming to me. We always joked about missing each other at church, and whenever we met Your Mother was interested in what I was doing and how I was getting along. Often she and Bette would stop by my room on their way to the Bistro, to say hello. She was a lovely woman.
Cynthia Casart
November 1, 2020
Doretta, Linda, Emelie & family,
I am so sorry for your loss. May your mom rest in peace.
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